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2021-05-05 at 4:44 PM UTC in Im being arrested for child pornography by apd
Originally posted by Bradley so how did they climb the window to the third story to acces his apartment?
That doesn't sound right at all, think about it, he barricades himself in his room, so they have to go through the third floor window?
Discuss
There are two windows, one in his bedroom on the exterior side and the other in the living area right next to his front door. It was that window. -
2021-05-04 at 8:54 PM UTC in How are you coping with the death of Douglas Monks?
Originally posted by Robert Mugabe I didn't know he heard voices How often did he do meth? I know he dabbled in things but I just thought it was mainly beer and the odd toke
I honestly am not sure exactly how often with the meth. There were times he mentioned he was doing it, but I thought it was just in short limited increments based on who he knew at the time. He was pretty vain and didn't want to get so into it that it affected his appearance, but I do remember him hanging with a friend named Mark for a while and they did meth together. That started back in 2012 and I think went on for a little while because I finally remember meeting the guy after a few years. He died a year or so after that. Doug honestly would do whatever he could get his hands on. He was pretty desperate for release. Most days he'd have to get up first thing in the morning and walk to the store for a beer. If he'd try to quit or not have money to get beer, he'd get really sick after 2-3 days. I told him if he ever really wanted to quit, he'd have to go to rehab because if he did it on his own he'd die. There was a time or two he did try, and he ended up having seizures. -
2021-05-04 at 8:43 PM UTC in How are you coping with the death of Douglas Monks?
Originally posted by WellHung i feel guilty and disappointed in myself that i didnt reach out to him, more, and try to be his friend, and support him. but i didnt know it was this bad. Shame on me.
I understand the way you feel, but I don't think there was a whole lot to be done. I stayed in a relationship with him for so long because I could tell something was really wrong, and I'd hoped I could help him and be a good influence, but he still was tortured by his demons no matter how much I tried, and they caused him to do terrible things so I eventually I had to just leave for my own safety and hope the best for him. He was lost and would never ask for help and denied it when offered or highly suggested. Even when he went to the hospital the Thursday before, his dad said that the doctor wanted to keep him, but Doug smooth talked his way out, and they released him. All he ever wanted was freedom and it didn't matter the consequences. -
2021-05-04 at 8:08 PM UTC in How are you coping with the death of Douglas Monks?
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson It was a bit surprising really.
If he could have a "redo" I doubt he'd do it again…without knowing the details of how he did it or why I feel it was more of a shortsighted opportunist moment, a moment of madness rather than planned/thought out event.
Always wait till the next morning and things will look better/clearer etc.
His mom said he didn't leave a note or anything like it was planned or thought out. He had been hearing voices pretty severely for at least a week leading up to his death, if not longer. He was in touch with his parents and some friends those few days leading up telling them he thought the police were at his place trying to arrest him, and he was scared. I think he just got tortured enough, killing himself was only his escape, or the voices told him to do it. I don't know exactly what he did, but a lot of flooring was torn up in his apartment by bio cleanup, so I'm assuming he bled out. His mom said Archie was lying at his feet when the police were finally able to get to him. He had barracaded the door, and they had to get in through the window. I'm a bit surprised he did something so drastic as he has seemed to be vocally averse to suicide. In the past he's accidentally overdosed and been saved every time, so originally I assumed he had done that and just didn't make it this time.
Years ago when we were together I asked him if he maybe had paranoid schizophrenia just after seeing patterns in his behavior through the years. He said he didn't hear voices, but there were many times we'd be in bed trying to go to sleep, and I'd hear him cursing under his breath. At first when I'd ask him what was wrong he'd hesitantly say nothing but a time or two he finally admitted he was having scary intrusive thoughts. He was a very very paranoid person. Some of it made sense because he was doing a lot of troublesome things, but some of it just seemed to come way out of left field, like him thinking he was being gang stalked or that the FBI had planted nano spiders with cameras on them in his place. One day I had come over and he was throwing everything away because he thought someone had broken into his place and planted meth. He was opening up stuff like ketchup and shampoo bottles and scraping the insides to see if there was meth in them before tossing them out. He was scraping at the grout in his shower and picking through the carpet. He would pick up pieces of cat litter and ask me if I thought it looked like meth, and I said I don't know because I don't know what meth looks like, but it looked like cat litter to me and once I said that he looked at it and realized he was losing it. Also in hindsight I realize he was probably doing a lot more meth than I was aware of him doing, which I know exacerbates insomnia and therefore paranoid thoughts/hearing voices. I haven't talked to him in the past two years, but in living close by to him, I've seen him a handful of times in the past year walking down the street, and he didn't look good. His face was red and swollen and looked to have sores or spots on it which led me to think he had been doing a lot of meth lately.
He was diagnosed with bipolar disorder I believe when he was 15, sometime around then. His mom said he was a loving child, seemed to be normal, but once he got into his teens it was like the flip of a switch. They had to kick him out because he was being so violent and unpredictable. I think with the bipolar disorder going unmedicated after that and being homeless/poor for periods of time he just got into a world of trouble and his mental illness deepened into other things like OCD and schizophrenia. He also wouldn't admit to a lot of things and wouldn't accept help. I think part of that had to do with his parents being "put-together", well-off, and active members of their community; I'm sure he felt he had to adhere to that standard as their son and couldn't vocally admit his problems. I don't think he was aware how apparent his actions were till he was in way too deep. -
2021-05-01 at 7:06 AM UTC in Are Mullets back in style?
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2021-05-01 at 5:04 AM UTC in Bill Krozby, Dead or Alive, a Good Friend.They probably also didn't want to touch much in the apartment while APD has an open case. I think they just had bio cleanup come to take care of whatever happened so it wouldn't smell/damage the apartment and so his parents won't have to see when they come through.
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2021-05-01 at 5:02 AM UTC in Bill Krozby, Dead or Alive, a Good Friend.
Originally posted by Quick Mix Ready Why did they leave that crazy purple light on when they came and picked him up? I would think they would of shut everything down. it makes it even creepier. purple glowing light in the apartment of someone who past away.
why are they saying Suicide? like for real I can't see Kr0z doing that.
Since I've known Doug, he's told me he's overdosed several times but was always picked up and saved by EMS. And I've asked him before if he's ever felt suicidal, and he typically would say no or that he didn't ever want to kill himself. I'm guessing he just overdosed on something again, and they couldn't save him this time. He may not have necessarily been suicidal, but it sounds like he was having a really rough mental episode, and he probably took something to make it go away and took too much. This is my guess. He could've also just drank too much and choked on his vomit. There was a time when we were living together that he drank two bottles of red wine pretty quickly and was lying on the floor in the bedroom vomiting, and I had to turn him over so he wouldn't choke and then drag him into the bathroom and into the shower to clean all the vomit off of him. -
2021-05-01 at 4:53 AM UTC in Kr0z diedMy parents also are not emotionally intelligent and basically punished me for being depressed and self destructive when I was younger instead of getting me help, so I haven't really known how to deal with my emotions properly until recently. I felt I had to repress them a lot living under their roof and I internalized a lot of anger and disappointment.
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2021-05-01 at 4:48 AM UTC in Kr0z died
Originally posted by Bradley What emotional or mental disorders would you say that you have Cheeseburger?
I have depression and alcoholism, though I am not drinking currently.
I've had cyclical depression since I was 13, which leads me to think it may actually be something more like bipolar disorder. I've been anxious ever since I could remember, even as a young child. My mother is terribly anxious and believe I absorbed that energy in the womb. But, I nearly committed suicide when I was 18, so they sent me to the doctor finally and I was just diagnosed with depression and anxiety. A therapist I went to briefly then I said I had severe social anxiety. Over the past few years I've done more self assessment and research and think I'm falling more in the realm of ADHD, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, and/or autism spectrum. And I've got some PTSD from some of the things Doug put me through, unfortunately, but I finally went to domestic violence survivor counseling a couple years ago after the last time we engaged with each other and I've been doing a lot better the past year or so in that regard.
I've never been much of a drinker. I've only got drunk enough to puke once. Only drugs I've done were mostly with Doug and it was infrequent and nothing very serious; Klonopin, Gabapentin, Vicodin, Acid, GHB, all about once each except for the Gaba, but that was only a few times. I just smoke weed daily, but usually just after work or on days off. I've had issues with binge eating; I guess you could say that's my vice, but I've been in control of it better lately. -
2021-05-01 at 4:27 AM UTC in Kr0z died
Originally posted by Quick Mix Ready Hey no worries. all in the past
You can't blame us for thinking this will be a troll. like he went to Jail and his cat taken to be held and he'll show up on Cinco de Ocho
Oh no, I definitely understand. He used to beg me to give him my account so he could use it to troll with. And he posted some really heinous lies here. When I did read his posts more often, like years ago (may have actually been on Zoklet or Redfrn) he admitted he did some of the trolling to get my attention and reach out to him. One time he lied about knocking another girl up, I think, and it made me contact him after not talking for a month or so. As I'm sure you can imagine there were regular fights between us, breaking up and making up. A lot of jealousy and manipulation as we both weren't very emotionally intelligent at the time. -
2021-05-01 at 4:12 AM UTC in Kr0z died
Originally posted by Quick Mix Ready Yeah, Chzburger isnt the mOther I thought she was. I thought she was Kr0z-daughter's-mother.
thats why I said that shit.
but Chz.. werent you the one who was saying I told Kr0z some secret shit you told me? never happened. I think someone pretended to be me or Kr0z tricked you into that and out of nowhere you started accusing me. now isnt the time to dwell or anything, just letting you know that wasnt me.
but I guess to some of the nis trolls, it was funny af to them and you got trolled hard.
but this is just a next level of retarded shit im used to
Right, I'm not Doug's daughter's mother. He knocked her up about 6 weeks before we met.
I'm not entirely sure what you're speaking of, but I know at some point he was accusing me of something like messaging someone else on here or me being messaged by someone and I think nudes being exchanged. I dunno; he was paranoid about a lot of things and made up a lot of stuff in his head. I didn't exactly retain it because it was one of many of his delusions. I haven't private messaged anyone directly on this site besides Doug; other messages I have I was reached out to first, but most of them were within the past few days in regards to his passing. There have been moments I've engaged on the site because I guess I felt I had to defend myself or clear the air about things between him and I. No offense, but it's a bit rowdy over here for me. Doug and I had some similarities in personality but generally he was pretty extreme in comparison to me. -
2021-05-01 at 4 AM UTC in Bill Krozby, Dead or Alive, a Good Friend.
Originally posted by Quick Mix Ready wow 111 pages
https://files.cercomp.ufg.br/weby/up/410/o/Phillip_K._Dick_-_Do_Androids_Dream_of_Electric_Sheep_c%C3%B3pia.pdf
Print it up Chz or not. dont know if thats legal but you can leave an old laptop linked to this open
I work at a print shop. We're closed on the weekends, but if mementos are still being left by Monday I'll print it out and leave it on your behalf. His mom said they were probably coming this weekend to go through his things and empty the apartment. -
2021-05-01 at 2:30 AM UTC in eFuneral for Bill Krozby, Douglas Monks
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2021-05-01 at 2:16 AM UTC in What or who killed Kr0z
Originally posted by Quick Mix Ready Is it in the paper yet?. Did he move from 309 to 310?
I know that building is his from grubhub
Yeah, I went up to his apartment about an hour ago and someone else is definitely living in 309, his old place. At 310 there were lots of flowers and gifts and there were blue lights on inside, which he always had. Note on the door saying "We miss you Doug". -
2021-05-01 at 2:11 AM UTC in eFuneral for Bill Krozby, Douglas MonksFollowing.
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2021-05-01 at 1:45 AM UTC in Bill Krozby, Dead or Alive, a Good Friend.
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2021-05-01 at 1:34 AM UTC in What or who killed Kr0zAPD had reported it as a suicide.
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2021-05-01 at 1:25 AM UTC in Bill Krozby, Dead or Alive, a Good Friend.
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2021-04-30 at 8:38 PM UTC in Im being arrested for child pornography by apd
Originally posted by Quick Mix Ready Chz go adopt teej before someone else does. shit. My girlfriend might want it. I wonder if we could have it sent to cali, safely. she used to have a blue tabby mix. she has a couple of water color paintings of the cat.
I called about him I think on Wednesday, and they said he was still on hold per APD. I think they're waiting till his parents can get down here and sort everything out. They asked me if I wanted to be contacted about adoption if no one next of kin can take him. I said I wasn't sure if I could take him, but to go ahead and keep me on a list for him. I'm not sure if I'll be able to take him in. I've already got two cats right now. The cat that Doug had when we were together was Bubba. Bubba died and he got Archer right about the time we broke up, so I haven't had much experience with him. But I'm definitely sad for him. I just adopted a cat a few months ago thats owner had died. Will just see how it goes. -
2021-04-30 at 6:21 PM UTC in Im being arrested for child pornography by apd
Originally posted by Meikai >Apt #310
You said he was in 309. YOU WERE CERTAIN HE WAS IN 309. For as long as you've known him, 309.
Right, but I haven't talked to him in two years. If you look back through his posts, he moved into a "new place" I think back in August or September, but I've still seen him walking down the street to the store a couple times since then, so I knew he was still in the same apartment building.
