2020-01-26 at 1:51 AM UTC
Obviously the term is subjective but what your personal opinion? Can you raise a good kid without ever striking them physically? If you think physical punishment is necessary to teach them stuff, where would you draw the line?
I just head this little girl running down my hallway telling her little doggy to come back and then i heard the mom come by and ask her "why are you being so naughty? Do you need your ASS WHOOPED?" and the little girl casually said 'no.'
Just made me wonder what the hell kinda shit she does behind closed doors.
2020-01-26 at 1:52 AM UTC
Were you abused as a child scron?
2020-01-26 at 1:57 AM UTC
Anyone who uses pain as a motivating factor on a child is lazy as fuck. Quicker and easier to intimidate than teach.
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2020-01-26 at 1:57 AM UTC
i liked getting beat since i knew it hurt them more than me ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°) (why are you hitting yourself, why are you hitting yourself, why are you hitting yourself LOL owned)
2020-01-26 at 2:01 AM UTC
What age are we talking, mq?
2020-01-26 at 2:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ
Let's say you have 3 kids. One is 13, one is 6 and one is 2.
I believe there's a window at a young age when one quick swat on the ass can be useful for the shock factor. To show them certain things are absolutely fucking off limits. But an actual ass whipping to inflict pain is just to satisfy the anger a parent might have.
Once they're big enough that a swat on the ass doesn't shock them, you just have to teach them. Teach them early that life is what you make of it. You want something you have to earn it. Even if that just means showing respect.
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2020-01-26 at 2:14 AM UTC
Consequences for actions, good.
Abuse, bad.
Where is the fine line?
2020-01-26 at 2:14 AM UTC
POLECAT
POLECAT is a motherfucking ferret
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if they hadny beat me in school and at home when I acted bad I woulda prolly spent my life in prison or been king of the world
2020-01-26 at 2:18 AM UTC
Originally posted by larrylegend8383
I believe there's a window at a young age when one quick swat on the ass can be useful for the shock factor. To show them certain things are absolutely fucking off limits. But an actual ass whipping to inflict pain is just to satisfy the anger a parent might have.
Once they're big enough that a swat on the ass doesn't shock them, you just have to teach them. Teach them early that life is what you make of it. You want something you have to earn it. Even if that just means showing respect.
I thunk I'm inclined to think this way too, but I've never had kids so I dont directly know what parenting CAN be like. There are so many extenuating circumstances to it that it seems very complicated.
Like there are surely kids that were horribly physically mentally abused that didnt deserve it, and some still turned out "good" and others went down a shitty path in life. I think its sometime hard to connect the two.
I do agree that there are parents who clearly, CLEARLY get off on taking their anger out on their kids. That one is pretty sad. Even when then their kids are being very unruly or disobedient it gives them the perfect opportunity to just beat the shit out of them, among all the other horrible things I've heard done.
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2020-01-26 at 2:25 AM UTC
Lol man that's a good point though
You realize how many kids back in the day got their ass thoroughly worn out just because they were mildly autistic and struggled with certain things?
2020-01-26 at 2:30 AM UTC
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I was physically abused as a kid and it made me worse off and everyone I know. The short answer is no, unless theyre a shitty little rich kid who needs it. Kidz in da struggle dont need to be hit to learn right from wrong, only rich, morally and sexually ambiguous 2 parent household kids with a combined income over 50k
