2023-09-03 at 11:26 AM UTC
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2023-09-03 at 11:32 AM UTC
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2023-09-03 at 5:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kingoffrogs
My rule is I'll treat you like a girl if you look like one. Once you've put a certain amount of effort into passing as the opposite sex, you have earned the title (even if you are not biologically the opposite sex) of the opposite sex. Especially when you can't even tell.
That's (probably) reasonable. I mean, honestly, it's kinda shitty to make the conscious decision to treat someone a way they ain't wanna be treated, but at the same time there's nothing for it. If your brain sees "dude", that's how it's gonna be. I can't fault folks for that. When that happens I just assume I'm not doing a good enough job. If anything, all the drama surrounding the issue makes me feel bad because sometimes they feel bad and like... no hard feelings. It is what it is.
It only becomes a problem when at least one side in the equation is being completely unreasonable and/or cruel (and both "sides" in the general sense are prone to that).
But again, this thread is less about why you should do it for our tranny sakes, and more about how you can use our existence to psychologically torment women and control women's bodies, like you used to do before they bullied you into putting fat chicks in lingerie ads.
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2023-09-03 at 5:57 PM UTC
Wasn't I the first person to formally refer to you as Lucy (Lucy Butt)? I've treated you as a girl and referred to you as such ever since you started wanting me to. I got your back, SISTER. lol
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2023-09-03 at 6:06 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ
Wasn't I the first person to formally refer to you as Lucy (Lucy Butt)? I've treated you as a girl and referred to you as such ever since you started wanting me to. I got your back, SISTER. lol
Pronouns respected
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2023-09-03 at 6:59 PM UTC
POLECAT
POLECAT is a motherfucking ferret
[my presentably immunised ammonification]
ifn you gots hair on ur tittys ur not a girl nor kin I treat you like one so show me ur tittys bitch
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POLECAT
POLECAT is a motherfucking ferret
[my presentably immunised ammonification]
Originally posted by Rape Monster
I wonder how many guys accidentally blow loads during prostate exams
prolly just you
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2023-09-03 at 11:24 PM UTC
I don’t see any reason to be cruel to trans people. It’s like the same way I don’t go up to a mentally handicapped person and make fun of them for being a retard. That’s totally pointless.
But what I don’t agree with is the “LGBT” community equating impoliteness (i.e. “deadnaming”, using the “wrong” pronouns, etc.) with violence. I don’t like the gaslighting trying to make everyone think they’re committing a genocide for choosing not to believe in the subjective reality that someone else does.
Another thing they say is gender is a social construct and to a degree I would agree with that. There are men with feminine traits and women with masculine traits, it’s a spectrum. So my argument is if it’s all completely imaginary, what makes a trans person’s idea of gender more valid than someone else’s? It is whatever someone says it is so if they say a man is someone with XY chromosomes and a woman is someone with XX chromosomes, how can anyone deny it? That’s THEIR interpretation of the social construct of gender.
So yeah I don’t care what someone does with their body or how they wanna live their life. Just stop the gaslighting and the histrionics.
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2023-09-04 at 12:55 AM UTC
OP wants to be called a good girl and have head pats
2023-09-04 at 6:49 AM UTC
Sudo
Black Hole
[my hereto riemannian peach]
Originally posted by Meikai
I've probably told this story a few times here, definitely told it elsewhere, but the long and short of it is… a couple things. The one I like to cling to because it's cute and innocent is the time I had a dream in which I was a girl, back when I was probably like… 6 or 7? Had to be that young, because it was when my grandpa was still alive. I was just really fucking happy in that dream, man. So happy, in fact, that I remember asking my grandpa what I could do to make sure I had the same dream as before. Basically: it was such a profound experience that it made me want to pursue something akin to lucid dreaming a decade before I even learned what that was. He suggested "thinking about it really hard" as I fell asleep, and I basically did that every night for months until I gave up (because it never worked) .
In case you're wondering I don't think I actually told him what the dream was about, but could be that I was just so young he didn't think of it as unusual. idk. Shit, I might have even technically been as young as 5, now that I think about it - I think he passed in Feb 97. In which case I woulda been 6 but that only would have been true for a few months. He was hospitalized for a bit toward the end, and I'm pretty sure he was still living at his house when I asked him how I could relive a dream.
I did try wearing my moms shoes at one point and got scolded hard. I still remember the difference in vibe that scolding had. Or something. It was weird, because they couldn't really explain why it was bad - just one of this things - and because I guess there seemed to be a tinge of fear in the scolding? Like the fact that they couldn't really communicate why it was bad scared them? IDK. This was also pre-puberty, so no: no boners.
After that scolding and the vibe it had (there's something extra bad about getting in trouble in a way that you think scared your parents as opposed to just making them mad), I was pretty staunchly - one might even go as far as to say overcompensatingly - gender conforming, at least until a couple of years into puberty when I… uhh… I definitely started to do things which would support an armchair diagnosis of autogynephilia.
It's just like… always been a thing for me, dude. Practically my whole ass life. Even while I was being "staunchly gender conforming", that was only an outward thing. This is in the land of quasi-autogynephilic reasons that led to me transitioning, but like… I'm prone to magical thinking, right? I think that's fairly evident in a lot of the shit I've posted recently. So imagine you're a magical thinker at some point before actually hitting puberty, and you suddenly started to tingle down there - not a full on boner, just a weird sensation. Yeah, my ass got giddy that I might be transforming. I actually had that sensation a few times throughout puberty, looooong after popping boners was the norm, and still… every time I felt it, I'd kinda get this vain hope that… maybe? Maybe this time..?
I learned about HRT at 17 and that was pretty much it for me. Once I knew I had that option, this outcome was pretty much inevitable. My biggest regret is putting it off from 17-25 because I "wasn't sure" and was scared that I'd be too ugly for literally anyone to find attractive and it wouldn't make me happier (thankfully I was wrong on both counts). Hindsight is 20/20.
I'm turning this post into a 1 (wo)man off Broadway show called "death of a rapeman"
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