2023-03-05 at 11:06 PM UTC
I actually didnt even know what it was until I got a customer service job and they literally trained us on it. They explained the difference between empathy and sympathy. They gave us sheets of paper with empathy statements. I was over 30 years old when I realized what it is.
I dont have guilt or remorse either and I am realizing that I really dont have many emotions. I think I have more emotions when I was younger but Im not sure. Feelings really arent there.
But yeah, Im what most would consider a bad person. But its not like Im agressive, loud, and cocky. Im very modest, quiet, calm, polite, and nice. I dont argue or put people down.
But I have ripped off massive amounts of strangers and I dont regret it. Ive made large amounts of money doing so. I dont have to met these people and these people dont know its me.
Thats all for now.
2023-03-05 at 11:29 PM UTC
My EQ score is 15/80. Mik's was 9. Something I've learned is empathy isn't necessary for a relationship. I don't want it from anyone. I can care about people more than myself though. It just means I can't feel what other people are feeling and I'm not sure if anyone really does, how can you really understand what someone is going through? I am capable of feeling guilt but don't because I know it would destroy me. I think the lack of empathy is a gift because I managed to stay composed when my dad was dying. People take advantage of me and it would be a lot worse if I had empathy. I wouldn't kill someone but I know if I did I'd feel nothing after.
2023-03-05 at 11:31 PM UTC
Wariat
Marine/Preteen Biologist
i have a lotmof it when it vomes to things like bullying or laughing st others misery etc. but when it comes to sex especiwlly consentual acts regardless of ages involved almost or to a degree injsut font seem to have it like most people. it may be all the porn abuse over the yrs tho.
2023-03-05 at 11:32 PM UTC
Wariat
Marine/Preteen Biologist
like i never understood why people feel so sorry for 16 yr old girls who willingly fuck teachers for grwdes or those epstein girls willing tiving massages etc.
2023-03-05 at 11:32 PM UTC
Hey OP
NOBODY CARES
FAGGOT
2023-03-06 at 1:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by Wariat
THE WISEST BOBCAT THAT EVER LIVED.
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2023-03-06 at 3:51 PM UTC
Yes..too much actually but I couldn’t change it if I wanted to ..
Deep empathy Is a gift and a curse .. you only know that and understand that if you have it …
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2023-03-06 at 3:53 PM UTC
Everyone has it except sociopaths.
2023-03-06 at 3:56 PM UTC
I tried to give $20 to this family yesterday they were holding a sign outside Wally World,,,
But my guy wouldn’t let me.. we went back
And forth about it but he won in the end
I’ve been in this situation in every relationship I’ve been in…
It actually ticks me off ..,,real life
I work for my money and if I wanna give it away I should be able to
It’s mine
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2023-03-06 at 4:02 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson
Everyone has it except sociopaths.
A lot of people with autism don't have it.
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2023-03-06 at 4:02 PM UTC
But I felt like what if it were me. .. how would I feel …literally feeling those emotions ..
But the double edged sword is when people know that’s how you are they will take advantage or at least try
You have to show discernment and figure out what’s worthy and what’s a rouse…
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2023-03-06 at 4:03 PM UTC
I can feel empathy for cats.
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2023-03-06 at 4:05 PM UTC
Originally posted by CandyRein
But I felt like what if it were me. .. how would I feel …literally feeling those emotions ..
But the double edged sword is when people know that’s how you are they will take advantage or at least try
You have to show discernment and figure out what’s worthy and what’s a rouse…
Lack of empathy wouldn't stop me from giving to charity. Idk what it is, I don't actually feel their pain. I use my dad as a moral compass sometimes when I'm confused.
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2023-03-06 at 4:06 PM UTC
Here's a paradox.
You have empathy but don't care about their feelings.
