Originally posted by Bill Krozby
well because first of all she lied to me saying she was on birth control, I went to one of her doctors appointments and the doctor asked her if she was on birth control and she said I've never been on it we used condoms, we never used condoms.
do you not hold any responsibility in protecting yourself? if you keep your dick wrapped up... then you wouldn't be relying on 100% of the words any female you ever poke your dick into.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
she told the judge I used drugs and need to be drug tested, (she bought me drugs so I'd be willing to meet her parents) the judge didn't care about that because I don't have a drug conviction. She told them that she doesn't want me to be alone with the girl until she's at least five because I have the potential to molest her… never done anything like that to a kid.. never will.. I had really really shitty rights, I wasn't allowed to know where the mother lived and if I wanted to see my daughter I had to email her and go to seguin, a shitty hick town an hour away and meet at a mcdonalds for 4 hours twice a month.. on certain dates.. when I had to be working..
Generally, all these accusations have to be "proven." No family court judge will place an order of mandated drug testing or supervised visitation- unless facts have shown cause for such child protections. Again, i'll repeat: No Family Court Judge rules for orders on a/the mere "allegations" of a parent- said allegations have to have substantiation and validity...
just as in seeking a protection order does. whenever, somebody says...
"oh i got a protection order against so-n-so" but they didn't have to show/prove to a court "why" they need such protection order is full of 100% crap.
You won't be able to BS me on this.
There are "reasons" why you have been given supervised visitation & regulated drug testing.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
she said she didn't need my money and would never let me not see her, but totally backed out, and put me on blast on failbook with her boyfriends saying there going to kick my ass if I contact her, which I didn't care about because their pussies.
Every parent has basic "parental rights" even shitty ones. No parent has the legal authority to keep the other parent from seeing their child-- even for lack of child support... "UNLESS" those rights have been taken away by a court.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
Ive seen my daughter off and on she 8 now. texas gave her and her daughter medicaid, food stamps, a debit card, tanf. while she had to pay no bills and would just leave the kid at some guys house or her parents place.
every single parent can apply for such ^benefits if the absent parent is not furnishing the basic financial needs for supporting their child/children.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
I went to her appoitments and met her parents, and was there when she was born but they treated me really shitty. Her family was allowed to hold her but I wasn't because I might make her sick..
your personal problems.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
So I got an attorney and paid him to stop the child support because its a fucking circus, but I had retroactivly pay back texas for medical bills.. regardless of whether she gets sick or not, they still pull out of my check. Luckily I'm almost done. I don't have a problem seeing her or pay for things, but I don't want to go to a mcdonalds an hour away to see her or her boyfriends place.
The ONLY way financial support of a child can legally stop is if the parent "terminates" all parental rights to said child. No attorney has the ability/can "stop" the financial obligation because the child has a "legal right" to financial support. If you are NOT supporting your child appropriately and the state steps in and does so for you- YES, you will have the obligation of repaying back the State for supporting your child/children & why shouldn't you? your fuck-up, it is totally your responsibility of support.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
One of her boyfriends actually kicked her out of his place lol.. because she told me to come over and I did, and the gont was like "ooh.. we didn't think you'd actually come" and their was trashed out. Even my parents were like yeah this is obvious scam. I just didn't someone lie to me like that. As soon as she told me she was pregnant she quit having sex with me which was fine with me because I had a girl friend.
again,
Your personal problems. we should care about this bs why? it should & doesn't have nothing to do with you financially supporting your kid.
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
Here in texas they treat the guys that owe support way worse than anyone else in court, you're shackled around your waist and legs and arms. Luckily I've never had to go through that. But its a money thing. Like dwi's, child support, and family violence (doesn't matter if you're a part of there family) and pot cases are the most largely convicted cases.
there are federally State mandated Child Support Guidelines that states use. States may sway 'slightly' from said guidelines-- but tend not to go to far off the guideline grid. (I'm not familiar with Texas law/guidelines, so, i take your words/complaints at face value)
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
the way I see it we should get equal rights to the girl and put in the same money but thats not they case.
it is the case if the female doesn't have custody of her children. If both parents are incapable of caring for the kid- then both parents will share the responsibility of reimbursement for any state aid, CINC, or foster care needs. it was your fuck-up getting someone pregnant. it is both of your responsibility for the financial support of said child. You are full of nothing but excuses for your own personal accountability.
my only suggestion to you is:
grow the fuck-up and EMBRACE THE SUCK. you create/created your circus.