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I need some inspiring words
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2017-09-29 at 1:12 AM UTCno, its not no not no not yes, no, yes, its no.
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2017-09-29 at 1:16 AM UTCNo, it's not no, it's not no not no not yes, no, yes, it's no, it's yes.
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2017-09-29 at 1:18 AM UTCYou are correct sir!
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2017-09-29 at 1:18 AM UTCi think its hilarious u kids talking shit about NO. u wouldnt say this shit to him at lan, hes jacked. not only that but he wears the freshest clothes, eats at the chillest restaurants and hangs out with the hottest dudes. yall are pathetic lol
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2017-09-29 at 7:19 PM UTCi just spoke to her on the phone, we're booking a visit for friday. ffs, she's asking me to smuggle in something, a certain substance, lol.
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2017-09-29 at 7:29 PM UTCshould i go thru with it tho? wouldn't i just be encouraging her addiction?
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2017-09-29 at 7:53 PM UTCI dunno man. Do you think actually going through treatment will eventually make her happier, enable her to make better choices and live a better life, or is that all bullshit?
If you don't bring her anything is she going to resent you? Is she just going to call one of her old "clients" to come bring her some instead and forget about you?
Are you investing too much thought on someone you don't really know who you met almost as soon as you got out of prison and got into a relationship with relatively quickly? Is it worth it?
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2017-09-29 at 7:58 PM UTC
Originally posted by mashlehash Yes
Originally posted by NARCassist no not yes, no
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Originally posted by LegalizeSpiritualDiscovery No not no not yes, no, yes.
Originally posted by NARCassist no, its not no not no not yes, no, yes, its no.
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Originally posted by LegalizeSpiritualDiscovery No, it's not no, it's not no not no not yes, no, yes, it's no, it's yes.
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2017-09-29 at 10:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by Open Your Mind I dunno man. Do you think actually going through treatment will eventually make her happier, enable her to make better choices and live a better life, or is that all bullshit?
If you don't bring her anything is she going to resent you? Is she just going to call one of her old "clients" to come bring her some instead and forget about you?
Are you investing too much thought on someone you don't really know who you met almost as soon as you got out of prison and got into a relationship with relatively quickly? Is it worth it?
Be true to yourself.
i think she's worth it yeah
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2017-10-01 at 7:15 AM UTC
Originally posted by NARCassist i just spoke to her on the phone, we're booking a visit for friday. ffs, she's asking me to smuggle in something, a certain substance, lol.
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Ask her if shes sick, how shes feeling. Maybe instead bring her some valiums and xanax or something. Tell her if she wants to score when she gets out, fine. But your mind can tempt your periodcally and make you act irrationally. Shes put all this time and effort into improving her life.
I spent a good 20 years of my life studying the Bible believe it or not, so certain things have stuck in my mind. When i have someone in my life that I care about that wants be to get them something i know is no good for them, I tell them something along the lines of "Ask me three times. You know youre going to completely fuck up your life and sobriety if you do this, but youre an adult, and Im not going to be able to protect you from yourself. So....?"
"Can you get me some ___?"
"No."
And at this point a lot of times the wheels start turning. They see how desperate theyre sounding.
"Come on. I just need something for a couple of days until I can see a doctor for my back..."
"No, dude"
"Come on. I swear Ill never call you for anything again"
"So thats what you want? You know youre on probation. You know youre throwing away sobriety. You know youre fucking up chances of getting to see your kids again. You remember how bad you felt when you were deep in it, when you wanted to die, and you wouldve given anything just to go back to the way things were before? Knowing all that....you still want it?"
"Yeah...just for this weekend, until I can see my..."
"Fine. There."
Tell her to call you and ask you three days in a row. If its just a junkie whim, shell drop it. But let her know what it means.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-10-01 at 2:24 PM UTC
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2017-10-04 at 9:50 AM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER Ask her if shes sick, how shes feeling. Maybe instead bring her some valiums and xanax or something. Tell her if she wants to score when she gets out, fine. But your mind can tempt your periodcally and make you act irrationally. Shes put all this time and effort into improving her life.
I spent a good 20 years of my life studying the Bible believe it or not, so certain things have stuck in my mind. When i have someone in my life that I care about that wants be to get them something i know is no good for them, I tell them something along the lines of "Ask me three times. You know youre going to completely fuck up your life and sobriety if you do this, but youre an adult, and Im not going to be able to protect you from yourself. So….?"
"Can you get me some ___?"
"No."
And at this point a lot of times the wheels start turning. They see how desperate theyre sounding.
"Come on. I just need something for a couple of days until I can see a doctor for my back…"
"No, dude"
"Come on. I swear Ill never call you for anything again"
"So thats what you want? You know youre on probation. You know youre throwing away sobriety. You know youre fucking up chances of getting to see your kids again. You remember how bad you felt when you were deep in it, when you wanted to die, and you wouldve given anything just to go back to the way things were before? Knowing all that….you still want it?"
"Yeah…just for this weekend, until I can see my…"
"Fine. There."
Tell her to call you and ask you three days in a row. If its just a junkie whim, shell drop it. But let her know what it means.
what? she was only asking for coffee man. they only allow decaf in there for some reason and she was asking me to get her some normal coffee in, lol.
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2017-10-04 at 11:17 AM UTC
Originally posted by NARCassist what? she was only asking for coffee man. they only allow decaf in there for some reason and she was asking me to get her some normal coffee in, lol.
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Lol, that fucking sucks
Even when I was in the psychiatric hospital they had espresso. I used to piss the nurses off so bad because they would have to give me clonidine for high blood pressure and then I'd go drink espresso because I liked the way the combo made me feel -
2017-10-04 at 11:25 AM UTCThey only allow decaf because caffeine is a psychoactive drug and they don't want it to interact with whatever meds the patients are on. Probably not a good idea to disregard the doctors.
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2017-10-04 at 3:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by CASPER Ask her if shes sick, how shes feeling. Maybe instead bring her some valiums and xanax or something. Tell her if she wants to score when she gets out, fine. But your mind can tempt your periodcally and make you act irrationally. Shes put all this time and effort into improving her life.
I spent a good 20 years of my life studying the Bible believe it or not, so certain things have stuck in my mind. When i have someone in my life that I care about that wants be to get them something i know is no good for them, I tell them something along the lines of "Ask me three times. You know youre going to completely fuck up your life and sobriety if you do this, but youre an adult, and Im not going to be able to protect you from yourself. So….?"
"Can you get me some ___?"
"No."
And at this point a lot of times the wheels start turning. They see how desperate theyre sounding.
"Come on. I just need something for a couple of days until I can see a doctor for my back…"
"No, dude"
"Come on. I swear Ill never call you for anything again"
"So thats what you want? You know youre on probation. You know youre throwing away sobriety. You know youre fucking up chances of getting to see your kids again. You remember how bad you felt when you were deep in it, when you wanted to die, and you wouldve given anything just to go back to the way things were before? Knowing all that….you still want it?"
"Yeah…just for this weekend, until I can see my…"
"Fine. There."
Tell her to call you and ask you three days in a row. If its just a junkie whim, shell drop it. But let her know what it means.
What the hell does this have to do with studying the Bible for 20 years. I'm pretty sure I saw this technique on an episode of Lost. -
2017-10-04 at 3:14 PM UTC
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2017-10-04 at 3:22 PM UTC
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2017-10-04 at 5:26 PM UTC
Originally posted by NARCassist so my chick is going into rehab on wednesday and i just bought her a book to help pass the time while she's in there. when we were in town the other day she was looking for a book on psychology, it seems it interests her. so she didn't find one, but yesterday i got her one from the book shop up the road. she doesn't know i've got it for her so i'm going to surprise her before she goes. i want to write something inspiring inside the book, something personal from me to her, but i'm really fucking useless at coming up with shit like that. so i was wondering if any of you reprobates could give me some ideas.
what y'all got for me nigga's?
dont be surprised when all those drugs finally left her body and without the the influence of druggs, she finally begin to see you for what you really are and leave you.
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2017-10-05 at 7:06 AM UTC
Originally posted by benny vader dont be surprised when all those drugs finally left her body and without the the influence of druggs, she finally begin to see you for what you really are and leave you.
druggs, or the lack of it changes people.
yep, way ahead of you on that one.
the rehab have cancelled my visit because they found out where I am living and know its rife with drugs here. I'm seriously pissed off about this atm. not only that I got told Tuesday that my place that I applied for months ago has come up. I'm moving today, 70 fucking miles away. feel like my whole life has been picked up and smashed into the floor right now. its typical uh? I wanted to move there before I met her. now I want to stay but can't, I have no choice in it. -
2017-10-05 at 9:01 AM UTC
Originally posted by NARCassist yep, way ahead of you on that one.
the rehab have cancelled my visit because they found out where I am living and know its rife with drugs here. I'm seriously pissed off about this atm. not only that I got told Tuesday that my place that I applied for months ago has come up. I'm moving today, 70 fucking miles away. feel like my whole life has been picked up and smashed into the floor right now. its typical uh? I wanted to move there before I met her. now I want to stay but can't, I have no choice in it.
Yeah you do.
