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What's the best way to react if a date cancels on you?
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2018-02-11 at 2:40 PM UTC
Originally posted by Grimace Women hate most….being ignored. You can't ignore 100%, that just makes them give up. Ignore like, 90%. Tease them along with answering phone calls, but never texts. If you see them in public, act like you have an urgent thing you need to attend to and leave them hanging. They HATE being ignored.
It feels so good to fuck with them. -
2018-02-11 at 2:42 PM UTCSend her a pic of your fully erect dick and say "your loss".The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-02-11 at 2:44 PM UTC
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2018-02-11 at 2:44 PM UTCMy ideal relationship would be to date a girl and have her fall for me, and then ignore her.
I would act engaging, and romantic, and extremely into her. And then just one day cut if off with no reason given. I won't even say "we have to break up", I'll just stop talking to her. It'd fuck with her so much. Ugh I can't wait to fulfill this fantasy. I feel all warm inside just thinking about it.
I've done minor versions of this, like cancelling that date with the girl a few hours beforehand and not giving her a reason, etc. I feel like I can finally do the big one now though. :) -
2018-02-11 at 2:45 PM UTC
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2018-02-11 at 2:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter My ideal relationship would be to date a girl and have her fall for me, and then ignore her.
I would act engaging, and romantic, and extremely into her. And then just one day cut if off with no reason given. I won't even say "we have to break up", I'll just stop talking to her. It'd fuck with her so much. Ugh I can't wait to fulfill this fantasy. I feel all warm inside just thinking about it.
I've done minor versions of this, like cancelling that date with the girl a few hours beforehand and not giving her a reason, etc. I feel like I can finally do the big one now though. :)
See, that's just aspie retard shit. Don't do that. If a girl is into you, be into her too you moron. Give the cold shoulder to the ones that ditched you then think the might wanna try again. You're doing it wrong, Enter. -
2018-02-11 at 2:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter My ideal relationship would be to date a girl and have her fall for me, and then ignore her.
I would act engaging, and romantic, and extremely into her. And then just one day cut if off with no reason given. I won't even say "we have to break up", I'll just stop talking to her. It'd fuck with her so much. Ugh I can't wait to fulfill this fantasy. I feel all warm inside just thinking about it.
I've done minor versions of this, like cancelling that date with the girl a few hours beforehand and not giving her a reason, etc. I feel like I can finally do the big one now though. :)
Yes. For this to be fully effective though I would tap the pussy no less than three times though. Then you ghost boy that shit. -
2018-02-11 at 2:47 PM UTC
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2018-02-11 at 2:49 PM UTC
Originally posted by Grimace See, that's just aspie retard shit. Don't do that. If a girl is into you, be into her too you moron. Give the cold shoulder to the ones that ditched you then think the might wanna try again. You're doing it wrong, Enter.
I wouldn't do it to just any girl. Obviously if I found a sweet girl who I had a genuine attraction to, I wouldn't sabotage myself. But the majority of women I innately hate, and those are the ones I'd fuck with. -
2018-02-11 at 2:55 PM UTCEnter, the problem is that you over think things. I used to too. The problem with over thinking is you can drive yourself crazy and it makes you appear to be stiff af.
Take interviewing, for example. I used to try to go over all potential questions and have scripted answers at-the-ready. I don’t know how that made my face look, but probably, robotic, expressionless, and stiff. It would also give me anxiety and would cause unnecessary stress. On the flip side, when I would go in almost with a not-caring mindset, that’s when I would get the job. Of course you still care, but don’t worry so much about having all the right answers ready for every situation. Just know yourself and have some insight into the important parts about yourself that can be adapted to several questions and situations.
So back to your question. If a girl ever cancels, there can be so many variables that you aren’t thinking of now and can’t possibly think of ahead of time. For example, she might need to cancel because her mom died. You wouldn’t tell her to fuck off and you wouldn’t ignore her, so you just caused a lot of stress thinking of a scenario that didn’t even happen. Don’t worry about it now. Just free your mind up so you can be flexible and respond in the moment in a way that seems right for the moment.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-02-11 at 6:31 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter Exactly. She could even be embarrassed for cancelling, thinking "Did I just cancel something that he wasn't even thinking about?"
Wow haha, this LITERALLY gives me confidence to ask girls out now, in the hopes that they cancel so I can hurt them by not replying. XD It's win/win.
Nah, if someone genuinely has to cancel something, they'll always propose a new date themselves.
It's not:
"Hey §m£ÂgØL, I can't make it to the gay strip club with you tonight."
It's:
"Hey §m£ÂgØL, I can't make it to the gay strip club with you tonight, but maybe next weekend?"
Some people are socially retarded. Some people are anxious, or unsure. There's a million reasons why they might not immediately suggest a new date. -
2018-02-11 at 7:02 PM UTCMurder them.
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2018-02-11 at 7:04 PM UTCJust go ape shit
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2018-02-11 at 7:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by 哈哈你看不懂中文 Don't respond. It's simple, clean, and elegant. Bitch will probably be looking for your response.
that.
i had a first-date with a chick one time and half way thru the movie she came up with a stupid-ass excuse of her brother had some sort of catastrophic accident and she had to go. i figured it was because she wasnt interested and just wanted to gtfo so i said bye and stayed to watch the movie.
oddly enough...it turned out her brother really did have a catastrophic accident...we had a few more dates...etc etc -
2018-02-11 at 7:30 PM UTC
Originally posted by infinityshock i had a first-date with a chick one time and half way thru the movie she came up with a stupid-ass excuse of her brother had some sort of catastrophic accident and she had to go. i figured it was because she wasnt interested and just wanted to gtfo so i said bye and stayed to watch the movie.
did you get a refund from her pimp. -
2018-02-11 at 7:36 PM UTCIf a woman flakes on you call her out on being a flake. If she flakes after that just dump her and move on.
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2018-02-11 at 8:03 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter I'm going to start taking women and dating more seriously this year. If I were to get a text message with a girl saying she can't make it (without proposing a new date), what is the best way to react so she feels bad? If I were to reply with "fuck you cunt" then she'd just pass me off as a jerk and she'll know she made the right decision. But if I were to reply with, "Hey no problem! All good." then she won't feel bad about cancelling and possibly think I'm a faggot cuck.
personally i come out with 'oh that's cool, i got something come up anyway. i was just gonna call you about it.'
but then i'm not trying to make them feel bad.
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2018-02-11 at 8:14 PM UTC
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2018-02-11 at 9:20 PM UTC
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2018-02-11 at 9:25 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter I wouldn't do it to just any girl. Obviously if I found a sweet girl who I had a genuine attraction to, I wouldn't sabotage myself. But the majority of women I innately hate, and those are the ones I'd fuck with.
you're in a fucking dream world pal. i guarantee you even the girl with the least notches on her bedpost will have infinately more notches than you. if you think any girl is gonna be that cut up coz some little faggot loser like you dumped them, then fucking lol. they'll most likely be sucking fresh cock by the end of the day and you'll be a distant memory already.
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