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Trying harder to be a good person.

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    Enigma African Astronaut [memorize my carmelite sway]
    Folks it's difficult. I was told about 4 weeks ago by someone very close to my heart that I have an abrasive personality that has made it difficult for people to get close to me. So as many of you have noticed I have really been making an effort to be nicer to people and to be more sensitive and not shit talk people so meanly.

    I want to have a smooth personality that people want to warm up to.

    How can I work to be a better, kinder person in the future? I am open to suggestions.
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    Enigma African Astronaut [memorize my carmelite sway]
    I remember like 6 years ago I told my ex "I'm trying to be a good person." she said "I don't want to be with someone who has to try to be a good person, I want someone who just is a good person, I said oh well I'm not the one for you then am I LOL
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    the man who put it in my hood Black Hole [miraculously counterclaim my golf]
    good luck!
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    Enigma African Astronaut [memorize my carmelite sway]
    Now she's a single mom too
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    Originally posted by Enigma Folks it's difficult. I was told about 4 weeks ago by someone very close to my heart that I have an abrasive personality that has made it difficult for people to get close to me. So as many of you have noticed I have really been making an effort to be nicer to people and to be more sensitive and not shit talk people so meanly.

    I want to have a smooth personality that people want to warm up to.

    How can I work to be a better, kinder person in the future? I am open to suggestions.

    Step 1 is to stop faking being a nice guy.
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    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Step 1 is to stop faking being a nice guy.

    USER ADDED CONTEXT:

    this is the opinion of a not 1, not 2 but 3! times divorcee.
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    jerryb African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Charles Ex Machina USER ADDED CONTEXT:

    this is the opinion of a not 1, not 2 but 3! times divorcee.

    To be fair I don't think Jiggaboo ever claimed to be a nice person.
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    Enigma African Astronaut [memorize my carmelite sway]
    I hope to fake it till it kinda becomes me. I'm really working harder to be nicer to women and old people
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    the man who put it in my hood Black Hole [miraculously counterclaim my golf]
    Originally posted by Enigma I want to have a smooth personality that people want to warm up to.

    Maybe you'll be reborn as a cat
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    Originally posted by jerryb To be fair I don't think Jiggaboo ever claimed to be a nice person.

    /thumbsup.
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    jerryb African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Enigma I hope to fake it till it kinda becomes me. I'm really working harder to be nicer to women and old people

    Sometimes being nice is a reward in itself Bradley. Perfect example, the other day I was over the shop helping friends with their farm equipment. They rent an apartment there to an old lady and she came down and ask if I could put a thermostat in her car and I said yeah I'll come get it in a little bit. Took me all of 5 minutes work, she asked what she owed and I said nothing. This woman living on a few bucks from SS and you would have thought I gave her a million bucks.
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    Originally posted by Enigma I hope to fake it till it kinda becomes me. I'm really working harder to be nicer to women and old people

    There is some truth that if you do fake something long enough it becomes YOU, just through the sheer daily grind of the fakery.

    Historically though with you that's not gone very well has it. How many times have you said you're no longer a lover of cock and you were only going to date/fuck women going forward but then a week later your talking about giving it some Puerto Rican guy.

    Any change good or bad has got to be a permanent commitment.
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    jerryb African Astronaut
    Yeah I'm always hoping Bradley turns his life around. Don't let me down this time, I'm tired of being disappointed and crying myself to sleep over it.
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    the man who put it in my hood Black Hole [miraculously counterclaim my golf]
    have you tried fucking ass
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    Incessant African Astronaut
    I think you’re doing great at it!
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    Enigma African Astronaut [memorize my carmelite sway]
    Thanks everyone. God is looking out for me I think. So I went to see what I owe for Fall semester because it's different from the Associates degree program I am currently in. They said 1900$ BUT it's already been paid for by a scholarship I applied for but didn't know I got. I'm happy :)
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    the man who put it in my hood Black Hole [miraculously counterclaim my golf]
    Originally posted by Enigma Thanks everyone. God is looking out for me I think.

    My magic 8 ball says he's making you suffer on purpose and has only just begun
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    Instigator Naturally Camouflaged [the staring tame crusher]
    Talk less.
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    Michael Myers victim of incest [divide your nonresilient tucker]
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Step 1 is to stop faking being a nice guy.

    I don't fake stuff I keep it real.
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    the man who put it in my hood Black Hole [miraculously counterclaim my golf]
    "Move Around" - DTE
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