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Just kicked out my girlfriend
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2017-10-13 at 3:08 AM UTC
Originally posted by Wick Sweat Now I gotta know. What are blue socks? Also, I find it hilarious that you ended a relationship over something that could have been solved by getting two pizzas lol. But if it's not going anywhere why keep her around.
The problem is that if I buy two pizzas, in a week she'll eat 1.8 pizzas.
And I'd kind of say she ended the relationship, I just formalized it. She's still be sitting here if she didn't double down and believe she was in the right (and that is fucking literally insane) -
2017-10-13 at 3:54 AM UTCAnd it was more about the principle than the pizza; I very calmly say "I'm not mad but don't eat this pizza, I got this one for myself" and she EATS THE PIZZA, and then LIES TO MY FACE ABOUT EATING THE PIZZA, the most obvious lie she could tell.
Actually, she first said "I didn't eat your pizza" and then I said "yes you did" and insisted, and then she said "okay I ate one slice". BITCH THE PIZZA HAD 8 SLICES AND NOW THERE ARE, WHAT THE SHIT?
The problem is what that indicates; I know she's lying and she knows I know she's lying. But she's expecting me to go "oh yeah sure, you must have eaten a single slice". She's expecting me to meet her in the middle on the truth so she can save face in her own mind, and she doesn't have to feel bad for eating my pizza and being caught in a shit lie.
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2017-10-13 at 4:03 AM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon And it was more about the principle than the pizza; I very calmly say "I'm not mad but don't eat this pizza, I got this one for myself" and she EATS THE PIZZA, and then LIES TO MY FACE ABOUT EATING THE PIZZA, the most obvious lie she could tell.
Actually, she first said "I didn't eat your pizza" and then I said "yes you did" and insisted, and then she said "okay I ate one slice". BITCH THE PIZZA HAD 8 SLICES AND NOW THERE ARE, WHAT THE SHIT?
The problem is what that indicates; I know she's lying and she knows I know she's lying. But she's expecting me to go "oh yeah sure, you must have eaten a single slice". She's expecting me to meet her in the middle on the truth so she can save face in her own mind, and she doesn't have to feel bad for eating my pizza and being caught in a shit lie.
Fuck that.
That's a personality problem. Though I'll bet you've got a few of your own, it's no one's responsibility to deal with anyone elses.
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2017-10-13 at 4:07 AM UTCnow that you have the house to yourself you should try like 4 hits of acid
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2017-10-13 at 4:11 AM UTC
Originally posted by Wick Sweat That's a personality problem. Though I'll bet you've got a few of your own, it's no one's responsibility to deal with anyone elses.
- Ernest Hemingway
The thing with me is, I don't give a fuck what personality flaws you have, as long as you can be self aware about them and make an honest effort to improve on them.
Lying to me to make me THINK you're making progress and falsely regaining my trust is only progress in your degeneracy. It's a shitty thing to do.
What's also shitty is to blame your dishonesty on me, because I guess I'm scary? Fuck me for reacting, right? Man, I have never hit a woman before but I wish I did so at least I got to reap the benefits of her unjustified fear of me, which meant I deserved to be lied to. -
2017-10-13 at 4:12 AM UTC
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2017-10-13 at 5:59 AM UTCYou'll be back with her in less than a week.
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2017-10-13 at 6 AM UTCNah. I'm already crushing on another girl, lol.
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2017-10-13 at 6:07 AM UTCI high-texted her lol
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2017-10-13 at 6:08 AM UTC
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2017-10-13 at 6:51 AM UTCI thought the ass eels were an Oriental thing.
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2017-10-13 at 7:05 AM UTCLul n1 sperclat
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2017-10-13 at 7:43 AM UTCOops I just saw the Pixies and they went hard! YayyyyyThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-10-13 at 10:06 AM UTCnot sure if this thread is less believable than the idea of capt'n dating a junkie. I'd put it pretty close to a 50/50.
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2017-10-13 at 11:02 AM UTCAlways sunny in Philadelphia reference?
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2017-10-13 at 11:36 AM UTC
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2017-10-13 at 11:37 AM UTC
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2017-10-13 at 11:47 AM UTCOne additional bit of context: she had broken her promise to fulfill [CONDITION] before, let's say 5+ times in different ways. 3+ times for [BLUE SOCKS], many times for other parts of [CONDITION].
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2017-10-13 at 12:30 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon I'm not going to go into specifics but I'll speak in "terms":
Part 1:
- She did bad shit ABCDEFGHIJKL
- I did horrible shit M
- She did bad shit NOPQRSDTUVWXYZ
- She lies about literally everything and blames it on being afraid of my reaction
Part 2:
- To make up for all the bad shit and to regain my trust, she has to fulfill [CONDITION] every month
- Fulfilling [CONDITION] is "make up" work, it's not her actually fulfilling the responsibilities she should have
- Part of fulfilling [CONDITION] is following a house rule: "don't bring [BLUE SOCKS] into my house"
Part 3:
- I'm rooting through a bathroom cabinet, I find [BLUE SOCKS]
- Confront her, talk to her like an adult and tell her "[BLUE SOCKS] are not allowed in my house, that was part of us rebuilding trust"
- Her response: "I'm fulfilling other parts of [CONDITION] therefore I don't need to abide by your house rule, and your house rule is simply in place to control me"
- We argue, I tell her not to violate my rules again and that fulfilling [CONDITION] does not mean she can violate my house rules, we both apparently resolve it and she promises to fully fulfill [CONDITION]
Part 4:
- I bring home [PIZZA]
- I can make [PIZZA] last for a week
- Open up the fridge 1/2 of all the [PIZZA] is gone
- Whatever; sit down with her, talk to her about not eating all the [PIZZA]
- Get more [PIZZA], give her [SLICE] and say "this is your dinner for tonight. please leave the rest of the [PIZZA] for me"
Note: My only issue is that she is selfishly inconveniencing me like some kind of [person with an eating disorder]. I don't care about the cost of the pizza, it's just not fair that I only ever get to eat one slice.
Part 5:
Happened as of yesterday
- Motherfucking half my [PIZZA] is gone again
- I talk to her, she straight up lies instantly, and a blatant and obvious lie that there is no way I do not see through.
- Whatever, tell her not to eat [PIZZA]
- Next morning, I find [BLUE SOCKS] hidden away again, but this time more cleverly
- I confront her
- Literally the exact same response and argument as last time
- No apologies
- No regret
- Same exact answer as last time, which I can rationally and logically demonstrate to her is bullshit, yet she will not agree to my house rules again.
Conclusion: GTFO
My reasoning: I cannot trust her to change her ways. She already said she would, and used it as cover to step outside of her boundaries, and clearly does not give a fuck about making up for her mistakes, following my house rules etc. Any extra chances I give her will simply be used to transgress again. She is completely unapologetic, so there is no chance to salvage trust.
Fuck, I still love her and care about her and shit, but I can't live my life with someone who doesn't respect all that I've put up with and done for them, and are willing to shit on my trust because they cannot resist the urge for [PIZZA] and [BLUE SOCKS]. My rules were simple and not difficult to adhere to, but ignored on basic impulse
man you sound like a fucking control freak. who the fuck makes house rules and imposes them on their girlfriend?
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2017-10-13 at 12:36 PM UTC
Originally posted by NARCassist man you sound like a fucking control freak. who the fuck makes house rules and imposes them on their girlfriend?
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Man you sound like a fucking bitch. Who the fuck doesn't have any house rules? Can I come over and shit in your sink?
Never mind, I don't even know why I'm replying to you when literally all you do is be an incredibly shit troll in public posts, then PM me acting all nice and shit. Be real, my dude.
