Originally posted by Enter
I wish women liked me…
enter what are you like as in how you conduct yourself in your day to day life? like for instance, how do you walk? i mean like when you walk around town or where ever you go? do you walk confidently, keeping your head up at all times, looking around, you know like chest out a bit, not over the top but with little bit of a swagger to your stride. or do you just slouch around looking down and unconfident? i really get the impression of you doing the latter. conducting yourself as a confident man who knows his shit, who is comfortable with himself and confident in his abilities. even a little arrogant about being better than everyone else(tho not to the point of stuck up) makes such a difference to how chicks will respond and interact with you. and being the latter guy will cockblock you like nothing else.
you see a lot of guys walking round looking blatantly like they lack self-confidence. how they stand, walk, talk and just how they generally conduct themselves. i'm sure most of them are too pre-occupied with their constant over-analysis of how fucking useless they are, that they don't even put much thought into this sort of shit. but chicks are huge on body language. its shit like this that they pick up on instantly and will plonk you into that 'platonic only' category quicker than you can blink.
because you know chicks do that too right? you know that thing you do when you meet any female human at any time, and within a couple of seconds you've already psychologically decided if 'would bang or wouldn't bang'. and then how you treat them and interact with that girl from then on will be 100% based on which of those 2 categories you put her into within 2 or 3 seconds of meeting her. we often do that shit on auto-pilot, but we still do it. any adult female, no matter on race, age or whatever. even with 90 year old grannies, which obviously they go into the 'would not' category for nearly everyone, lol.
but us guys base that shit on how pretty she is or how good her tits, ass or legs look, or how sweet they talk and shit like that. but women tend to make the 'would or wouldn't bang' decision on how they weigh you up as a man, as a potential provider, protector, future father-figure and shit like that.
its important to learn to be aware of, and conduct yourself, present yourself to, and interact with the world as tho you are a man who knows his shit and is in control of himself at all times. even if you're not, still act like you are at all times. women aren't perfect in choosing men. seriously, chicks mistake arrogance for self-confidence all the fucking time and end up fucking the biggest assholes. yes, that is why all those pricks get laid all the time. they're no more confident than fucking malice is, they're just arrogant, usually through stupidity and not even realizing themselves what useless twats they are. but that gets them laid because they conduct themselves well because of their arrogance and stupidity. this is how chicks can be really dumb, but you can work that to your advantage.
so work on your walk, your swagger and your stances. keep looking up, look people in the eye. if you're in a crowd or a room full of people, act like your the top man in the fucking room at all times, but look relaxed and comfortable in doing it. you will notice straight away everyone's behavior and responses to you will change as a result. people will take you more seriously all round, including chicks.
even how you sit will give you away as unconfident and beta. again slouching and looking down will fuck you off. doing that thing where you sit upright with your fingers locked together behind your head, your elbows sticking right out each side and that look on your face that says 'i'm the boss here, i know it, and i know that all of you guys know it'. silly shit like that will put you miles ahead when it comes to how chicks interact with you.
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