Assuming some of you saw me with an axe

1. 2025-01-29 at 7:10 PM UTC

   #1
   Dirtbag African Astronaut
   But what did you think of my outfit? I was trying to channel comfortable in my feminity while being a feminist. Should I have worn nail polish? Too much modesty is a bad thing; I'm aiming for that fine line. Was it too modest? Was the style outdated or okay for nowadays?
2. 2025-01-29 at 7:12 PM UTC

   #2
   Dirtbag African Astronaut
   The shoes were mary jane Docs style, cuteness embodied but also practical for stomping.
3. 2025-01-29 at 7:13 PM UTC

   #3
   Incessant African Astronaut
   It was fine. If we overthink these things we are letting them win and steal time and effort we could have spent on better things. Just be yourself.
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4. 2025-01-29 at 7:19 PM UTC

   #4
   Dirtbag African Astronaut
   It's a trifle for me, because pink dresses can be seen as girly, and woolen ones were what Victorian housewives wore in the mornings. Did I manage to come across as intimidating while wearing this? That's what matters.
5. 2025-01-29 at 7:20 PM UTC

   #5
   Dirtbag African Astronaut
   What I aim for is to embrace the girly and maintain my intimidation.
6. 2025-01-29 at 7:31 PM UTC

   #6
   

   the man who put it in my hood Black Hole [miraculously counterclaim my golf]
   I guess you can say she has an axe to grind with this community
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7. 2025-01-29 at 7:31 PM UTC

   #7
   Incessant African Astronaut
   I think your logic is sound. Whats most important is how you carry yourself. And that you like what you are wearing so you can be confident.
8. 2025-01-29 at 7:32 PM UTC

   #8
   Dirtbag African Astronaut
   It is a challenge to dress the perfect way as a woman. Men respect women who dress more masculine but also mock them for it or direct aggression. They desire women who dress feminine but don't take them seriously. You can't win, but I will still try.
9. 2025-01-29 at 7:33 PM UTC

   #9
   Dirtbag African Astronaut

   Originally posted by the man who put it in my hood I guess you can say she has an axe to grind with this community

   
   I was so bad at it. Was my first time axe-throwing. Didn't take into account that I have delayed motor function.
10. 2025-01-29 at 7:33 PM UTC

    #10
    Incessant African Astronaut
    I’ve found in the work place heeled boots, jeans, and nice tops/a blazer achieves this and toe the line well.
11. 2025-01-29 at 7:34 PM UTC

    #11
    Rough Rider African Astronaut
    I would axe you how you're doing
12. 2025-01-29 at 7:39 PM UTC

    #12
    Dirtbag African Astronaut

    Originally posted by Incessant I’ve found in the work place heeled boots, jeans, and nice tops/a blazer achieves this and toe the line well.

    
    Eh. Only thing I can do is be my stylish self. Everything I wear will look good even if it doesn't appeal to everyone. When dressing I have to decide if I want to look intimating or beautiful. I feel good either way, both offer power. Others will make assumptions, but at the end of the day I will still look great.
13. 2025-01-29 at 7:41 PM UTC

    #13
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    I just wish I could dress in a way so people wouldn't make assumptions. It was only in a lesbian relationship that I felt comfortable wearing lolita dresses and frills, because I knew she wouldn't make assumptions about who I am. And if I dress masculine people assume I'm a dyke when I'm not, I hate aggression whether it comes from men or women.
14. 2025-01-29 at 7:43 PM UTC

    #14
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    Until people stop making sexist assumptions all my outfit choices will be calculated.
15. 2025-01-29 at 7:43 PM UTC

    #15
    Rough Rider African Astronaut
    I like to have sex with women in dresses in public. Does that make me a bad person or a very horny man at the supermarket
16. 2025-01-29 at 7:44 PM UTC

    #16
    Rough Rider African Astronaut

    Originally posted by Dirtbag Until people stop making sexist assumptions all my outfit choices will be calculated.

    
    All your decisions are dumb as such
17. 2025-01-29 at 7:45 PM UTC

    #17
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    The hard truth is men want modest women as well as whores.
18. 2025-01-29 at 7:45 PM UTC

    #18
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    When they cheat it's with someone the exact opposite of who they're with.
19. 2025-01-29 at 7:47 PM UTC

    #19
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    What I want, is to embrace my feminity and not be mocked for it. So I need to come across as intimidating when I wear dresses.
20. 2025-01-29 at 7:53 PM UTC

    #20
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    Its like legally blonde. She isn't taken seriously in law school because she likes wearing a lot of pink, but still men insist women should dress like that, more feminine. WTF are women supposed to make of that? You get rid of sexism then you'll have women wearing more frills, this is all your fault men. It's your fault I can't be beautiful when being beautiful means I can't be taken seriously.