It's that always yearning for more that does the killing. You just need to be satisfied with what little you have and be happy with it. A life of moderation is the happiest life anyways. It's that reaching. That eye that is always looking for more. That jealousy and depression of constant comparison. Who cares if others have it all, you can still be happy with what you currently have. You have a life ahead of you, so live it within modest means and make the most of what you do have, not what you don't have, or want.
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There should be a checklist. I dont think anyone should have to live a life that theyrenot happy with. A lot of things you can fix but a lot of stuff just is what it is.
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Originally posted by -SpectraL
One secret I've learned in a full and long life that's important is don't sweat the small stuff. You may think it's big right now, but it really is the small stuff, as you'll see later on. Even if it looks dire, remember, you can get through it. All you have to do is just do the best you can, and that's all anyone should expect from you. Get through today and the next day. That's your goal. Just keep doing your best. Don't sweat things. Don't dwell on things. Don't fixate on things. Don't worry about things so much. Stop over-analyzing everything. Ignore that voice in your head, because it's just trying to tear you up for no good reason. Smoke some good weed. Grab a cold beer. Just put one foot in front of the other and take things a step at a time. You'll be fine. You don't really need anyone to be happy. Be happy with yourself in your own skin, instead of immersing yourself in exterior problems and exterior situations. You don't need to trust anyone. You can do this yourself. You don't need any help.
thats pretty good advice and I know its easier said than done for some people. I get pretty anxious sometimes and especially as a kid but my dad tell, to relax and not worry unless its going to matter tomorrow. Idk that might be kinda bad advice but I try to do that trivial shit these days.
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Originally posted by trippymindfuk
Ummm I don't know where to start, I'm just tired of not being able to trust anyone. I guess you really truly can't. People always make me feel like they're up to something. My thoughts are crazy. I view everything in codes yet I couldn't do coding on a computer lol. I'm just tired of how the thoughts in my head.
One secret I've learned in a full and long life that's important is don't sweat the small stuff. You may think it's big right now, but it really is the small stuff, as you'll see later on. Even if it looks dire, remember, you can get through it. All you have to do is just do the best you can, and that's all anyone should expect from you. Get through today and the next day. That's your goal. Just keep doing your best. Don't sweat things. Don't dwell on things. Don't fixate on things. Don't worry about things so much. Stop over-analyzing everything. Ignore that voice in your head, because it's just trying to tear you up for no good reason. Smoke some good weed. Grab a cold beer. Just put one foot in front of the other and take things a step at a time. You'll be fine. You don't really need anyone to be happy. Be happy with yourself in your own skin, instead of immersing yourself in exterior problems and exterior situations. You don't need to trust anyone. You can do this yourself. You don't need any help.
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You just got to stick with it and you will get past the bad times, and the good times will come, my friend. Quitting is never the answer. Just be patient.
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Originally posted by trippymindfuk
17, he's got himself a job and a little girlfriend. He's doing way better than I am.
Well we always want our kids to do better than ourselves. But he still needs his Dad, trust me. My son is almost 23 and still needs his Dad. We’ll be guiding them for life!
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Try to be a positive influence on anyone that is going through tough times. You never know how much it might mean to that person. I know ive been through some really really shitty times in my life and it meant alot to me that my family never abandoned me. Nobody will ever care for you like your own family man. Friends dont mean shit, they come and go but your family is the only ones that will truly be related to you by blood and more than likely care the most for you
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