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Scron & Meikai are engaging in a transactional relationship...
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2022-10-31 at 5:51 PM UTCFolks, they are not particularly attracted to each other. However, they are adequately tolerant of each other to both deem it worthwhile to cohabitate, and pool resources together, thus allowing for a much more comfortable existence for each. They do not possess a strong emotional/physical attachment/preference for each other. Their relationship can best be described as purely functional.
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2022-10-31 at 5:55 PM UTCSounds like the basis of most solid marriages
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2022-10-31 at 5:56 PM UTCIf your relationship isn't transactional then you are by definition getting nothing out of it.
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2022-10-31 at 5:56 PM UTC
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2022-10-31 at 6:04 PM UTCy'know, i think that would be a fair conclusion to draw based on observation. even i sometimes worry this might be true. but then i remember i love him and think he's hot, so nah that can't be it. everything wrong and apparently frigid about our relationship just boils down to me being incredibly withdrawn/spergy/aloof/socially stunted/anxious and having abysmal self-esteem. also im incredibly touch-averse, but also [internally, secretly, privately] incredibly needy about physical contact.
i'll be going to sleep, laying there alone because he isn't sleepy yet, feeling like absolute shit and wanting to go cuddle with him... and then just... not do that. partly because im gross/dont wanna bother him, but also my general anxiety and the touch averse/neediness thing are a trip to navigate. 🤷♀️ -
2022-10-31 at 6:08 PM UTCespecially bad if/when i smoke weed because i am like on the threshold of having severe autism or something. a drug that makes me get all up in my own shit psychologically? yeah that shit pushes me over the edge into something akin to full blown ultra severe non-verbal autism. i need to buy a weighted blanket or somefing lmao
Originally posted by Donald Trump If your relationship isn't transactional then you are by definition getting nothing out of it.
big agree dat "transactional" isn't necessarily a bad thing, but if its *all* your relationship is (which is what op is sayin) that's not really healthy. i guess u can get cynical and say "even love is transactional ur just making eachother feel happy chemicals and if one of you stops feeling that the relationship is pointless", but that's some super jaded 'altruism doesn't exist' kind of stuff. healthy relationships should be transactional, but should probs also be a lot more than transactional.
(also important what kind of transactions we're talking about, how fair they are, and how socially acceptable they are. if the transaction is 'i am pretty and you are gross, old, and wealthy - i'll be your arm candy and you write me into your will' that's... i mean, more power to both parties in that situation tbh, but society generally gonna call that transactional where they wouldn't say that about 'you do dishes and i'll cook dinner'. cuz if u ever talked about division of labor with your partner that was incredibly transactional, but nobody is gonna ack like having clearly delineated obligations to support eachother and make eachothers lives easier is a bad thing.)The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2022-10-31 at 6:13 PM UTCSlideItIn (Peedy) Is another poster that is currently participating in a transactional relationship.
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2022-10-31 at 6:15 PM UTCFolks, the natural impulse here is to be defensive about engaging in a transactional relationship... as though it's bad or immoral. Most of us possess that kneejerk reflex because of societal conditioning over the years. Unlike physical conditioning, where you can lose all of your progress gained over years, in simply a month or 2... Lifelong societal conditioning is a much tougher symptom to shake.
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2022-10-31 at 6:35 PM UTCfolx??
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2022-10-31 at 6:55 PM UTCmy face plus those thighs and i'll let you imagnie where it goes from there
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2022-10-31 at 6:55 PM UTC
Originally posted by WellHung Folks, the natural impulse here is to be defensive about engaging in a transactional relationship… as though it's bad or immoral. Most of us possess that kneejerk reflex because of societal conditioning over the years. Unlike physical conditioning, where you can lose all of your progress gained over years, in simply a month or 2… Lifelong societal conditioning is a much tougher symptom to shake.
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2022-10-31 at 7:04 PM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost I like looking at her butthole
problem is, i dont like to be perceived. not in my totality, not in any sense. but i especially do not want certain aspects of me to be perceived - my unironic enjoyment of many nickelback songs, my crippling addiction to methamphetamine, my butthole, etc. -
2022-10-31 at 7:08 PM UTC"Look... we're both fags, so we may as well hook up."
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2022-10-31 at 9:05 PM UTC
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2022-10-31 at 9:49 PM UTC
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2022-10-31 at 10:09 PM UTCyeah look at all these sad sack fucking loosers all alone on spooky while I got the ride or die and the transaction is a 2 for 1 orgasm
would you like a play by play of the evening for masturbation material later? Keep you eye on the erotica forum folx
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2022-10-31 at 10:18 PM UTC
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2022-10-31 at 11:16 PM UTC
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2022-10-31 at 11:30 PM UTCscron isn't even good at sex and is the only homosexual I've ever met AFRAID to upload a dick pic.
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2022-11-01 at 1:29 AM UTC
