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2022-05-03 at 11:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo My plan is gonna kinda tie all those things together
1. Kick out baby mom, help her find a decent place for the kids. Make any support contingent on skills workshops and therapy. Kinda manipulative I know but that way I can sleep a little better.
2. Find another relationship with someone who is only medium crazy
3. Deal with my opiate addiction/mental health issues and focus on things I need to be a better person/build on shit. Step 2 and 3 should probably be reversed
4. Slowly reintegrate myself into my daughter's life.
5. Get my lawyers to setup some co parenting agreements that ar3 in the objective interest of the children
6. Try to live more mindfully, peacefully and spiritually, ideally with a creative aspect
Anyone else have any wild unrealistic fantasies? No, shut up, me, I'm gonna manifest this ass over life's face and never look back. I'm 6 months out the system today first time since I was a hawt awkward teen, I can fucking do this
Bruddah you cant lay a solid foundation till u get ur own health n mind straight. Prolly sounds hypocritical coming from me, n god knows id love some drugs to numb some of the physical pain im in but getting yourself right is really step 1,2,3.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2022-05-03 at 11:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by General Butt.Naked Bruddah you cant lay a solid foundation till u get ur own health n mind straight. Prolly sounds hypocritical coming from me, n god knows id love some drugs to numb some of the physical pain im in but getting yourself right is really step 1,2,3.
I'm shallow enough to have thought you were quoting me and the concrete foundation I need for my Quonset house. -
2022-05-03 at 11:13 PM UTC
Originally posted by General Butt.Naked Bruddah you cant lay a solid foundation till u get ur own health n mind straight. Prolly sounds hypocritical coming from me, n god knows id love some drugs to numb some of the physical pain im in but getting yourself right is really step 1,2,3.
Well getting my baby mom out allows me the freedom to actually detox, I can't realistically do that when I'm helping look after kids and have alot of toxicity around me so I made it step 2 on the priority list. -
2022-05-03 at 11:44 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo My plan is gonna kinda tie all those things together
1. Kick out baby mom, help her find a decent place for the kids. Make any support contingent on skills workshops and therapy. Kinda manipulative I know but that way I can sleep a little better.
Is she the vindictive type to try and get equally manipulative in return? -
2022-05-04 at 12 AM UTC
Originally posted by frala Is she the vindictive type to try and get equally manipulative in return?
She is preemptively manipulative already. Best I can do is try to lay a framework for progress. Patient 0 of the Borderline personality bomb that's exploded across North am erica the last decade and a half -
2022-05-04 at 12:18 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo She is preemptively manipulative already. Best I can do is try to lay a framework for progress. Patient 0 of the Borderline personality bomb that's exploded across North am erica the last decade and a half
So completely unsolicited advice (coming from an unhinged bipolar II female) but it might help if you tell her you’re willing to do the same and check in with her regarding therapy bc she’s probably not gonna like the one sided ultimatum/feeling cornered. -
2022-05-04 at 12:29 AM UTCYou just roll with the punches and man up, just like any other day. No need to overthink it.
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2022-05-04 at 12:32 AM UTC
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2022-05-04 at 12:33 AM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2022-05-04 at 12:33 AM UTCLive, laugh, love, Speckles. And fuck niggers.
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2022-05-04 at 12:34 AM UTCI picture everyone in their underwear.
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2022-05-04 at 1:01 AM UTC
Originally posted by frala So completely unsolicited advice (coming from an unhinged bipolar II female) but it might help if you tell her you’re willing to do the same and check in with her regarding therapy bc she’s probably not gonna like the one sided ultimatum/feeling cornered.
Nah for sure way ahead of you, already doing it and am going to offer tk make visitation stipulations regarding things I can be doing. She's going to try to Weasel her way out of going, like she's been doing for the last few years so this is just efforts to mitigate the detrimental behaviors kids are exposed to. For an absolute scumsucking piece of shit I'm pretty good at not letting my bullshit affect the kids but she can't control herself when she gets angry so there kinda has to be something in place because the status quo is terrible for everyone involved.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2022-05-04 at 5:19 AM UTC
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2022-11-11 at 4:43 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Hi, it's me and my faggot life again, basically my dawtas mom just unblocked me so I can figure out a way to access my daughter now. Seeing pictures is crazy because I haven't seen her in a year but I can tell she has a similar spirit as I had sometimes as a kid. I'm afraid of opening myself up to her, my baby mom, the whole situation and something going wrong and sending me spiraling.
I am also afraid to be in a healthy relationship because that requires being vulnerable. Both these scenarios would be better off with me being off brainkillahs and that's kinda frightening too and requires dedication of time and shit rn too
I'm also a bit scared of finalizing my baby moms exit from ma maison, I know it's the right thing but it's still difficult for a Lotta reasons
These are really the most terrifying things to me right now. I don't really have any apprehension about physical confrontations, in fact I usually threaten a man a week and can't find any takers.
How do I be less of a scaredy cat? Why am I comfortable being vulnerable here? What's the story wish bone?
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