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2017-05-25 at 9:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone I'm not taking a victim stance here and yes, I can agree that boxing symptoms and shit here and there to make a "disorder" in many ways can be counter-productive to quantifing a person and making plans to address those issues,but sometimes it helps narrow down the field to at least see what has worked for those who have similar issues.
Being a victim is saying "I have *insert problem here*, so this I why my life has been, is, and always will be fucked up." and I believe people do that because it's easy to blame shit on something else rather than look and have meaningful introspection of one's self, and it's far harder to take that honest look and address those issues - it isn't easy,nit by a long shot. I don't want to be a victim and I don't feel as though I am. All I am doing is being honest about my problems, symptoms so I know what I need to fix and formulate that plan to fix it. I don't want to live with anxiety forever and be scared to get the fucking mail or stupid shit like that. I don't want to live in terror anymore like I have over these things in my head that is all fucked up. I want to be better and I want to fix them.
First step is figuring out what the fuck is wrong and going on. Step two is making a plan and trying ways that have shown success for others who've had similar problems. Step three is evaluating all this and seeing if this shit is working and improving or not.. If not, then it's back to step two to strategize another "plan of attack".
I know something is wrong with me. I'm not going to live in denial over it anymore. It affects the people I live, and myself as a person to my very core and I can't keep going like this without turning this shit around and making shit better..
I NEVER gave my son T-PAIN and I would NEVER give him any drug to just stop him from crying. Having said that, if he was in pain or needed something, then yes, I would move heaven and earth to get it for him to help him, but I pray to God I never have to do that and he's never in pain. My child has rarely had any issues and hardly ever cried now and as a baby and when he did it was normal "baby cries" that was easily fixed by 1 of 3 actions: bottle, diaper change, or just to be held.
Ibknow I've not been a perfect mother but I am doing my best to be. I'm going to be a mother he deserves. That's why I'm trying so hard now to fix myself.
Your son needs a father in his life. You can be the best mother in the world and give him a perfect life but it will have one vital flaw, boys need a male role model in their life that will teach them how to be a real man.
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2017-05-25 at 9:19 PM UTCitt: hydro talks to a quarry of rocks
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2017-05-25 at 9:19 PM UTC
Originally posted by SCronaldo_J_Trump Your son needs a father in his life. You can be the best mother in the world and give him a perfect life but it will have one vital flaw, boys need a male role model in their life that will teach them how to be a real man.
Don't let him watch TV lol.
you're a fucking bottom dwelling junkie with the moral and motivational skills of...well...a junkie.
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2017-05-25 at 9:23 PM UTC
Originally posted by infinityshock you're a fucking bottom dwelling junkie with the moral and motivational skills of…well…a junkie.
you're not allowed to give parenting advice
Your only role models growing up were Richard Simmons and Lyle
Originally posted by Discount Whore itt: hydro talks to a quarry of rocks
Americans don't know anything about anything especially drugs and health, if you believe the bullshit she posts you are no better than GMO vaccine flat earthers like Bill Krozby.
Learn science fucking idiots, at least my third world shit hole properly educated me unlike you brainwashed corporate rats. -
2017-05-25 at 11:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by SCronaldo_J_Trump Your only role models growing up were Richard Simmons and Lyle
Americans don't know anything about anything especially drugs and health, if you believe the bullshit she posts you are no better than GMO vaccine flat earthers like Bill Krozby.
Learn science fucking idiots, at least my third world shit hole properly educated me unlike you brainwashed corporate rats.
alex jones and lindsey do though..
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2017-05-25 at 11:18 PM UTC
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2017-05-25 at 11:54 PM UTC
Originally posted by SCronaldo_J_Trump Your son needs a father in his life. You can be the best mother in the world and give him a perfect life but it will have one vital flaw, boys need a male role model in their life that will teach them how to be a real man.
Don't let him watch TV lol.
I know he needs good male role models in his life and he will have that. I have a person that is going to be the good role model he needs and has been helping me too with my shit. He's a million times better of a person than I've ever had in my life (though he's been there for like... Ever, since I was a teenager, before I met my exhusband even), even just as a friend he's treated me a million times better than I deserve, better than my exhusband or §m£ÂgØL ever treated me, and I know too he's going to be good to my son and be that male figure he needs in his life. Well, I guess I do have a boyfriend now... But he's done so much to help me over the years, he's been there in my darkest hours and got me through some serious shit- fuck, he literally has saved my life, no exaggeration, when I had overdosed by taking a ton of pills many years ago- and now I can finally say I am very happy he did. I was alway appreciative that he care that much about me when no one else cared, but now I genuinely am happy he did. It's funny that this great person I needed in my life as a partner was there the whole time.. And it took a fucked up scary thing to happen for us both to realize that about each other. I'm really lucky and this is why I am working so hard to find answers and to fix myself- I want to be the best person I can, to be the person he deserves for him and my son and he's been this person who's motivated me to be better than who I am now and has given me hope that I can be... I didn't think I could for a long time, especially with shit §m£ÂgØL had said to me.
My son hardly ever watches TV. We will watch a movie or something once in a while or I'll sit and watch a kid show with him, but I'm not going to let him zone into watching the TV all day long- that's ridiculous and not good for kids to grow that sort of TV addiction, even me or other people, it's fucked up and I hate sitting in front of a TV all day, but I know people who do (my exhusband did). That won't happen with me though. -
2017-05-26 at 12:26 AM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone I know he needs good male role models in his life and he will have that. I have a person that is going to be the good role model he needs and has been helping me too with my shit. He's a million times better of a person than I've ever had in my life (though he's been there for like… Ever, since I was a teenager, before I met my exhusband even), even just as a friend he's treated me a million times better than I deserve, better than my exhusband or §m£ÂgØL ever treated me, and I know too he's going to be good to my son and be that male figure he needs in his life. Well, I guess I do have a boyfriend now… But he's done so much to help me over the years, he's been there in my darkest hours and got me through some serious shit- fuck, he literally has saved my life, no exaggeration, when I had overdosed by taking a ton of pills many years ago- and now I can finally say I am very happy he did. I was alway appreciative that he care that much about me when no one else cared, but now I genuinely am happy he did. It's funny that this great person I needed in my life as a partner was there the whole time.. And it took a fucked up scary thing to happen for us both to realize that about each other. I'm really lucky and this is why I am working so hard to find answers and to fix myself- I want to be the best person I can, to be the person he deserves for him and my son and he's been this person who's motivated me to be better than who I am now and has given me hope that I can be… I didn't think I could for a long time, especially with shit §m£ÂgØL had said to me.
My son hardly ever watches TV. We will watch a movie or something once in a while or I'll sit and watch a kid show with him, but I'm not going to let him zone into watching the TV all day long- that's ridiculous and not good for kids to grow that sort of TV addiction, even me or other people, it's fucked up and I hate sitting in front of a TV all day, but I know people who do (my exhusband did). That won't happen with me though.
Here are some ideas for role models.
President of the USA Donald Trump.
GOD(Yahweh, Allah, Buddha, Zod, L ron hubbard) Atheism is cool but they need to believe in a higher power, young flower
I recommend someone like pastor Joel Osteen, you should expose your child to motivational conservative values.
Also I think what they read, watch and play with is important. Cowboys, Spacemen, Superheros, Police, Cars, Robots, Monsters, Insects, Construction. Boys need to be exposed to masculinity, they need to learn about technology, money and even things like girls toys, any kind of exposure to sex in a healthy birds and bees kind of way.
I'm not sure how I feel about cross dressing lol. Also every child needs Calvin and Hobbes style Character Building.
Also Ronkle toy logic IQ pussles.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/07/160715114739.htm
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2017-05-26 at 2:53 AM UTCITT a bunch of weak BIG DICK TRILL NIGGAs
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2017-05-27 at 4:54 PM UTC
Originally posted by SCronaldo_J_Trump Here are some ideas for role models.
President of the USA Donald Trump.
GOD(Yahweh, Allah, Buddha, Zod, L ron hubbard) Atheism is cool but they need to believe in a higher power, young flower
I recommend someone like pastor Joel Osteen, you should expose your child to motivational conservative values.
Also I think what they read, watch and play with is important. Cowboys, Spacemen, Superheros, Police, Cars, Robots, Monsters, Insects, Construction. Boys need to be exposed to masculinity, they need to learn about technology, money and even things like girls toys, any kind of exposure to sex in a healthy birds and bees kind of way.
I'm not sure how I feel about cross dressing lol. Also every child needs Calvin and Hobbes style Character Building.
Also Ronkle toy logic IQ pussles.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/07/160715114739.htm
I agree. My son doesn't usually like to play with, or isn't occupied for long with typical toys for his age. He would rather figure out how to pull something apart and put it back together. I see a "tinkerer" in him, just like I was at that age. I want to encourage that. He comes to me a lot for help when he can't get the shit to go back together and I will show him what he's doing wrong and how to get it to go back together- he usually gets it in a couple tries, and he's just turned 2 years old so I think that's pretty impressive at that age anyway.
I don't give a fuck what sort of toys he gravitates to as long as it makes him happy. I never understood why parents would get upset if their son would play with say a barbie doll or something. My take on.it is, shit... Doesn't that like show some early signs of "birds and the bees" sort of sexual attraction and curiosity? I'd think so and I think that's healthy.
I'll support and be happy with my child no matter what he wants or is interested in. If he wants to play with dolls then more power to him. If his favorite color is pink... Well... I'm going to be a little disappointed because I hate that color but who am I to judge what color someone likes? As a kid I was never attracted to "girl" toys. I was a tomboy and would play with more "boy" toys than anything and be attracted to doing like my son does now and trying to figure out how shit works.
I think you've made some valid points and reasonable parenting advice despite being a meth using shit posting trianglist weirdo. Good job.
EDIT: I'm not keen on this Christian nut jobs or forcing religion on my son, but I can understand why a motivational person such as that pastor could be a useful tool/educational and helpful to. His development- I'll try to find someone who's not so focused on "god" for that, so. I think for the most part it's good advice. I'll teach religion in a educational way, and if he wants to learn more or delve deeper into something, I'll support him learning more about it, even if it means taking him to whatever church/religious group he wants to investigate further. I'll lay out how I believe, but I won't pressure or make him feel badly if he doesnt feel or see it that way.
He's a good baby and I am lucky he has been so easy to parent and deal with- he's been a real joy to have around, if I'm honest. The stress I have of being a single mother hasn't been from him or anything he's done, it's just the obstacles that come with being a single patent/work/bullshit and stuff, not him.
I really appreciate you making the effort to give sound, relevant (not so much to this thread- but hey... It does tie in to parenting and it hasn't been bad advice for the most part) and thoughtful consideration to my son's upbringing and doing the best I can with what I have available to me.
I'm really fortunate that my son is going to have an incredibly hard working, dedicated, and loving man in both our lives soon enough, once we get shit straight and get things going that is gonna take a short amount of time to accomplish. I'm surprised that my friend has expressed to me that he does want to be involved like that with my son and has been thoughtful and considerate of the fact that my son does needs a good male role model in his life, independent from anything I've said- I don't expect anyone to "parent" or be doing things they shouldn't have to be doing, as in not having children of their own. That makes me really happy though that those things have manifested from his own thought about my son and nothing I've said to be like "you need to parent/be a role model to my kid when we live together"- he's just genuinely been thinking and wants to be there for my son in that role I can't fill, being a mother. Never ever thought this person would ever be cool with kids. His aversion to children had been just like mine- fear of fucking up, or doing something wrong, not because we hate kids. It makes me really happy and all warm and fuzzy inside. This is a good thing - really good thing that is going to transform all three of our lives.
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2017-05-27 at 5:40 PM UTC
Originally posted by SCronaldo_J_Trump MY FACE whenever retarded fake opiate addicted legal drug doctor cuck DSM bitch americans try to talk to me about drugs.
The best chemists and researchs are locked up and fled the country for good. All you have left is cucks and rats thats why you need China, Mexico. You can't even grow weed anymore California used to be the weed capital of North America.. now it's moving North to the Rocky Mountains because you lazy iphone surfer hollywood chinese cucks are too scared to grow 1 plant at home, too scared to do real drugs. Weed Gummies ONLY and only get high on Tpain and nootropics.
American supremacy in drug research ended the day this great man passed away, a few years ago.
This is the future now
This may seem weird but is this the guy from Northern California who aided in the whole bus tour thing with Timothy Leary?
I think Winters California.. you drive past it on an alternate rout to Cache Creek Casino. it's like Out in the middle of nowhere.
That's were Robert Crumb lived too.. ahh the Winters Crowd must be were the cool people of the 70s live.
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2017-05-27 at 5:44 PM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone I agree. My son doesn't usually like to play with, or isn't occupied for long with typical toys for his age. He would rather figure out how to pull something apart and put it back together. I see a "tinkerer" in him, just like I was at that age. I want to encourage that. He comes to me a lot for help when he can't get the shit to go back together and I will show him what he's doing wrong and how to get it to go back together- he usually gets it in a couple tries, and he's just turned 2 years old so I think that's pretty impressive at that age anyway.
I don't give a fuck what sort of toys he gravitates to as long as it makes him happy. I never understood why parents would get upset if their son would play with say a barbie doll or something. My take on.it is, shit… Doesn't that like show some early signs of "birds and the bees" sort of sexual attraction and curiosity? I'd think so and I think that's healthy.
I'll support and be happy with my child no matter what he wants or is interested in. If he wants to play with dolls then more power to him. If his favorite color is pink… Well… I'm going to be a little disappointed because I hate that color but who am I to judge what color someone likes? As a kid I was never attracted to "girl" toys. I was a tomboy and would play with more "boy" toys than anything and be attracted to doing like my son does now and trying to figure out how shit works.
I think you've made some valid points and reasonable parenting advice despite being a meth using shit posting trianglist weirdo. Good job.
EDIT: I'm not keen on this Christian nut jobs or forcing religion on my son, but I can understand why a motivational person such as that pastor could be a useful tool/educational and helpful to. His development- I'll try to find someone who's not so focused on "god" for that, so. I think for the most part it's good advice. I'll teach religion in a educational way, and if he wants to learn more or delve deeper into something, I'll support him learning more about it, even if it means taking him to whatever church/religious group he wants to investigate further. I'll lay out how I believe, but I won't pressure or make him feel badly if he doesnt feel or see it that way.
He's a good baby and I am lucky he has been so easy to parent and deal with- he's been a real joy to have around, if I'm honest. The stress I have of being a single mother hasn't been from him or anything he's done, it's just the obstacles that come with being a single patent/work/bullshit and stuff, not him.
I really appreciate you making the effort to give sound, relevant (not so much to this thread- but hey… It does tie in to parenting and it hasn't been bad advice for the most part) and thoughtful consideration to my son's upbringing and doing the best I can with what I have available to me.
I'm really fortunate that my son is going to have an incredibly hard working, dedicated, and loving man in both our lives soon enough, once we get shit straight and get things going that is gonna take a short amount of time to accomplish. I'm surprised that my friend has expressed to me that he does want to be involved like that with my son and has been thoughtful and considerate of the fact that my son does needs a good male role model in his life, independent from anything I've said- I don't expect anyone to "parent" or be doing things they shouldn't have to be doing, as in not having children of their own. That makes me really happy though that those things have manifested from his own thought about my son and nothing I've said to be like "you need to parent/be a role model to my kid when we live together"- he's just genuinely been thinking and wants to be there for my son in that role I can't fill, being a mother. Never ever thought this person would ever be cool with kids. His aversion to children had been just like mine- fear of fucking up, or doing something wrong, not because we hate kids. It makes me really happy and all warm and fuzzy inside. This is a good thing - really good thing that is going to transform all three of our lives.
Post last edited by hydromorphone at 2017-05-27T17:13:26.400577+00:00
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2017-05-27 at 10:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by Totse 2001 This may seem weird but is this the guy from Northern California who aided in the whole bus tour thing with Timothy Leary?
I think Winters California.. you drive past it on an alternate rout to Cache Creek Casino. it's like Out in the middle of nowhere.
That's were Robert Crumb lived too.. ahh the Winters Crowd must be were the cool people of the 70s live.
if not.. ignore what I said
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2017-05-29 at 2:01 PM UTC
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2017-05-29 at 3:30 PM UTC
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
You posted this same stupid video of this dumb chick a while back. Let me take that back, she's not "dumb" like most of the rest of America "dumb" but her fucking videos are annoyingly slow and painful to watch. I hope that girl gets her shit together, she can't be in a very good place living out of her car. I genuinely feel bad for her- I bet she's a nice person IRL.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
