Originally posted by Totse 2001
I love her but she's high maintenance and I don’t make money.
The nice thing is regardless if I buy food or She does.. we share everything. and since I can't cook (and Im dangerous around a stove) She cooks nearly every dinner, makes lunch for me and I usually make Breakfast for us.
But she whines, wants to sleep in and if Im in the bedroom (she let me put my computer in since I can't share her office room) she yell at me to get off and go to bed or go into the other room. But when I have to get up at 4:30 am she's keeping me up going to bed at midnight or 1am at times just doing annoying ass shit. having to put on all her ointments and night facial wahses and then for an hour, shell soak her feet and run this loud pedicure which sounds like a really loud electic shaver. grinder her feet. she does this every 5 days and usually before she goes to be. then she puts on vasoline on her feet but wont give me a foot Job because it's too weird for her. so I'm lying in bed and she has these oily feet rubbing up against me.
Then.. she flails her arms at night and elbows me in the face.
She's an Artist and bounces back from Oil to Watercolors. then says it's too toxic and then switches to digitial art and then back to painting. her artroom is so toxic smelling from the fucking paint pigments. some of them have radioactive materials in the silver paints. I can't be in that room for more than 5 minutes without having asthma. so we close it off for the most part.
And she's always going off on a walk and doesn't come back for hours. she dolls herself up and leaves for hours. But if I ask her where she went.. she fucking accuses me of being an asshole jelous faggot.
so I don't even ask her anymore.. I been working more and more and not even ask questions. but she hints to buy her shoes or scarves or go to these artsie fartsie things and wants me to buy expensive silk scarves or pieces which I hardly do. She knows Im a broke ass. I can barely send my kids money now. I havn't in 2 months because I'm falling behind.
How do you guys get out of buying shoes or shit whenevr your girlfriend takes you to some mall?
This is SG
my gf doesn't take me to the mall. I buy shoes when I need them I have a couple pairs of vans and a couple pairs of nike skateboarding shoes.
my gf buys cheaper shoes / clothing than I do yet makes more money than I do.
my gf is actually the opposite when it comes to her sleeping and me wanting to be on the lappy (I almost never sleep) I go to my cats room and get on my lappy so I can drink a beer and coffee and get on the interwebs and let her sleep in. But she will wake up and come to the room and ask what I'm doing in there.
The last few girls I've dated that would sleep over at my place did the same thing. In fact one girl asked me if I have any fetishes that I don't want to tell her about and if thats why I go to the other room. But I just go to the other room to chill out and not wake her up, I eventually go back.
