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  1. #21
    mmQ Lisa Turtle
    I also don't understand how some of the 8 billion human brains could feel loneliness more or less than others. It just doesn't make sense to me. I don't understand why everyone doesn't feel the exact same way I do about everything ever. I honestly don't get it.
  2. #22
    Michael Myers victim of incest [divide your nonresilient tucker]
    Originally posted by mmQ I also don't understand how some of the 8 billion human brains could feel loneliness more or less than others. It just doesn't make sense to me. I don't understand why everyone doesn't feel the exact same way I do about everything ever. I honestly don't get it.

    [chuckles]
  3. #23
    Originally posted by Kafka The thing about meaningful relationships stood out. Would you say your life has no meaning? I think it’s meaningless without other people.

    As I've got older "meaningful" relationships become less and less important, having said that other "older" people will probably say the opposite and that they are more and more important.

    Ultimately it all depends on the individual and their experiences dealing with people...if you've been let down multiple times by multiple people you trusted..then obviously you're going to have a more negative view of the subject.

    I'm at the age and stage now I don't give a fuck about other people except for a tiny few...that's quite the opposite of how I used to be...things started to change to the more negative view around the age of 35-40 or so.

    Again, it's all about the individual and their personal experiences.
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  4. #24
    Kafka sweaty
    I would be a misanthrope if I didn't block bad memories.
  5. #25
    Kafka sweaty
    I just think of my dad, if there's one person out there that's like him then I want to be nice to people.
  6. #26
    Originally posted by Ghost you have autism and an ego, don't confuse it with strength

    strong autism is strength
  7. #27
    Originally posted by Kafka I just think of my dad, if there's one person out there that's like him then I want to be nice to people.

    would you still love your dad if you found out that hes been molestimg you as a child.
  8. #28
    Ghost Black Hole
    everyone here is too toxic and evil for anyone to love
  9. #29
    Originally posted by Ghost everyone here is too toxic and evil for anyone to love

    2 negatives = a positive. aka 2 miserable twats = a happy love filled relationship...hold me.
  10. #30
    cigreting Dark Matter
    Originally posted by Michael Myers I think maybe you are able to feel very happy because you've been through it all and you decided it's not something for you. I don't know what it's like being happy and I have a feeling getting into a relationship wouldn't make me happy per se, but I'd at least think my life has some sort of meaning. Going out to events alone is not something I can do, like going to a restaurant alone, or going to see a movie alone. I would just feel pathetic.

    Why can't you go to restaurants alone? I eat somewhere about every other day for lunch alone when im at work. Do you have anxiety or something
  11. #31
    Kafka sweaty
    I go to the cinema and restaurants alone. Restaurant can feel awkward but they have food I like. Just have confidence and follow the dress code. I’m having flashbacks now of throwing up a strawberry daiquiri in my alcoholic days.
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  12. #32
    Kafka sweaty
    I was extremely isolated and thought I couldn’t be mentally okay being that way so I went to a psychiatrist to get checked out. In my hypochondriac days. She said I was sound, just a critical thinker and prescribed me diazepam. Now that I think about it though that wasn’t okay for me to do, it was neurotic and a mental health history isn’t good for anyone.
  13. #33
    I rarely go to a restaurant on my own...not because it bothers me to do so but because I'm cheap and don't really like to spend money on myself unnecessarily.

    ..if I do get a hankering for restaurant food I'll get it 'to go' so I don't have to leave a tip and I can eat it at home in my underpants and be comfortable slopping some down my t-shirt and over the cat.
  14. #34
    Kafka sweaty
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson I rarely go to a restaurant on my own…not because it bothers me to do so but because I'm cheap and don't really like to spend money on myself unnecessarily.

    ..if I do get a hankering for restaurant food I'll get it 'to go' so I don't have to leave a tip and I can eat it at home in my underpants and be comfortable slopping some down my t-shirt and over the cat.

    That’s no way to live…
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  15. #35
    Same with going to the movies...I have a problem with paying $20-40 to see a movie in a sticky floored facility with noisy negros fucking with their phones...when I can torrent it for free and eat my restaurant style meal while watching it and throwing microwave popcorn at the cat.
  16. #36
    Kafka sweaty
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Same with going to the movies…I have a problem with paying $20-40 to see a movie in a sticky floored facility with noisy negros fucking with their phones…when I can torrent it for free and eat my restaurant style meal while watching it and throwing microwave popcorn at the cat.

    That’s sad you let money control your life to the point you won’t do any of the things you’d like to if it wasn’t an issue. Not doing anything for yourself isn’t a dignifying way to live. I’m surprised anyone married you, eating in your underwear is disgusting.
  17. #37
    Incessant African Astronaut
    Originally posted by cigreting Why can't you go to restaurants alone? I eat somewhere about every other day for lunch alone when im at work. Do you have anxiety or something

    That was my response. I can go anywhere alone and I don't feel awkward.
  18. #38
    Originally posted by Kafka That’s sad you let money control your life to the point you won’t do any of the things you’d like to if it wasn’t an issue. Not doing anything for yourself isn’t a dignifying way to live. I’m surprised anyone married you, eating in your underwear is disgusting.

    Oh I do plenty for myself and often spend money frivolously on myself..I just don't find spending money on food or movies (or locations associated with that) worthwhile.

    Restaurants take too long to bring the grub out, movies I generally leave pissed off because of the noisy fucking bastards talking throughout the movie etc...a much more comfortable and rewarding experience (when alone) can be had at home than in public places for those activities...and as a side bonus...cheaper too.
  19. #39
    Kafka sweaty
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Same with going to the movies…I have a problem with paying $20-40 to see a movie in a sticky floored facility with noisy negros fucking with their phones…when I can torrent it for free and eat my restaurant style meal while watching it and throwing microwave popcorn at the cat.

    You said you had a frugal childhood? It sounds like you feel bad if you spend money on yourself and that’s messed up but can be fixed. There’s always more money in the world, life shouldn’t revolve around it.
  20. #40
    Kafka sweaty
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Oh I do plenty for myself and often spend money frivolously on myself..I just don't find spending money on food or movies (or locations associated with that) worthwhile.

    Restaurants take too long to bring the grub out, movies I generally leave pissed off because of the noisy fucking bastards talking throughout the movie etc…a much more comfortable and rewarding experience (when alone) can be had at home than in public places for those activities…and as a side bonus…cheaper too.

    I hope you buy a video projector.
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