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I've been taken advantage of again.
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2018-03-19 at 6:42 AM UTC
Originally posted by 杀死所有的白魔鬼 You're clearly NOT content because you keep making thread after thread after thread after fucking thread about how you are being bothered by the behavior of women. It bothers you so much show that you plan to (or at least joke about planning to) go through the work of 'becoming attractive' so you can FUCK THEM OVER (emotionally.)
There's really no game, Enter. Just be yourself. Talk about SOMETHING. If I ask my best friend what he's doing, he'll probably say 'not shit. u?' and then I'll be like "jerking off to you bb, wanna join?" and we can go on joking if we're both bored because that's what friends do. If you feel it is the end of a conversation when somebody replies very shortly to you (and this goes for any sort of relationship) then you are doing it wrong.
If you like someone and want to talk to them, you FIND something to say. Like I did with the certificate. Something else I did recently was send a picture of some tamales I was eating and ask if they'd ever eaten them. That girl who likes me at work, she will sometimes send shit like "getting up early sukz" and I TRY to respond but really, what can you say? For real Enter, what do I say to that? "Yeah it does" "I always get up early" "fuck clocks"
When you ask a woman what she's doing, and you don't already have a close relationship, what does she say? "not much" "just homework haha!" "nothin hbu" How is any person supposed to springboard off that? Yes, because you're a man, she probably thinks you're desperate. But if you did it to me and we only worked on one project together, I'd probably think you're just bored and lonely.
You have to give or you won't get. Two way street and all that. It's really not hard Enter, and if you really just want validation or something send them a fucking meme. Then you can have an inside joke or two when you meet in person. If they aren't laughing with you over it in person, you should probably move on.
Sounds like good advice but there's obviously no point in making a conversation with them (that isn't about college). They don't care, and just want the convo to end.
Here, this is the conversation copy and pasted that I had with the girl from the OP:
Me: So what you up to tonight? More work or actually doing something fun haha
Her: yeah just chilling with my friends. You?
Me: Don't make fun but I'm going to *Name of place here*
Her: haha I'm not judging, I like that place too.
Me: Well it's better than a club haha.
Her: depends on what day hahaha.
I never replied after that since it was going nowhere and she was probably preoccupied with her friends anyway. Then of course she messaged me the next day asking for help with another assignment. They don't want to make conversation with me because I'm ugly, they would rather be talking to an attractive guy.
And no I'm not doing this as a joke -- I genuinely am going to go through with this plan of becoming as attractive as possible (buff, etc) and then dating women on tinder only to hurt them emotionally by ghosting them after we say we love each other, telling them I was just dating them as a joke for kicks (like say I had a bet with my friends to see who could fuck the ugliest thot), etc. It's genuinely going to make me happy and fulfilled to do something like that. I also sort of did it once in 2016 when I asked out a girl and then cancelled at the last minute and never gave her a proper reason. She was really hurt by it, and I still get brain orgasms thinking back to it haha. So I KNOW this will be fulfilling. -
2018-03-19 at 6:51 AM UTCI really wish it didn't have to be like this. I'm aware this whole plan about fucking over women emotionally sounds ridiculous and juvenile, but it's really the only legal way I can get revenge on them.
I wish girls just liked me for who I am, but they don't. I'm in my late 20s now. I'm aware of it. -
2018-03-19 at 7:11 AM UTCI think they like you, you're just really bad at this and are stuck in the idea that they don't like you because of it. You can still get dates and can talk to women and have them invite you to shit. They fucking like you, Enter.
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2018-03-19 at 7:14 AM UTC
Originally posted by 杀死所有的白魔鬼 I think they like you, you're just really bad at this and are stuck in the idea that they don't like you because of it. You can still get dates and can talk to women and have them invite you to shit. They fucking like you, Enter.
They're just using me for my intelligence. How about I prove it? Towards the end of the semester, I'll ask one of them out on a date. I'll say, "Hey after our final exams and before I go to america, you wanna go to _______ (insert date place there)"?
Should I ask it like that? I'll ask it to the girl who I get along the most with throughout the semester, and then post my rejection on here and prove it once and for fucking all that they don't like me.
If I do it then, right near my USA trip, then I'll feel better about the rejection since I'm about to go partying/traveling anyway. -
2018-03-19 at 7:31 AM UTCLet's get this straight, you're going to ask a girl you met in class and worked with in class and only hung out with in class if she wants to go on a date across the Pacific Ocean? And if she rejects you, all women hate you?
What the fuck, Enter? What the fuck? -
2018-03-19 at 7:32 AM UTCNever mind. I read it wrong. Concept still applies, just cut the intensity of that post by about 60%.
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2018-03-19 at 7:33 AM UTC
Originally posted by 杀死所有的白魔鬼 Let's get this straight, you're going to ask a girl you met in class and worked with in class and only hung out with in class if she wants to go on a date across the Pacific Ocean? And if she rejects you, all women hate you?
What the fuck, Enter? What the fuck?
Lol wtf? Read my post again. I'm going to ask her if she wants to go on a date BEFORE I leave for america. I'm not allowed to do that because we only hung out in class? -
2018-03-19 at 7:33 AM UTC
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2018-03-19 at 7:33 AM UTCIME, school isn't a very good place to meet women. It's not conducive to dating unless you're living the dorm life and socializing with people and shit. Class is a very stodgy place to fraternize.
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2018-03-19 at 7:34 AM UTC
Originally posted by 杀死所有的白魔鬼 IME, school isn't a very good place to meet women. It's not conducive to dating unless you're living the dorm life and socializing with people and shit. Class is a very stodgy place to fraternize.
Then where the fuck am I meant to meet girls? This is fucking bullshit. You said these girls like me, yet I've met them all in class? So which is it?! -
2018-03-19 at 7:35 AM UTCYou're fucking with me, you're against me as well, that's why you've been sending my private messages to people and laughing at me.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-03-19 at 7:36 AM UTC
Originally posted by Enter How does the concept still apply? I can't ask out girls if I've only hung out with them in class?
You could, but you should do something first. Set up a group thing or invite her to hangout with you and your friends. Have lunch with her in between classes. Do a study group or work on a project outside of class. Find out where she hangs out and stalk her so you can 'run into her what a coincidence.'
Don't just jump from class to date. -
2018-03-19 at 7:36 AM UTCNobody actually wants me to get a gf, they all think it's funny that I'm such a loser. They're giving me the wrong advice to make them hate me even more.
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2018-03-19 at 7:37 AM UTC
Originally posted by 杀死所有的白魔鬼 You could, but you should do something first. Set up a group thing or invite her to hangout with you and your friends. Have lunch with her in between classes. Do a study group or work on a project outside of class. Find out where she hangs out and stalk her so you can 'run into her what a coincidence.'
Don't just jump from class to date.
Okay that sounds like a good idea. -
2018-03-19 at 7:37 AM UTCYou are massively paranoid.
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2018-03-19 at 7:43 AM UTCI can't wait to fuck them over. I want them to cry. I want them to experience the same turmoil that I have experienced, and am experiencing right now.
If I get good at this, my ULTIMATE plan will be to date one for THREE YEARS... make her fall in love with me. Make her think I'm in love with her. Make her think we're going to get married and have kids. And then fucking GHOST HER... after THREE YEARS hahahahahhaa. FUCKING BITCH. FUCKING HORRIBLE CUNT BITCH. I FUCKING HATE THEM SO MUCH> FUCKING WHORES -
2018-03-19 at 7:46 AM UTC
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2018-03-19 at 7:47 AM UTC
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2018-03-19 at 8:03 AM UTCI sent him one, because he did call you out on your shit. I never talked about you with him (or anyone else) besides that, I think. Definitely not about any of this woman shit though. Literally just the one picture, Enter.
Do you remember when I sent you information about hydro and you posted it in public? Non-maliciously of course, at least for me (hydro is a different story lol.) I didn't tell you not to post anything about it, so I wasn't upset when you did. I'm pretty sure I didn't even mention it. Like, if you really care, you could probably go through your pms and then go through your posts just after that date to find it, I think next day. I don't even remember what the fuck it was about, just that it was some personal detail. Hydro got all frizzled.
Feels hypocritical that you were upset by that tbh. But also I know you've shown you're generally distrusting and wary, so this probably didn't help matters. It was nothing malicious though m8. I just wanted to fuel the forum drama. Didn't think it was anything more. -
2018-03-19 at 8:08 AM UTC
Originally posted by 杀死所有的白魔鬼 I sent him one, because he did call you out on your shit. I never talked about you with him (or anyone else) besides that, I think. Definitely not about any of this woman shit though. Literally just the one picture, Enter.
Do you remember when I sent you information about hydro and you posted it in public? Non-maliciously of course, at least for me (hydro is a different story lol.) I didn't tell you not to post anything about it, so I wasn't upset when you did. I'm pretty sure I didn't even mention it. Like, if you really care, you could probably go through your pms and then go through your posts just after that date to find it, I think next day. I don't even remember what the fuck it was about, just that it was some personal detail. Hydro got all frizzled.
Feels hypocritical that you were upset by that tbh. But also I know you've shown you're generally distrusting and wary, so this probably didn't help matters. It was nothing malicious though m8. I just wanted to fuel the forum drama. Didn't think it was anything more.
You hinted that I posted information from you before, and I SWEAR I do not remembering doing that! I know it'll be a bitch for you to find, but do you actually have a source that it was me? Because I'm 99.999999% sure that it was NOT me who did that! The only reason there's a 0.0000001% piece of uncertainty is because of your accusations.
I have however posted PM's sent to me from hydromorphone (since she's a woman and therefore any sense of morals don't apply to her). But I have NEVER posted PM's sent by you.