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People Don't Like Me
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2017-10-11 at 8:45 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sophie First impression has more to do with looks than relation building. I'm not a liberal but i will tell you that people will judge you on how you make them feel. If you're a likable fellow and don't look like a complete greasy weirdo with a neckbeard AKA average looking but well kempt you will do fine. Of course an insecure beta would think things like "Oh people are just so shallow and mean! I am such a wonderful guy they just judge me because i am not a 11/10 Chad." Bullshit, if you feel like a loser you exude it in your body language, people will pick up on that real quick. Since people are bad judges of character they will assume that you are how you present yourself to them. Act like a loser weirdo that thinks nobody likes them and sure enough nobody will, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The majority of people on this site have interesting/fun personalities. But if we were better looking, we wouldn't have to be here. Deny it all you want. -
2017-10-11 at 10:25 AM UTCLUL Enter is an ugly self defeating incel. Who woulda thunk?
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2017-10-11 at 11:13 AM UTCYep, okay. When's Sophie or mmQ coming back.
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2017-10-11 at 11:51 AM UTCDo you guys think I'm trying to hard with apperance?
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2017-10-11 at 12:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter The majority of people on this site have interesting/fun personalities. But if we were better looking, we wouldn't have to be here. Deny it all you want.
I think you're denying the fact that even though you may be average looking it's actually your attitude towards life and yourself and how you conduct yourself that is the problem. Hey, i get it man, it's easier to blame others and call everyone shallow than to admit you have some personality flaws that are far more self-destructive than you'd like to admit. Not all hope is lost, just like you can work out to get your body into shape you can put effort into changing your mental state. It will be hard and perhaps even painful to you to admit and work on these things but in the long run you will be better off for it.
Originally posted by Enter Yep, okay. When's Sophie or mmQ coming back.
I'm here,
Originally posted by SBTlauien Do you guys think I'm trying to hard with apperance?
Like i said Enter is not entirely wrong, sure, how you look is important, especially when making a first impression but it's your mental state that may just need some work as well. Just like your body. -
2017-10-11 at 12:39 PM UTC
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2017-10-11 at 1:42 PM UTCI'm not the prettiest twink around, but I have never once in my life felt that my looks kept me away from talking to anybody or doing anything. Sophie is 100% on the 'how you make them feel' aspect.
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2017-10-11 at 2:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enter Either way you want to spin it, you're a moron. That's like saying one of the shittiest character traits there is is to be attracted to other human beings.
Why are you pretending to be stupid as shit?
I usually go out of my way to make my points on here very clear and easily understandable to most anyone. Either you're fucking with me or you're somehow not only dumb, you're dumber than most everyone here.
Here's a real quick breakdown of our exchange. I'll try to make it extremely easy for you to understand what is being said:
ME: I think it's in poor taste to dismiss someone because of their looks.
YOU: Liberal!
ME: If you say so. (So far you haven't taken a stance just called me a name)
YOU: Typical liberal response! You think people don't judge off looks!
ME: Not at all what I said. I said that doing so is dumb. Lots of people do it.
YOU: Well, OK so I have poor comprehension, but you're still a moron. You think it's a shitty trait to be attracted to someone physically.
To which I haven't yet responded.
ME: Jesus fuck. It's nothing like that at all. Physical sexual attraction to someone is obviously natural, and even yet you find scores of couples where one is blatantly more attractive than the other.
Let me say it one other way and maybe you'll get it.
If you've ever gotten along with someone "weird looking" but avoided being seen with them because of that, you're shitty.
If you meet some new people and based off physical appearance decide who you might get along with better, that's understandable. If you automatically decide you won't interact with the "unattractive" ones, you are shitty, and dense.
If you're embarrassed to be associated with weird looking people, that's on you and your low self-esteem.
If you refuse to try and get along with someone because of their physical appearance alone, that is a shitty character trait.
What if you were blind? Would you end a relationship with someone who you loved because you later found out they have a bunch of scars and burns all over their body? Not trying best example but I'm trying to help you understand.
Do you understand?
You still don't, do you?The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-10-11 at 4:21 PM UTCSoooo what youre saying mq is...........
you're a liberal? -
2017-10-11 at 4:33 PM UTC
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2017-10-11 at 4:36 PM UTC
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2017-10-11 at 4:40 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sophie Like i said Enter is not entirely wrong, sure, how you look is important, especially when making a first impression but it's your mental state that may just need some work as well. Just like your body.
and lets not forget age.
age differences are very significant. you may look more or less the same as you were once upon a time but becos you've reached a certain age, people are going to treat you very differently.
i used to be that cool brother that every kids in the neighborhood like to be friends with and do shows and tells ....
but now twenty years later i'm just an old pesky uncle whose hands they have to keep swatting away as if their some bothersome flies.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-10-11 at 4:47 PM UTC
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2017-10-11 at 4:49 PM UTCWho gives a fuck? Less people to bug you with their problems and ask for "help".
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2017-10-11 at 5 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon Post or PM me a picture, I'll tell you what's up.
I'm not sending pictures.
It must be a personality thing with me then. I can't figure it out though. I really can't see or sense my personality. I can see others, like little traits they have. But mine isn't there, almost like I don't have one.
Is it possible to not have a personality? -
2017-10-11 at 5:04 PM UTCWhat situations have led you to believe this?
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2017-10-11 at 5:15 PM UTC
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2017-10-11 at 5:55 PM UTCI don't know exactly, but looking back I think people have hinted at it. Also I have no bondage with anyone, ever. I'm like alone my whole life.
Is it actually possible though? -
2017-10-11 at 6:13 PM UTCYou need psychiatric help, buddy. It's not bad or anything.
People don't just dislike you for the sake of it. That's in your head. You probably overvalue certain negative situations, reactions etc. and don't realize the positive ones.
You've got the entire site trying to help you out n shit. We are real people. It is possible. It can get better irl, too.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-10-11 at 6:13 PM UTCMaybe you're just a fucking cunt, though.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
