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I have too much social anxiety to tell random women on the street they look beautiful
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2019-09-29 at 1:16 AM UTCBut I wouldn't feel awkward hitting one over the head and molesting them, I'd only feel nervous about it because I'd probably get arrested and that's what prevents me from acting like an absolute bundy. How can I get over this imaginary barrier in my head that prevents me from hitting on random girls IRL and not caring if I get rejected? I've got a friend who tells me when we see girls walking by that I should tell her she looks good and I can't force myself to do it, it makes me embarrassed, but at the same time I have these urges to hurt women that I absolutely would act on if I somehow knew I could get away with, it's some sort of cognitive dissonance in my head.
Also, this song gives me a boner
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2019-09-29 at 1:19 AM UTC
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2019-09-29 at 1:22 AM UTCHmm
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2019-09-29 at 1:24 AM UTCI'm gonna beat your head in with a rock
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2019-09-29 at 1:30 AM UTCMaybe don't tell random women they look good, because that's not how you hit on girls, it's how you creep on them. Just talk to them like a normal fucking human being, and in settings where that shit is normal. Not 'on the street'.
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2019-09-29 at 1:31 AM UTCNot everyone has a social life. Some people get deportd to new dountries after prison or work from home.
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2019-09-29 at 1:32 AM UTC
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2019-09-29 at 1:39 AM UTC
Originally posted by 8stringflinG Maybe don't tell random women they look good, because that's not how you hit on girls, it's how you creep on them. Just talk to them like a normal fucking human being, and in settings where that shit is normal. Not 'on the street'.
God what are you 15
Its obviously unorthodox but I do have to say there are a good number of times in my life (many but certainly not all while I was intoxicated) where I passed a girl/lady/woman/female/grandma and found her so pretty that I had to say something which was just basically along the lines of "hey... excuse me sorry sorry sorry (always apologize three times like that) say I just HAD to stop you to let you know I think you might be one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. And I just needed to tell you that." Carry on. *sheepish smile*
They always receive it well, usually blush, act flattered and say thank you and sometimes, just sometimes, you can pursue and accrue some digits.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-09-29 at 1:43 AM UTCyeah it's not like Β§mΒ£ΓgΓL would know a thing about being attractive to any woman
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2019-09-29 at 1:45 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ They always receive it well, usually blush, act flattered and say thank you and sometimes, just sometimes, you can pursue and accrue some digits.
that's the point. what i'm doing isn't working so it's time to just hit on every woman i see until i can fuck one of them. but i don't have the confidence or lack of social inhibition to do this and it's stressing me out -
2019-09-29 at 1:45 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Its obviously unorthodox but I do have to say there are a good number of times in my life (many but certainly not all while I was intoxicated) where I passed a girl/lady/woman/female/grandma and found her so pretty that I had to say something which was just basically along the lines of "hey… excuse me sorry sorry sorry (always apologize three times like that) say I just HAD to stop you to let you know I think you might be one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. And I just needed to tell you that." Carry on. *sheepish smile*
They always receive it well, usually blush, act flattered and say thank you and sometimes, just sometimes, you can pursue and accrue some digits.
That's because you told them to carry on and walked away. Eliminates any possibility of rejection.
Had you asked for their number, they'd probably be weirded out and say they had a boyfriend or something.
It helps if you're attractive as well, which you and me are (and incredibly so) but sploo is a dough boy version of Ted Bundy so this will probably not work well. -
2019-09-29 at 1:49 AM UTC
Originally posted by 8stringflinG That's because you told them to carry on and walked away. Eliminates any possibility of rejection.
Had you asked for their number, they'd probably be weirded out and say they had a boyfriend or something.
It helps if you're attractive as well, which you and me are (and incredibly so) but sploo is a dough boy version of Ted Bundy so this will probably not work well.
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2019-09-29 at 1:49 AM UTC
Originally posted by 8stringflinG That's because you told them to carry on and walked away. Eliminates any possibility of rejection.
Had you asked for their number, they'd probably be weirded out and say they had a boyfriend or something.
It helps if you're attractive as well, which you and me are (and incredibly so) but sploo is a dough boy version of Ted Bundy so this will probably not work well.
I just sort of ad libbed that I dont think I generally say CARRY ON. I just laugh and wait for her response. -
2019-09-29 at 1:54 AM UTCthe thing is it doesn't actually matter if it works, the worst that can happen really is rejection and that's only a problem because i can't detach myself from the feeling of embarrassment it would cause me to take personally. in reality if i do this 100 times i'll maybe get a fuck out of it and there is no negative repercussion
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2019-09-29 at 1:57 AM UTC
Originally posted by frumbob ππ¦ππ―π·π¦ the thing is it doesn't actually matter if it works, the worst that can happen really is rejection and that's only a problem because i can't detach myself from the feeling of embarrassment it would cause me to take personally. in reality if i do this 100 times i'll maybe get a fuck out of it and there is no negative repercussion
This really just shows how immature you are. -
2019-09-29 at 2:01 AM UTCGo to the fuckin bar. Increase your odds by about 1000%. /threadThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-09-29 at 2:09 AM UTCDude, this becomes a lot easier when you realize most girls are complete losers. You need a girl with mental health and/or addiction issues too. Girls sit around and dream and fantasize about shit and are skanky enough to not have a guard up when they should. Even if a girl doesn't give you her number she's happy to talk to someone. Sploo, just realize that your bundyness isnt apparent upon first glance, you look downright nonthreatening. If you endear yourself to a girl (music, animals, fucking anything non rapey) they'll overlook other stuff pretty quickly once they have any kind of emotional investment (which 90% are actively looking for on a daily basis everywhere they go, citation:makeup) and will probably like you if you appear to not like anybody but them. Shit's not hard, jut don't be a spazThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-09-29 at 2:11 AM UTC
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2019-09-29 at 2:15 AM UTC
Originally posted by frumbob ππ¦ππ―π·π¦ the thing is it doesn't actually matter if it works, the worst that can happen really is rejection and that's only a problem because i can't detach myself from the feeling of embarrassment it would cause me to take personally. in reality if i do this 100 times i'll maybe get a fuck out of it and there is no negative repercussion
Donβt take it personally if they blow you off, or say no. You very well could be dodging a bullet.
When I was on the dating site, Iβd get guys in my inbox telling me how beautiful I was, bla bla bla. If I turned βem down, theyβd write a nasty fuckin message back telling me what a piece of shit I was. Iβd think to myself, βhum 5 mins ago I was soooo beautifulβ. From there on out I knew he was a flake.
You cannot take it personal, especially from a stranger. They could be having a horrible day. A family member could have died, (insert anything that puts us in a bad mood), you just donβt know whatβs up, especially with a stranger. -
2019-09-29 at 3:56 AM UTC
Originally posted by Sudo Dude, this becomes a lot easier when you realize most girls are complete losers. You need a girl with mental health and/or addiction issues too. Girls sit around and dream and fantasize about shit and are skanky enough to not have a guard up when they should. Even if a girl doesn't give you her number she's happy to talk to someone. Sploo, just realize that your bundyness isnt apparent upon first glance, you look downright nonthreatening. If you endear yourself to a girl (music, animals, fucking anything non rapey) they'll overlook other stuff pretty quickly once they have any kind of emotional investment (which 90% are actively looking for on a daily basis everywhere they go, citation:makeup) and will probably like you if you appear to not like anybody but them. Shit's not hard, jut don't be a spaz
hmm... thinking back..
I don't think I've ever been with a girl that isn't completely fucked in the head.
i guess I like them damaged because it's easy to fill the void in their life, as opposed to convincing someone who's had everything/anyone they've ever wanted.
path of least resistance, right?...The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
