DISCLAIMER: These are my standards for someone I want to date, and I don't just date for fun.
Appearance:- My dream girl looks something like this:
Green eyes, black hair, a cute soft smile, pale-ish white skin, an ass big enough that it makes you turn your head and solid boobs anywhere between A and double D but really if she has boobs at all that's cool. In between 5" and 5'8 is a cute height. Average weight is good, as long as she is not fat and not a skin sack of bones. Somewhere around 18-25 is the best age range, I'd prefer my age but I can be flexible with that.
- I think cosplaying is very, very, very hot. I'd be willing to cosplay with my gf as a couple, sounds like fun.
- Girls with glasses like this give me an immediate boner:
- I don't care if she wears makeup, but it CAN BE hot.
Personality:- I like the usual qualities. Kind, loving, loyal, understanding, open, honest.
- I have a pretty traditional relationship dynamic. My girlfriend is in charge in the bedroom, and I'm in charge in everything else. When I tell people this, they usually react by saying something like "why do you control her?" I do not control my partner in the relationship. I simply will make a decision and run it by my girlfriend to see if she has any feedback, usually not because I am open in my relationships and usually my partner is too. Usually when doing things, I will tell my girlfriend a bunch of options that she likes and we agree on something. I surprise her with dinner, surprise her with Buying her stuff at the mall.
- I value intelligence highly, I'd like to be able to have intelligent conversations with my girlfriend. It doesn't even have to be about politics or economics or history (quick way to turn most women off), it could be about personal emotional stuff too.
Other:- Obviously, she has to have a job and a car.
- I'd like to have a girlfriend that is interested in partying with me. IE going out and getting buzzed at a bar, going to a concert and doing shrooms, smoking weed on a movie night that turns into sloppy sex, etc.
- I am monogamous and expect the same from my partner.
- I'm hoping to be able to move in with my next girlfriend, especially when I get my next job which will be the start of my career, I will be making money so we can afford to party on weekends.
- I usually connect with my partner's friends and get try to merge our friend groups, I know some people don't like to do this in case of a breakup, but I like to. I have friends from ex's friend groups that I started fucking after breaking up with one my exes, lol.
- A good sense of humor is great, but if she doesn't have one , that's ok. Usually my sense of humor rubs off on people at some point and they become funnier than they where before.
- I would, of course, like a partner that shares my interests. Anime, Video Games, Geopolitics, Economics, History, Philosophy, Web-Surfing (yes, people still do this), and music production. If my partner even shared 1 or 2 of these I would be ecstatic. If she shared 3 or 4 I'd fuck her very, very hard.
I gotta practice spitting game and get a cute nerdy girl.