I Love her but I really feel guilty bringing a kid up around her. I told her I can't be in a relationship with her when she won't get help but she just makes excuses that are literally from the toxic playbook. Most other swimminz on my radar are floozies with no longevity. What I need to know is the specifics and the radius of my impending murder/suicide
Originally posted by Robert Mugabe
Is her psychosis due to having you as a partner or the foetus?
She's been messed up a long, long time. Given the trajectory of her childhood it's amazing she is not more screwed up. It could be DaBaby is making her crazier too as having my offspring inside a mortal womb would be too much for any woman to handle. I definitely don't help in some ways for sure, she has taken to snooping and has found some things that would make any woman very crazy
Originally posted by WellHung
go to couple's therapy.
she actually said this before as a toxic manipulation tactic to get out of her going to actual therapy. It backfired when I laughed and agreed and tried to make an appointment and she freaked out
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Originally posted by Sudo
She's been messed up a long, long time. Given the trajectory of her childhood it's amazing she is not more screwed up. It could be DaBaby is making her crazier too as having my offspring inside a mortal womb would be too much for any woman to handle. I definitely don't help in some ways for sure, she has taken to snooping and has found some things that would make any woman very crazy
You need to be more competent in not allowing her to find anything when she snoops. U know better than that.
Originally posted by Sudo
she actually said this before as a toxic manipulation tactic to get out of her going to actual therapy. It backfired when I laughed and agreed and tried to make an appointment and she freaked out
why don't u need therapy? because ur a narcissist?
Originally posted by WellHung
You need to be more competent in not allowing her to find anything when she snoops. U know better than that.
yeah there was a time when things were more in the open
Originally posted by WellHung
why don't u need therapy? because ur a narcissist?
Who says I don't need therapy? Literally no one that's who. I definitely need therapy and was going to one recently but quit due to scheduling issues so now I need another one. The one I had was not really the type for me as well.
Originally posted by Sudo
yeah there was a time when things were more in the open
Who says I don't need therapy? Literally no one that's who. I definitely need therapy and was going to one recently but quit due to scheduling issues so now I need another one. The one I had was not really the type for me as well.
i only got 1 long-term girl. sounds like u got several flames. i'm jelly.
if you were with her long enough to have a child without knowing she's like this & now you're not with her, then your child won't know why they feel what they will
Originally posted by Zanick
if you were with her long enough to have a child without knowing she's like this & now you're not with her, then your child won't know why they feel what they will
she lives with me and I knew she was like this just not the full extent and it's mostly the lack of initiative towards healing that bothers me so much. I want my child to feel a ton of Love and she is a good mother for pretty much everything apart from her emotional outbursts and poor coping skillz
sorry, i shouldn't've presumed situation or outcome but it sounds like you're making the most of it & holding her accountable, maybe there's something causing her to choose not to handle these issues
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Originally posted by Zanick
sorry, i shouldn't've presumed situation or outcome but it sounds like you're making the most of it & holding her accountable, maybe there's something causing her to choose not to handle these issues
yeah the things preventing her are part of the overall level of toxicity. It's draining bro. Meanwhile hot singles in my area are waiting to meet me and want no emotional investment
i feel that too. i think sometimes when we perceive a lack of investment as an opportunity, it means less about what we endure & more that we're desperate to negate our investment, enough to see it popping out of strangers (out of us). it's heavy on you all the time when you're with a toxic woman, fantasy is both saving her & letting her die but the every day reality is you don't know what you can ultimately do for them & you're whittling yourself away trying to make a point
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Originally posted by Sudo
yeah the things preventing her are part of the overall level of toxicity. It's draining bro. Meanwhile hot singles in my area are waiting to meet me and want no emotional investment
You should leave her. You have planted your seed, your job is done.