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2017-06-16 at 7:09 AM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon You'll do fine on the dating scene
R...really? You genuinely mean something nice about me and think I would do fine? It's such an odd thing to hear, dating hasn't even seriously crossed my mind, I haven't had social relations of any sort and didn't even emotionally bond or feel comfortable speaking to my own family, I've been a hiki for 3 years now. -
2017-06-16 at 7:17 AM UTC
Originally posted by Malice R…really? You genuinely mean something nice about me and think I would do fine? It's such an odd thing to hear, dating hasn't even seriously crossed my mind, I haven't had social relations of any sort and didn't even emotionally bond or feel comfortable speaking to my own family, I've been a hiki for 3 years now.
Yeah. You seem alright. The more you go out and actually interact with people, the better you'll get at handling social situations. Seriously, try it. It'll help. -
2017-06-16 at 7:17 AM UTC
Originally posted by Malice R…really? You genuinely mean something nice about me and think I would do fine? It's such an odd thing to hear, dating hasn't even seriously crossed my mind, I haven't had social relations of any sort and didn't even emotionally bond or feel comfortable speaking to my own family, I've been a hiki for 3 years now.
Yup. Apparently you've been exercising and shit while in your hermit state (as evidenced by your world class honey ass) so you have a pretty nice body. And if you clean up your look a bit and just start acting and dressing kinds normal, you'll be pretty attractive.
You've also bought into your own BS. I'm sure you might actually be ãutistic, but the thing is that you've bought into it way too much. You've built up this image and narrative of yourself as The Island, as being socially inept and totally åutistic. Just quit convincing yourself you're such a weirdo; you do it because you want to feel better about not fitting in, and it makes you be a bigger weirdo.
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2017-06-16 at 7:38 AM UTC
(as evidenced by your world class honey ass)
I just had the idea to post those pics on the M4M SF bay craigslist. Title: Best ass in three states seeks best top in the bay
The attention and compliments received could do wonders for my self esteem. At the very least I could always keep in mind that a large number of gay men would want to fuck me. Of course I'd use a throwaway email and wouldn't give them my cell phone number.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-06-16 at 7:55 AM UTC
Originally posted by Malice I just had the idea to post those pics on the M4M SF bay craigslist. Title: Best ass in three states seeks best top in the bay
The attention and compliments received could do wonders for my self esteem. At the very least I could always keep in mind that a large number of gay men would want to fuck me. Of course I'd use a throwaway email and wouldn't give them my cell phone number.
Do it. Trust me it's fun.
EDIT: Actually follow through on it too, that's the best part. -
2017-06-16 at 8:13 AM UTCWhat? I'm not actually gay. Even if I was I wouldn't risk the chance of AIDS, and would at least demand a recent test and condom. Unfortunately prostate stimulation does nothing for me. I've tried it various times, even with a g spot vibrator, and still, not much, not worth it. It's unfortunate, really.
Tell us about your fun experience. -
2017-06-16 at 8:22 AM UTC
Originally posted by Malice What? I'm not actually gay. Even if I was I wouldn't risk the chance of AIDS, and would at least demand a recent test and condom. Unfortunately prostate stimulation does nothing for me. I've tried it various times, even with a g spot vibrator, and still, not much, not worth it. It's unfortunate, really.
Tell us about your fun experience.
I'm not gay either, I just play one on &T. -
2017-06-16 at 8:25 AM UTCThat's really disappointing, if true. Unless you mean you're bi, pan, demi, or sapio.
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2017-06-16 at 8:37 AM UTC
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2017-06-16 at 8:59 AM UTCUh, whatever dude.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-06-16 at 9:25 AM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon Since you're actually aütistic, I'm not going to humiliate you for failing to read between the lines. I understand that actual, biological depression is a thing.
I'd go so far as to say that purely psychological depression isn't a thing; people think depression is "sadness" but it's really a crushing feeling where your body actively fights your attempts to be "ok" and actively saps you of any energy to do anything.
But lots of people get depressed. Not bullshit depressed, clinically depressed. It's something that can be overcome and it's not "hard", it's just uncomfortable. But that's the point. You can either paste away in "woe is me" or actually try to use whatever illusion of agency you have and try to beat it. HATS isn't the special snowflake who couldn't. He's becoming the dummy who wouldn't.
Every time you try to talk to him about it, he just dives directly into stupid ass sophistry, rationalisations and excuses. And the shitty thing is that maybe it wouldn't be this bad if all you tards didn't enable each other so much. This place is like the ultimate negative feedback loop. Except it's not negative feedback in that he's getting negative reactions, but that he's being impacted negatively by excusemaking on his behalf and the validation he gets.
I'm not going to get into addressing how that also holds true for you, and many others in the community. That's a story for another time. But HTS isn't irretrievably stuck in a pit of despair, he's just lazy. I wouldn't say that to most people, but it's true in HTS's case.
You have a rather naive view of mental illness. If you could just stop being depressed everyone would do that. I don’t like sitting around feeling like shit for no reason, or having nights when I feel suicidal with no specific trigger, or splitting on people when they haven’t done anything really worth me being upset at them.
I’ve gotten my life in order alot over the last few months but I still feel quite depressed and I was feeling suicidal like two weeks ago for no real reason. If all it took to be happy was a little effort I would. -
2017-06-16 at 9:46 AM UTC
Originally posted by Malice (This isn't about HTS)
You know, to be honest, I was just thinking yesterday that I would probably fuck a trap if I found them attractive and the opportunity came by. I do recall a threesome camgirl video with one particularly gorgeous trap. Even the penis was feminine.
So I suppose I can't genuinely mock you for this. Although, you should know, I've seen pictures of HTS mooning the camera, his gut, and it was not an attractive sight. He needs to lose weight and do hip thrusts to develop a perfectly shaped butt. I would certainly know about aesthetic ass development.
(This isn’t about me.)
Say like a 120lbs tatted‐up emo chick with a cute little talking boat diorama?
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2017-06-16 at 1:26 PM UTC
Originally posted by blackbird You have a rather naive view of mental illness. If you could just stop being depressed everyone would do that. I don’t like sitting around feeling like shit for no reason, or having nights when I feel suicidal with no specific trigger, or splitting on people when they haven’t done anything really worth me being upset at them.
I’ve gotten my life in order alot over the last few months but I still feel quite depressed and I was feeling suicidal like two weeks ago for no real reason. If all it took to be happy was a little effort I would.
No, you have a naïve view of mental illness. It's a thing. And it's a factor. But you, and a lot of other people, are using it as an excuse to give up entirely and act like victims of circumstances, when you're making it worse with your bottom bitch cuckoldry. Depression doesn't have to overtake your life, but it's easy to let it, so you fags do.
That's the thing you mongs don't seem to be grasping; again, you're not special snowflakes and nobody else nnows your plight. Lots of people suffer from depression. They generally just don't let it engulf them and succumb to the comfort of it. -
2017-06-16 at 1:27 PM UTC
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2017-06-16 at 1:29 PM UTCI'll ______ your ___________ with all my ____________.
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2017-06-16 at 1:38 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-06-16 at 1:51 PM UTC
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2017-06-16 at 2:35 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon No, you have a naïve view of mental illness. It's a thing. And it's a factor. But you, and a lot of other people, are using it as an excuse to give up entirely and act like victims of circumstances, when you're making it worse with your bottom bitch cuckoldry. Depression doesn't have to overtake your life, but it's easy to let it, so you fags do.
That's the thing you mongs don't seem to be grasping; again, you're not special snowflakes and nobody else nnows your plight. Lots of people suffer from depression. They generally just don't let it engulf them and succumb to the comfort of it.
Yeah. There's a name for it too, it's called learned helplessness and it's probably the most debilitating thing about some people's personalities.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-06-16 at 2:39 PM UTC
Originally posted by Phoenix Yeah. There's a name for it too, it's called learned helplessness and it's probably the most debilitating thing about some people's personalities.
Is that the term? I was wondering what it was. I call it... self enabling. It is SO FUCKING STUPID. I can admit that. And you should too. Depression is far worse for people who are insightful, with a degree of intelligence, who can essentially justify their depression, as real as it is, and use it against their own desires to get better.
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2017-06-16 at 2:40 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Is that the term? I was wondering what it was. I call it… self enabling. It is SO FUCKING STUPID. I can admit that. And you should too. Depression is far worse for people who are insightful, with a degree of intelligence, who can essentially justify their depression, as real as it is, and use it against their own desires to get better.
Over-analyzing is the death of progress.
Oh I agree it's fucking stupid.
