He visited me once as a crisis apparition. The day he died I went to sleep and dreamt that he was calling my name. He was standing at the door of the room where his things are, was in a hospital gown and wanted to give me a hug.
If scary shit starts happening I'm gonna assume it's this because I'm stressed:
"The idea that teenage girls create poltergeists comes from observations that poltergeist activity (like objects moving or strange noises) often occurs around adolescents, particularly girls going through puberty. Some parapsychologists and researchers suggest that this is due to the intense emotional and psychological changes during this period. They theorize that these changes might unconsciously produce psychokinetic energy, which could cause physical disturbances in their environment.
This phenomenon is sometimes called "Recurrent Spontaneous Psychokinesis" (RSPK). According to this theory, the stress, anxiety, and hormonal fluctuations of adolescence might trigger this energy. However, this is a speculative idea, not scientifically proven, and skeptics argue that such disturbances are more likely due to natural causes or even intentional pranks.
The connection to teenage girls might also be cultural, as historical cases often focused on them, possibly due to societal perceptions of young women as emotionally volatile or mysterious. The association persists in popular culture and folklore but isn't backed by empirical scientific evidence."