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Anyone ever get spanked as a kid
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2017-05-20 at 8:51 AM UTC
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2017-05-20 at 10:28 AM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-05-20 at 11:06 AM UTC
Originally posted by SCronaldo_J_Trump Do you still like spankings my kit kat princess?
No lol. I have no desire or am I turned on by being spanked.
I also don't believe in spankings as a way to discipline a kid either. There may be so exceptional circumstances that warrant it, but in general it's a bad thing going and studies do show that. I don't think parents are necessarilly "bad" parents for spanking or a slap on the wrist or something like that, but it really should be avoided, but no parent is perfect. The kids don't learn anything from it, but how to act aggressive themselves. It also doesn't stop the problem anyway,not in the long term and can cause rifts in the parent/child relationship anyway. Anyone who still clings to "well, in my day I got my ass best and look, I turned out fine!" is just defending their own abuse and a bad practice that has proven doesn't work and literally causes irreversible mental health problems for their children because "they" were subjected to it, so everyone else should be fucked up just like they were too.
As a kid I got spanked maybe once or twice growing up. Very rarely, and when it happened it was over something super serious and bad I did. Though there was a lot of ideal threats of being spanked when I was real little and told over and over how good I had it since other my parents described this awful abuse they were subjected to as kids. For all the abuse my father especially was out through, I did get off lucky having a father who wasn't so quick to use violence to discipline me, and again I'd only ever had the mildest of mild spanking once or twice and can say yeah... I deserved that shit. He would more threaten and make that snapping sound with the belt than anything when I was being given bad. I don't think that was a good thing either and probably fucked me up in the head someway too since threats of violence can be just as bad in some cases as the violence, but that too wasn't all the time or super common- it was very few and far between and I had far more emotional, verbal and mental attacks and abuse from my mother than anything my father ever did. Honestly, know I think of it the times he did threaten me and spank me were at my mother's pressure. She'd always use him as a way to leverage punishment "wait til your father gets home!" shit since she had no fucking clue how to parent and was too lazy and drugged up to do anything anyway. Plus she couldn't physically punish me anyway... I'd have snapped her in half if she would have touched me to spank me- she didn't have the strength or the backbone to do it. -
2017-05-20 at 11:33 AM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone No lol. I have no desire or am I turned on by being spanked.
I also don't believe in spankings as a way to discipline a kid either. There may be so exceptional circumstances that warrant it, but in general it's a bad thing going and studies do show that. I don't think parents are necessarilly "bad" parents for spanking or a slap on the wrist or something like that, but it really should be avoided, but no parent is perfect. The kids don't learn anything from it, but how to act aggressive themselves. It also doesn't stop the problem anyway,not in the long term and can cause rifts in the parent/child relationship anyway. Anyone who still clings to "well, in my day I got my ass best and look, I turned out fine!" is just defending their own abuse and a bad practice that has proven doesn't work and literally causes irreversible mental health problems for their children because "they" were subjected to it, so everyone else should be fucked up just like they were too.
As a kid I got spanked maybe once or twice growing up. Very rarely, and when it happened it was over something super serious and bad I did. Though there was a lot of ideal threats of being spanked when I was real little and told over and over how good I had it since other my parents described this awful abuse they were subjected to as kids. For all the abuse my father especially was out through, I did get off lucky having a father who wasn't so quick to use violence to discipline me, and again I'd only ever had the mildest of mild spanking once or twice and can say yeah… I deserved that shit. He would more threaten and make that snapping sound with the belt than anything when I was being given bad. I don't think that was a good thing either and probably fucked me up in the head someway too since threats of violence can be just as bad in some cases as the violence, but that too wasn't all the time or super common- it was very few and far between and I had far more emotional, verbal and mental attacks and abuse from my mother than anything my father ever did. Honestly, know I think of it the times he did threaten me and spank me were at my mother's pressure. She'd always use him as a way to leverage punishment "wait til your father gets home!" shit since she had no fucking clue how to parent and was too lazy and drugged up to do anything anyway. Plus she couldn't physically punish me anyway… I'd have snapped her in half if she would have touched me to spank me- she didn't have the strength or the backbone to do it.
Fuck studies, they don't raise kids. -
2017-05-20 at 11:52 AM UTC
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2017-05-20 at 11:54 AM UTCI've studied kids my whole life. From top to bottom. Deep inspections. Detailed analysis. Probing them, measuring them, studying their every nook and cranny. I can tell you with absolute confidence that spanking them is important, regardless of their behavior.
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2017-05-20 at 11:58 AM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone That's the equivalent of saying "fuck the truth because it doesn't make me feel good about myself"
No, that's the equivalent of seeing studies release every ten years for the past half century. Every ten years the so called experts release some study that contradicts some previous study. These studies are a for profit operation. Look at where the funding for the study comes from. Any study that states physical punishment is not good for child raising is a cooked study. Probably funded by the elitists to further erode family structure and self discipline in future generations. If you ever fuck up and get pregnant you'll find out the hard way that I'm right. I've raised four fine children which is exactly four more than any study ever has raised. -
2017-05-20 at 12:31 PM UTC
Originally posted by Darth Beaver No, that's the equivalent of seeing studies release every ten years for the past half century. Every ten years the so called experts release some study that contradicts some previous study. These studies are a for profit operation. Look at where the funding for the study comes from. Any study that states physical punishment is not good for child raising is a cooked study. Probably funded by the elitists to further erode family structure and self discipline in future generations. If you ever fuck up and get pregnant you'll find out the hard way that I'm right. I've raised four fine children which is exactly four more than any study ever has raised.
I have a son. I once made the mistake of smacking his hand when he was doing something bad. I realized immediately that this didn't do anything but show him how to smack,as he turned around and did it right back to me. I took him shows him why he shouldn't be doing what he was doing, he acknowledged and have never had him do it again.
Maybe you're so dense and retarded that you don't know how to communicate with your children and have had to resort to violence to "parent" and I use that term loosely, but I am not that way. Or maybe your kids are that retarded they needed violence to understand? IDK, but either way if they did turn out fine it was despite the violence rather because of the violence they turned out okay. Every single person who advocates violence in correcting their children always says that "they turned out fine" well, again evidence doesn't show that with statistics. Your kids probably have problems now as adults that they wont ever feel safe or comfortable to share with you too,if I take your word that they "turned out fine".
You're like so many who are too proud to admit when you've been wrong or be able to accept that maybe someone does and has collected enough information to be able to show where things you thought were okay or even good, are down right wrong. There has been dozens of studies over the years and they all produce the same results. Some are from the USA, some from Europe... Done by all sorts of different institutions. They all can't have the same agenda if there is some "conspiracy" and for them all to produce the same results clearly shows a trend. You're spreading misinformation right off the bat by saying "studies every 10 years where they change in another 10 years to contradict one another" where that is not the case at all. Please show me where there is a study that contradicts that punishing a child with violence doesn't cause them harm. -
2017-05-20 at 12:32 PM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone No lol. I have no desire or am I turned on by being spanked.
I also don't believe in spankings as a way to discipline a kid either. There may be so exceptional circumstances that warrant it, but in general it's a bad thing going and studies do show that. I don't think parents are necessarilly "bad" parents for spanking or a slap on the wrist or something like that, but it really should be avoided, but no parent is perfect. The kids don't learn anything from it, but how to act aggressive themselves. It also doesn't stop the problem anyway,not in the long term and can cause rifts in the parent/child relationship anyway. Anyone who still clings to "well, in my day I got my ass best and look, I turned out fine!" is just defending their own abuse and a bad practice that has proven doesn't work and literally causes irreversible mental health problems for their children because "they" were subjected to it, so everyone else should be fucked up just like they were too.
As a kid I got spanked maybe once or twice growing up. Very rarely, and when it happened it was over something super serious and bad I did. Though there was a lot of ideal threats of being spanked when I was real little and told over and over how good I had it since other my parents described this awful abuse they were subjected to as kids. For all the abuse my father especially was out through, I did get off lucky having a father who wasn't so quick to use violence to discipline me, and again I'd only ever had the mildest of mild spanking once or twice and can say yeah… I deserved that shit. He would more threaten and make that snapping sound with the belt than anything when I was being given bad. I don't think that was a good thing either and probably fucked me up in the head someway too since threats of violence can be just as bad in some cases as the violence, but that too wasn't all the time or super common- it was very few and far between and I had far more emotional, verbal and mental attacks and abuse from my mother than anything my father ever did. Honestly, know I think of it the times he did threaten me and spank me were at my mother's pressure. She'd always use him as a way to leverage punishment "wait til your father gets home!" shit since she had no fucking clue how to parent and was too lazy and drugged up to do anything anyway. Plus she couldn't physically punish me anyway… I'd have snapped her in half if she would have touched me to spank me- she didn't have the strength or the backbone to do it.
goddam...all this typing you do when all anyone really wants from you is to see your tits.
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2017-05-20 at 12:33 PM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone No lol. I have no desire or am I turned on by being spanked.
I also don't believe in spankings as a way to discipline a kid either. There may be so exceptional circumstances that warrant it, but in general it's a bad thing going and studies do show that. I don't think parents are necessarilly "bad" parents for spanking or a slap on the wrist or something like that, but it really should be avoided, but no parent is perfect. The kids don't learn anything from it, but how to act aggressive themselves. It also doesn't stop the problem anyway,not in the long term and can cause rifts in the parent/child relationship anyway. Anyone who still clings to "well, in my day I got my ass best and look, I turned out fine!" is just defending their own abuse and a bad practice that has proven doesn't work and literally causes irreversible mental health problems for their children because "they" were subjected to it, so everyone else should be fucked up just like they were too.
As a kid I got spanked maybe once or twice growing up. Very rarely, and when it happened it was over something super serious and bad I did. Though there was a lot of ideal threats of being spanked when I was real little and told over and over how good I had it since other my parents described this awful abuse they were subjected to as kids. For all the abuse my father especially was out through, I did get off lucky having a father who wasn't so quick to use violence to discipline me, and again I'd only ever had the mildest of mild spanking once or twice and can say yeah… I deserved that shit. He would more threaten and make that snapping sound with the belt than anything when I was being given bad. I don't think that was a good thing either and probably fucked me up in the head someway too since threats of violence can be just as bad in some cases as the violence, but that too wasn't all the time or super common- it was very few and far between and I had far more emotional, verbal and mental attacks and abuse from my mother than anything my father ever did. Honestly, know I think of it the times he did threaten me and spank me were at my mother's pressure. She'd always use him as a way to leverage punishment "wait til your father gets home!" shit since she had no fucking clue how to parent and was too lazy and drugged up to do anything anyway. Plus she couldn't physically punish me anyway… I'd have snapped her in half if she would have touched me to spank me- she didn't have the strength or the backbone to do it.
What about cuddles? -
2017-05-20 at 12:34 PM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone I have a son. I once made the mistake of smacking his hand when he was doing something bad. I realized immediately that this didn't do anything but show him how to smack,as he turned around and did it right back to me. I took him shows him why he shouldn't be doing what he was doing, he acknowledged and have never had him do it again.
Maybe you're so dense and retarded that you don't know how to communicate with your children and have had to resort to violence to "parent" and I use that term loosely, but I am not that way. Or maybe your kids are that retarded they needed violence to understand? IDK, but either way if they did turn out fine it was despite the violence rather because of the violence they turned out okay. Every single person who advocates violence in correcting their children always says that "they turned out fine" well, again evidence doesn't show that with statistics. Your kids probably have problems now as adults that they wont ever feel safe or comfortable to share with you too,if I take your word that they "turned out fine".
You're like so many who are too proud to admit when you've been wrong or be able to accept that maybe someone does and has collected enough information to be able to show where things you thought were okay or even good, are down right wrong. There has been dozens of studies over the years and they all produce the same results. Some are from the USA, some from Europe… Done by all sorts of different institutions. They all can't have the same agenda if there is some "conspiracy" and for them all to produce the same results clearly shows a trend. You're spreading misinformation right off the bat by saying "studies every 10 years where they change in another 10 years to contradict one another" where that is not the case at all. Please show me where there is a study that contradicts that punishing a child with violence doesn't cause them harm.
They took the boards of the teachers desks. Now kids act like animals in our schools. There's your study you liberal loon. -
2017-05-20 at 12:41 PM UTC
Originally posted by hydromorphone I have a son. I once made the mistake of smacking his hand when he was doing something bad. I realized immediately that this didn't do anything but show him how to smack,as he turned around and did it right back to me. I took him shows him why he shouldn't be doing what he was doing, he acknowledged and have never had him do it again.
Maybe you're so dense and retarded that you don't know how to communicate with your children and have had to resort to violence to "parent" and I use that term loosely, but I am not that way. Or maybe your kids are that retarded they needed violence to understand? IDK, but either way if they did turn out fine it was despite the violence rather because of the violence they turned out okay. Every single person who advocates violence in correcting their children always says that "they turned out fine" well, again evidence doesn't show that with statistics. Your kids probably have problems now as adults that they wont ever feel safe or comfortable to share with you too,if I take your word that they "turned out fine".
You're like so many who are too proud to admit when you've been wrong or be able to accept that maybe someone does and has collected enough information to be able to show where things you thought were okay or even good, are down right wrong. There has been dozens of studies over the years and they all produce the same results. Some are from the USA, some from Europe… Done by all sorts of different institutions. They all can't have the same agenda if there is some "conspiracy" and for them all to produce the same results clearly shows a trend. You're spreading misinformation right off the bat by saying "studies every 10 years where they change in another 10 years to contradict one another" where that is not the case at all. Please show me where there is a study that contradicts that punishing a child with violence doesn't cause them harm.
you know so much about statistics and how kids turned out fine. those studies you're so fond of are financed by the same retards that promote global warming as being solved by higher taxes.
no, violence with children is not appropriate or acceptable. but you don't know the meaning of the term. corporal punishment is not violence, you fucking sheep brained idiot.
I've seen the discipline of many different children in many different households, and how they eventually grew up. the children who were raised by the (retard lisp voice:) 'I don't use violence to discipline my vaginal ejecta...I talk logically and coddle it' ALWAYS turn out as a defective. I have countless examples.
1 killed itself because it couldn't handle life
1 is on govt disability and 'can't' work because of various self diagnosed defects....add, adhd, anxiety...
1 calls it's parent by their first names...hasn't held a job for more than 6 months, and its employment length most often measured in weeks, is 28 or 29 and still lives with her mother...
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2017-05-20 at 12:41 PM UTC
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2017-05-20 at 12:42 PM UTClets see that ass hydro
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2017-05-20 at 12:56 PM UTC
Originally posted by infinityshock goddam…all this typing you do when all anyone really wants from you is to see your tits.
greedy, selfish wench
You would know a thing or two about greed considering your intense selfish desire for people to post pix and constantly talking about raping guys.
Yet you won't even show a pic of your ugly mugThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-05-20 at 1:02 PM UTC
Originally posted by Bill Krozby You would know a thing or two about greed considering your intense selfish desire for people to post pix and constantly talking about raping guys.
Yet you won't even show a pic of your ugly mug
What are you talking about? she posts selfies of her vagina all the time...
