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Empathy: Do you have it?

  1. #21
    CandyRein Black Hole
    Originally posted by Kafka Lack of empathy wouldn't stop me from giving to charity. Idk what it is, I don't actually feel their pain. I use my dad as a moral compass sometimes when I'm confused.

    You know what.., you got me thinking

    I always saw my daddy giving money to people who like Pan handled and stuff

    Maybe I get it from him
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  2. #22
    A lot of people give to charity for selfish reasons, Tax reasons or to appear charitable to others.
  3. #23
    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Here's a paradox.

    You have empathy but don't care about their feelings.

    sympathy is caring about their feelings, empathy is understanding their perspective
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  4. #24
    Originally posted by aldra sympathy is caring about their feelings, empathy is understanding their perspective

    So you can be empathetic but still a complete uncaring twat...I like that.
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  5. #25
    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    lol yeah, pretty much
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  6. #26
    CandyRein Black Hole
    It’s a feeling..not an action 💖
  7. #27
    CandyRein Black Hole



    It’s empathy season lol💖
  8. #28
    CandyRein Black Hole
    Empathy is like being emotionally psychic…you can read people like a book and you can’t really control it …

    You just know how people are feeling without being told because you literally feel it too

    This is why it took me years to learn to say No
    Because I immediately started emotionally putting myself in their shoes

    And they made me never say ..No

    Took me a long time to be okay with saying it and not emotionally beating myself down for it
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  9. #29
    CandyRein Black Hole
    See look… NO!

    I’m perfectly fine 💖
  10. #30
    Kafka sweaty
    Originally posted by CandyRein Empathy is like being emotionally psychic…you can read people like a book and you can’t really control it …

    You just know how people are feeling without being told because you literally feel it too

    This is why it took me years to learn to say No
    Because I immediately started emotionally putting myself in their shoes

    And they made me never say ..No

    Took me a long time to be okay with saying it and not emotionally beating myself down for it

    You have to take care of yourself before you can help others and can't save everyone.
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  11. #31
    Kafka sweaty
    I would think of family members instead. I've helped people online but not my own family, it's not because I don't care about them, I just can't deal with seeing them emotional. If I help them they might try to bond with me.
  12. #32
    CandyRein Black Hole
    Originally posted by Kafka I can feel empathy for cats.

    💖

    Originally posted by Kafka You have to take care of yourself before you can help others and can't save everyone.

    Do you know my coworker literally told me this yesterday when we were texting
  13. #33
    CandyRein Black Hole


    My friend and coworker Tiffany
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  14. #34
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson So you can be empathetic but still a complete uncaring twat…I like that.

    english johnson learnt a new english word today,
  15. #35
    Originally posted by vindicktive vinny english johnson learnt a new english word today,

    No, just a new way of looking at it.
  16. #36
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson No, just a new way of looking at it.

    its how you would have looked at it had you known the meaning of the word "empathy", which obviously yiu didnt.

  17. #37
    Bradley Black Hole
    Yes I do. I have some problems with feeling empathy for like wealthy people or people with what I consider minor problems, but I do consider myself to be a caring, empathetic person especially as it relates to addicts/alcoholics and the poor.
  18. #38
    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    What a gay fucking thread. Everyone knew you were autistic a long fucking time ago. Everyone here is and it doesn't make you special. Eat a bushel of dicks
  19. #39
    People are trained to simulate empathy, but they don't really have it. It's like training parrots or monkeys.
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  20. #40
    Originally posted by vindicktive vinny its how you would have looked at it had you known the meaning of the word "empathy", which obviously yiu didnt.


    I'm sure that's how your limited mind works but no, that's not how most people casually view or use the word. If you describe someone as empathetic MOST people would assume that also goes hand in hand with being sympathetic. It's good to highlight that is not always the case. I'm very empathetic but rarely sympathetic....you're just pathetic.
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