2024-06-23 at 4:29 PM UTC
Enigma
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Folks it's difficult. I was told about 4 weeks ago by someone very close to my heart that I have an abrasive personality that has made it difficult for people to get close to me. So as many of you have noticed I have really been making an effort to be nicer to people and to be more sensitive and not shit talk people so meanly.
I want to have a smooth personality that people want to warm up to.
How can I work to be a better, kinder person in the future? I am open to suggestions.
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2024-06-23 at 8:45 PM UTC
Enigma
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I remember like 6 years ago I told my ex "I'm trying to be a good person." she said "I don't want to be with someone who has to try to be a good person, I want someone who just is a good person, I said oh well I'm not the one for you then am I LOL
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2024-06-23 at 8:53 PM UTC
Enigma
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Now she's a single mom too
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2024-06-24 at 1:20 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enigma
Folks it's difficult. I was told about 4 weeks ago by someone very close to my heart that I have an abrasive personality that has made it difficult for people to get close to me. So as many of you have noticed I have really been making an effort to be nicer to people and to be more sensitive and not shit talk people so meanly.
I want to have a smooth personality that people want to warm up to.
How can I work to be a better, kinder person in the future? I am open to suggestions.
Step 1 is to stop faking being a nice guy.
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2024-06-24 at 1:26 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson
Step 1 is to stop faking being a nice guy.
USER ADDED CONTEXT:
this is the opinion of a not 1, not 2 but 3! times divorcee.
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2024-06-24 at 3:38 PM UTC
Originally posted by Charles Ex Machina
USER ADDED CONTEXT:
this is the opinion of a not 1, not 2 but 3! times divorcee.
To be fair I don't think Jiggaboo ever claimed to be a nice person.
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2024-06-24 at 4:15 PM UTC
Enigma
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I hope to fake it till it kinda becomes me. I'm really working harder to be nicer to women and old people
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2024-06-24 at 5:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by Enigma
I hope to fake it till it kinda becomes me. I'm really working harder to be nicer to women and old people
Sometimes being nice is a reward in itself Bradley. Perfect example, the other day I was over the shop helping friends with their farm equipment. They rent an apartment there to an old lady and she came down and ask if I could put a thermostat in her car and I said yeah I'll come get it in a little bit. Took me all of 5 minutes work, she asked what she owed and I said nothing. This woman living on a few bucks from SS and you would have thought I gave her a million bucks.
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2024-06-24 at 5:17 PM UTC
Yeah I'm always hoping Bradley turns his life around. Don't let me down this time, I'm tired of being disappointed and crying myself to sleep over it.
2024-06-24 at 5:44 PM UTC
have you tried fucking ass
2024-06-24 at 7:53 PM UTC
I think you’re doing great at it!
Enigma
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Thanks everyone. God is looking out for me I think. So I went to see what I owe for Fall semester because it's different from the Associates degree program I am currently in. They said 1900$ BUT it's already been paid for by a scholarship I applied for but didn't know I got. I'm happy :)
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