Dreamgirl vs Dreamjob

2017-06-02 at 10:49 PM UTC

#41

hydromorphone victim of incest [insincerely conduce my paisley]

Why not attempt a long distance relationship... I mean fuck, you could visit on the weekends and shit. That's about how far my boyfriend lives away from me (approx. 450 miles, give or take- and hey, I thought you Euro-fag used kilometers, rather than miles?) If it's legit and all, love can survive through a lot. The guy I'm with now, I've known longer than I've known the fucktard I was with for 11 years, and somehow shit still managed to work out like that. I'll be moving there before the end of the year though, but still... you shouldn't ditch a relationship just over distance. Relationships aren't about physical proximity to someone, it's how ya'll vibe together, and with things like video chat, text and the phone it makes it a lot easier. It might be hard, 'cause well, we all crave physical intimacy, but again, you or her could take time to visit too, it's not that far in the great scheme of things.

I really hope shit works out and you don't abandon either opportunity. I think you can make it work, and in the future, while right now you're not keen on moving in together, I imagine that is something you want to do down the road, eventually. From what you told me, she works in a field where it would be easy to find work almost anywhere when the time comes. Don't give up on either, as you may never get this career opportunity again, nor find a girl like her that jives with you so well, but if you really, really have to choose, I'd say take the girl... Jobs come and go, just like money... While it may be hard to find an opportunity quite as sweet as you're making it sound, with some hard work and dedication, you can make that happen again- maybe even something better- but the people we love, and finding someone special like you say about her, it can be a pretty rare thing indeed, and many people have made the mistake of choosing work over love, and then later come to regret it forever.

Good luck, Risir. You're a good guy, and I really hope shit pans out for you with all that. I hope you get to have your cake, and get to eat it too. I got my fingers crossed for ya, dude.

2017-06-02 at 11:06 PM UTC

#42

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

its funny that the one girl here tells him to stay in the relationship but every guy is saying go with the job

just an observation

2017-06-02 at 11:10 PM UTC

#43

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Well, what's your end goal with the relationship? Marriage and kids? If not and you're just in it for funsies, fuck it and take the job. You can replace a ho in a heartbeat.

2017-06-02 at 11:12 PM UTC

#44

Malice Naturally Camouflaged

Originally posted by Discount Whore its funny that the one girl here tells him to stay in the relationship but every guy is saying go with the job

just an observation

Oneitis.

We've all realized the horrifying, disillusioning, truth about women.

2017-06-03 at 12:26 AM UTC

#45

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by Malice I've mentioned before that the neurological activity of those in love looks unnervingly, distinctly, like certain types of mental illnesses. It's all centered around selfish genes, designed to propagate the species, which is the worst thing in the world. Only about 5% of couples really seem to remain in love, for the rest it largely wanes, with some short lived spikes evoked through activities and emotion, with couples largely becoming complacent and entering into a state where they simply meekly enjoy the company of the other.

Once you snap out of this state, especially if you break up, you may realize you've largely been babbling at each other and acting like idiotic overexcited children, an absolute embarrassment and indignation. Love regularly drives people to do terrible, horrendous, things, to destroy the lives of themselves and others. It needs to be treated with immense caution, you should always strive to detach yourself and question the rationality of your actions, any major decisions, when in such a state.

You've read Schopenhauer's views on love. He's right. There's an enormous amount of scientific data I could dig up to support my argument, but doing so is a pain and it largely falls on deaf ears. When in such an emotional state, unsurprisingly, emotions, appeals to them, are the only thing that penetrates the psyche of the other. Something else I've posted related to the aforementioned is that a state of reasoning and an emotional state have been found to largely be mutually exclusive.

Best advice ever:

Always jerk off before you make any important decision.

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2017-06-03 at 1:53 AM UTC

#46

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by Mayweather Names self after video game character.

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Named self after Dragonball character

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2017-06-03 at 1:53 AM UTC

#47

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Disregard wenches, acquire currency

2017-06-03 at 5:51 AM UTC

#48

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by Malice Oneitis.

We've all realized the horrifying, disillusioning, truth about women.

to be fair, its not a very good sample size.

2017-06-03 at 5:57 AM UTC

#49

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by Discount Whore to be fair, its not a very good sample size.

That's what she said

2017-06-03 at 8:23 AM UTC

#50

mmQ Lisa Turtle

Dreamgirl has to be the opposite of starboy.

2017-06-03 at 9:09 AM UTC

#51

RisiR † 29 Autism

Definitely 100% the job if it really works out. I honestly don't know what I was thinking.

Bitches ain't shit.

2017-06-03 at 1:56 PM UTC

#52

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

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2017-06-03 at 1:57 PM UTC

#53

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

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2017-06-03 at 1:59 PM UTC

#54

RisiR † 29 Autism

Better than the original. Dumb ass hoes, haha.

2017-06-03 at 2:17 PM UTC

#55

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by RisiR †

Better than the original. Dumb ass hoes, haha.

2017-06-03 at 3:11 PM UTC

#56

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

I'd go for the job personally. If this girl really is special maybe you can reconnect in a few months, if not then it wasn't really worth it to stay for her, right? Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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2017-06-03 at 8:11 PM UTC

#57

RisiR † 29 Autism

Just told the bitch to go fuck herself so there's that.

One deep for live.

2017-06-03 at 8:31 PM UTC

#58

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by RisiR † Just told the bitch to go fuck herself so there's that.

One deep for live.

2017-06-03 at 8:34 PM UTC

#59

NARCassist gollums fat coach

if you in the drug business you got pussy on tap.

or should that be 'pussy on fosset' for you mericano's?

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2017-06-03 at 8:51 PM UTC

#60

The Self Taught Man Black Hole

Originally posted by RisiR † Just told the bitch to go fuck herself so there's that.

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