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People who come over unnanounced
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2024-11-03 at 1:58 PM UTCWhat absolute bastards, if you're one of those people I suggest you should have a good hard look on the mirror.
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2024-11-03 at 2:05 PM UTCOn a fucking Sunday aswell.
Wanker. -
2024-11-03 at 2:22 PM UTCpeople with nothing to hide arent bothered by people who come unannounced.
if unannounced visitors anger you, then you have fear announced. -
2024-11-03 at 5:33 PM UTCat least bring some heroin
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2024-11-04 at 3:33 PM UTC
Originally posted by Instigator What absolute bastards, if you're one of those people I suggest you should have a good hard look on the mirror.
Yes this is the height of disrespect.
It's assuming you are not engaged in an activity, about to leave the house, have other guests over, taking a nap, engaging it an activity that requires your full attention etc etc.
When this has happened to me I just tell them "Sorry, I'm about to leave, you should have called" or something along those lines. After a while you will have trained most people who would do this to not show up...hopefully ever. -
2024-11-04 at 3:36 PM UTCwhy not just tell them the truth that you do not want to see them.
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2024-11-04 at 3:43 PM UTC
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2024-11-04 at 3:47 PM UTCcommanding them brings faster result
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2024-11-04 at 3:50 PM UTC
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2024-11-04 at 4:06 PM UTC
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2024-11-04 at 4:08 PM UTC
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2024-11-04 at 4:26 PM UTCi mean you can just command them not to come to your property unannounced and theres no rule that says you cant see them again if you want to.
if theyre offended by this simple request then fuck them.
stop being so clingy to the people whom you dont enjoy seeing unannounced. -
2024-11-04 at 4:26 PM UTCyour acting like a woman.
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2024-11-04 at 4:28 PM UTC
Originally posted by Charles Ex Machina i mean you can just command them not to come to your property unannounced and theres no rule that says you cant see them again if you want to.
Well people tend not to like being commanded, I understand that might come as a surprise to a submissive asian but here in the west if you COMMAND someone who is not your immediate subordinate they wont take it kindly...thereby lowering the chances they'll want to interact with you in the future.
Again you have to train them which is a much more subtle way to command and a way that wont generally have the same negative consequences. -
2024-11-04 at 4:44 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson here in the west if you COMMAND someone who is not your immediate subordinate they wont take it kindly…
if thats the case then they simply have no respect for you or your desire to have privacy and time for yourself and wanting to see people who dont even respect you and your basic rights makes you ... what people in the west might call a bitch.
this is women-tier shit, the kind of shit grandmas and mummies do. -
2024-11-04 at 4:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by Charles Ex Machina if thats the case then they simply have no respect for you or your desire to have privacy and time for yourself and wanting to see people who dont even respect you and your basic rights makes you … what people in the west might call a bitch.
this is women-tier shit, the kind of shit grandmas and mummies do.
Hence you need to train them....duh.
Here's another western saying for you to comprehend
"You don't throw the baby out with the bathwater". -
2024-11-04 at 4:49 PM UTCwe have showers now
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2024-11-04 at 4:53 PM UTC
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2024-11-05 at 1:19 PM UTC
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2024-11-05 at 9:14 PM UTCThe best way to deal with that is just ignore them. Don't answer the door.