Things that women are better at

2017-08-01 at 7:57 PM UTC

#121

Malice Naturally Camouflaged

Excerpted from On Women by Arthur Schopenhauer, one of the wisest men in history. Profoundly prescient and far ahead of his time.
https://ebooks.adelaide.edu.au/s/schopenhauer/arthur/essays/chapter5.html

The nobler and more perfect a thing is, the later and slower is it in reaching maturity. Man reaches the maturity of his reasoning and mental faculties scarcely before he is eight-and-twenty; woman when she is eighteen; but hers is reason of very narrow limitations. This is why women remain children all their lives, for they always see only what is near at hand, cling to the present, take the appearance of a thing for reality, and prefer trifling matters to the most important. It is by virtue of man’s reasoning powers that he does not live in the present only, like the brute, but observes and ponders over the past and future; and from this spring discretion, care, and that anxiety which we so frequently notice in people. The advantages, as well as the disadvantages, that this entails, make woman, in consequence of her weaker reasoning powers, less of a partaker in them. Moreover, she is intellectually short-sighted, for although her intuitive understanding quickly perceives what is near to her, on the other hand her circle of vision is limited and does not embrace anything that is remote; hence everything that is absent or past, or in the future, affects women in a less degree than men. This is why they have greater inclination for extravagance, which sometimes borders on madness. Women in their hearts think that men are intended to earn money so that they may spend it, if possible during their husband’s lifetime, but at any rate after his death.

2017-08-01 at 7:59 PM UTC

#122

mmQ Lisa Turtle

Originally posted by What_a_Kreep There's nothing wrong with having casual sex and not wanting a monogamous relationship with someone. I think that it only really counts as being a "fucked up" thing to do if you're not up front about this from the beginning, giving someone false hope only to ditch them shows lack of character IMO. I'm not saying that's what you did, it just came to mind after I read your post. Also, if the man or woman who is being lead on, told "I really like you, I think we have something special here, then gets the old fuck and chuck, getting hurt multiple times is partially their fault for continuing to put themselves in that situation.

Have you always felt this way? Ever had a long lasting monogamous relationship? I'm genuinely asking because I can kind of relate to not wanting anything serious for a large part of my life. Litemex is pretty much the first REAL boyfriend I've had. I've had hookups, friends with benefits and short 2 week lasting attempts at relationship. After reading your post, I was just wondering if there's ever been a girl that you actually had feelings for and where it was YOU who wanted to do the cuddling.

I mean, yeah, I have, but I'm not really the cuddling type anyway, like when I'm done fucking I'd rather get up and go do something, I don't like to just lay there. That part is probably just my personality, similar to how I am unable to fall asleep with another person in my bed- spooning or cuddling or even just being in my bed, I'm unable to sleep, it's not fun for me. I mean, I can do it but not when I want to go to bed. I think I mentioned before my last gf and I had a 'super-bed' for this very reason, her and I's beds in the same room, close together but separated by a small dresser that sort of gave me the sense of privacy that I need to fall asleep.

As far as the cumming and being done thing, I've pretty much always been that way. My sex drive is contained within my load, and once it leaves me, I literally feel almost repulsed by sex, it doesn't sound appealing whatsoever.

2017-08-01 at 9:10 PM UTC

#123

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by mmQ I mean, yeah, I have, but I'm not really the cuddling type anyway, like when I'm done fucking I'd rather get up and go do something, I don't like to just lay there. That part is probably just my personality, similar to how I am unable to fall asleep with another person in my bed- spooning or cuddling or even just being in my bed, I'm unable to sleep, it's not fun for me. I mean, I can do it but not when I want to go to bed. I think I mentioned before my last gf and I had a 'super-bed' for this very reason, her and I's beds in the same room, close together but separated by a small dresser that sort of gave me the sense of privacy that I need to fall asleep.

As far as the cumming and being done thing, I've pretty much always been that way. My sex drive is contained within my load, and once it leaves me, I literally feel almost repulsed by sex, it doesn't sound appealing whatsoever.

Would you be okay if I slept in your bed

2017-08-01 at 9:26 PM UTC

#124

mmQ Lisa Turtle

Originally posted by Captain Falcon Would you be okay if I slept in your bed

Go for it, as long as I'm not in it at the same time. It's actually Chootie's bed anyway, and I'm sure she would share it with you. I sleep on the couch.

2017-08-01 at 9:44 PM UTC

#125

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by mmQ Go for it, as long as I'm not in it at the same time. It's actually Chootie's bed anyway, and I'm sure she would share it with you. I sleep on the couch.

Would you be okay if I slept on your couch, with you, ass to ass?

2017-08-01 at 9:48 PM UTC

#126

mmQ Lisa Turtle