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2019-08-12 at 1:07 PM UTCI have been working full time since I was 16 years old and moved out and had my own place when I was 17 and got a girl pregnant a year later and almost became a manager at a store and bought a house but I decided that life wasn't for me and chose a different path
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2019-08-12 at 1:13 PM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost I have been working full time since I was 16 years old and moved out and had my own place when I was 17 and got a girl pregnant a year later and almost became a manager at a store and bought a house but I decided that life wasn't for me and chose a different path
Yeah... Not impressive to the adoption agency. -
2019-08-12 at 1:17 PM UTCMy main goal is to blow up then act like I don't know nobody
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2019-08-12 at 1:25 PM UTC
Originally posted by G4LM And even if you did, HTS is never gonna be able to adopt with his criminal record.
It's definitely a tick in the negative column but it wouldn't outright preclude me from adopting a kid. I can get my crimes pardoned too, and if I don't commit any more crimes (and become more financially stable) we could probably adopt in our mid-30s. ๐ -
2019-08-12 at 1:29 PM UTC
Originally posted by HTS It's definitely a tick in the negative column but it wouldn't outright preclude me from adopting a kid. I can get it pardoned, and if I don't commit any more crimes/become more stable we could probably adopt in our mid-30s. ๐
That's not very far off. a lot can happen in 5 years. 5 years ago I thought I would be paying a mortgage for a house on the other side of the country but life has a way of being full of many things you never expect
That's just how I live my life though. People like ยงmยฃรgรL never change, they always stay the same. The kind of person you can meet 10 years later and they didn't grow at all they are still the same toxic asshole with no life experiences -
2019-08-12 at 1:29 PM UTCI can legally own a gun again in 4 or so years. If the state is willing to trust me to responsibly wield the power to take life, they can definitely be persuaded to let me nurture it.
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2019-08-12 at 1:41 PM UTC
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2019-08-12 at 1:45 PM UTC
Originally posted by HTS It's definitely a tick in the negative column but it wouldn't outright preclude me from adopting a kid. I can get my crimes pardoned too, and if I don't commit any more crimes (and become more financially stable) we could probably adopt in our mid-30s. ๐
IF you get it expunged.
And then they'll ask what the fuck you were doing from 18-mid 30's
Which is sitting around doing drugs and getting arrested -
2019-08-12 at 1:46 PM UTC"Enriching life experiences"
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2019-08-12 at 1:49 PM UTC
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2019-08-12 at 1:50 PM UTC
Originally posted by G4LM IF you get it expunged.
And then they'll ask what the fuck you were doing from 18-mid 30's
Which is sitting around doing drugs and getting arrested
I only ever got arrested during a period of particularly poor mental health in my early 20s. A handful of times over one 6 month period, in the middle of 28 years of not getting arrested. I haven't been arrested for many years since, and I'll probably never be arrested again. -
2019-08-12 at 1:52 PM UTC
Originally posted by HTS I only ever got arrested during a period of particularly poor mental health in my early 20s. A handful of times over one 6 month period, in the middle of 28 years of not getting arrested. I haven't been arrested for many years since, and I'll probably never be arrested again.
Lmao, yeah... -
2019-08-12 at 1:54 PM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost I don't think adoption place ask what you were like at 18 years old. Most people are retarded at that age
Yeah they do. They want to know what you've done your whole life to know what kind of person you were. I have adopted family members. It isn't an easy process and people get denied all the time.
Most people weren't smoking a shit load of meth. -
2019-08-12 at 1:55 PM UTCAll we do is stay inside, cuddle and play video games. We don't need a child in our life right now (no room anyways) so we are gonna adopt a cat instead :3c
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2019-08-12 at 1:56 PM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost I don't agree with forcing someone to be transgender but some kids have hardcore dysphoria and become very unhappy and confused being treated like their birth gender
Like Blair white she was only 6 years old and only had female friends and her family tried to make sense of it by saying she was a player with girlfriends at 6yo.
But it's only 1% of the population so idk why you're so buthurt over them
Yes they're confused because their mind is seriously under developed and they lack life experience. They're still just getting their bearings and trying to figure what life and the world is about. This is why you don't let children make life changing irreversible decisions, because they lack the knowledge and experience to make them correctly.
And yet you would allow a child who by your own description is confused make such a huge change that they could end up seriously regretting forever. What's wrong with the child waiting till they're an adult? Even if they live and dress as a girl.
I mean I'm sure I heard that more than half of adults that have sex change operations end up regretting it. Imagine what that would do to a child's mind that is still in the process of developing and learning to understand their mind and what life is about. They can always have the op later, but they can't undo it once its done. This is something the subject really needs to be sure about.
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2019-08-12 at 1:57 PM UTCI don't understand how doctors are agreeing to this, fucking corrupt obvs.
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2019-08-12 at 1:57 PM UTC
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2019-08-12 at 2 PM UTC
Originally posted by Narc Yes they're confused because their mind is seriously under developed and they lack life experience. They're still just getting their bearings and trying to figure what life and the world is about. This is why you don't let children make life changing irreversible decisions, because they lack the knowledge and experience to make them correctly.
And yet you would allow a child who by your own description is confused make such a huge change that they could end up seriously regretting forever. What's wrong with the child waiting till they're an adult? Even if they live and dress as a girl.
I mean I'm sure I heard that more than half of adults that have sex change operations end up regretting it. Imagine what that would do to a child's mind that is still in the process of developing and learning to understand their mind and what life is about. They can always have the op later, but they can't undo it once its done. This is something the subject really needs to be sure about.
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The argument is that hormone changes are more effective before/during puberty. It's a shit argument, but that's the argument. Actual surgery I cannot think of a possible fucking excuse for. Kids should only go under the knife when it is a medical requirement.
What was that whole "first, do no harm" thing? Any doctor doing these kind of surgeries should be ashamed of themselves. -
2019-08-12 at 2 PM UTCI'm not saying to cut then penis off, I don't agree with surgery but having long hair and wearing girls clothes is no big deal.
Hormones is another issue, if you start early they work really well but you need to start before puberty so I think that's a very Important decision and shouldn't be taken lightly and the kid should be told that once you start this you can't go back -
2019-08-12 at 2:06 PM UTC
Originally posted by Ghost I think that's a very Important decision and shouldn't be taken lightly and the kid should be told that once you start this you can't go back
By this logic, children should be able to get tattoos of their own accord, right? And if they want to start smoking cigarettes, who cares even? Just let them know that once they do it they can't go back.
