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My bababy mamama is super duper toxic woxic

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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    I Love her but I really feel guilty bringing a kid up around her. I told her I can't be in a relationship with her when she won't get help but she just makes excuses that are literally from the toxic playbook. Most other swimminz on my radar are floozies with no longevity. What I need to know is the specifics and the radius of my impending murder/suicide
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    Robert Mugabe African Astronaut
    Is her psychosis due to having you as a partner or the foetus?
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    WellHung Black Hole
    go to couple's therapy.
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    kroz weak whyte, frothy cuck, and former twink
    NO SIT DOWN OPIE! or get a new baby mammer if you're that concerened with it lol
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by Robert Mugabe Is her psychosis due to having you as a partner or the foetus?

    She's been messed up a long, long time. Given the trajectory of her childhood it's amazing she is not more screwed up. It could be DaBaby is making her crazier too as having my offspring inside a mortal womb would be too much for any woman to handle. I definitely don't help in some ways for sure, she has taken to snooping and has found some things that would make any woman very crazy
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    rabbitweed African Astronaut
    Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by WellHung go to couple's therapy.

    she actually said this before as a toxic manipulation tactic to get out of her going to actual therapy. It backfired when I laughed and agreed and tried to make an appointment and she freaked out
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    WellHung Black Hole
    Originally posted by Sudo She's been messed up a long, long time. Given the trajectory of her childhood it's amazing she is not more screwed up. It could be DaBaby is making her crazier too as having my offspring inside a mortal womb would be too much for any woman to handle. I definitely don't help in some ways for sure, she has taken to snooping and has found some things that would make any woman very crazy

    You need to be more competent in not allowing her to find anything when she snoops. U know better than that.
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    WellHung Black Hole
    Originally posted by Sudo she actually said this before as a toxic manipulation tactic to get out of her going to actual therapy. It backfired when I laughed and agreed and tried to make an appointment and she freaked out

    why don't u need therapy? because ur a narcissist?
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by WellHung You need to be more competent in not allowing her to find anything when she snoops. U know better than that.

    yeah there was a time when things were more in the open

    Originally posted by WellHung why don't u need therapy? because ur a narcissist?

    Who says I don't need therapy? Literally no one that's who. I definitely need therapy and was going to one recently but quit due to scheduling issues so now I need another one. The one I had was not really the type for me as well.
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    WellHung Black Hole
    Sounds like ur a stud who cant keep it zipped up. Nothing wrong with that, unless she thinks otherwise.
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    WellHung Black Hole
    Originally posted by Sudo yeah there was a time when things were more in the open



    Who says I don't need therapy? Literally no one that's who. I definitely need therapy and was going to one recently but quit due to scheduling issues so now I need another one. The one I had was not really the type for me as well.

    i only got 1 long-term girl. sounds like u got several flames. i'm jelly.
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by WellHung Sounds like ur a stud who cant keep it zipped up. Nothing wrong with that, unless she thinks otherwise.

    I'm an emotionally fucked up piece of shit with a big ol void in my stomach.
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    Zanick motherfucker [my p.a. supernal goa]
    if you were with her long enough to have a child without knowing she's like this & now you're not with her, then your child won't know why they feel what they will
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by Zanick if you were with her long enough to have a child without knowing she's like this & now you're not with her, then your child won't know why they feel what they will

    she lives with me and I knew she was like this just not the full extent and it's mostly the lack of initiative towards healing that bothers me so much. I want my child to feel a ton of Love and she is a good mother for pretty much everything apart from her emotional outbursts and poor coping skillz
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    Zanick motherfucker [my p.a. supernal goa]
    sorry, i shouldn't've presumed situation or outcome but it sounds like you're making the most of it & holding her accountable, maybe there's something causing her to choose not to handle these issues
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by Zanick sorry, i shouldn't've presumed situation or outcome but it sounds like you're making the most of it & holding her accountable, maybe there's something causing her to choose not to handle these issues

    yeah the things preventing her are part of the overall level of toxicity. It's draining bro. Meanwhile hot singles in my area are waiting to meet me and want no emotional investment
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    Zanick motherfucker [my p.a. supernal goa]
    i feel that too. i think sometimes when we perceive a lack of investment as an opportunity, it means less about what we endure & more that we're desperate to negate our investment, enough to see it popping out of strangers (out of us). it's heavy on you all the time when you're with a toxic woman, fantasy is both saving her & letting her die but the every day reality is you don't know what you can ultimately do for them & you're whittling yourself away trying to make a point
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  19. #19
    Zanick motherfucker [my p.a. supernal goa]
    although one learns tolerance for ambiguity as a skill that we improve upon to our benefit
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    Robert Mugabe African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Sudo yeah the things preventing her are part of the overall level of toxicity. It's draining bro. Meanwhile hot singles in my area are waiting to meet me and want no emotional investment

    You should leave her. You have planted your seed, your job is done.
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