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  1. #1
    Admin African Astronaut
    When you look back on your life, do you ever really think about the different paths you could have taken along with the pros and cons of each choice?

    Are you satisfied with your decision based on the fact that trying to hard is likely to result in stress and regretting not taking it easy, and not not trying hard enough is likely going to result in a lower quality of life?
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  2. #2
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    Looking back is for losers.
  3. #3
    Needledick Needledick Needledick motherfucker [mulishly down your brachydactylia]
    Coulda shoulda woulda.
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    AngryIVer African Astronaut [my jade controlled morrigan]
    Originally posted by Admin When you look back on your life, do you ever really think about the different paths you could have taken along with the pros and cons of each choice?

    Are you satisfied with your decision based on the fact that trying to hard is likely to result in stress and regretting not taking it easy, and not not trying hard enough is likely going to result in a lower quality of life?

    I stopped looking back when I realized the events I was looking back on wouldn't determine where I am now. Like, if I made a different choice at 16 there's literally no telling where I would be now because so many other things would have happened in that time frame. For all I know it could be a lot fucking worse. The key is making good decisions that will effect your short term future, with a rough outline of where you'd like to be in the mid future. As far as long term future goes, there's really no telling so there's not a lot of sense worrying about that either.
  5. #5
    Grylls Cum Looking Faggot [abrade this vocal tread-softly]
    life is just a learning curve for everyone
  6. #6
    Obbe Alan What? [annoy my right-angled speediness]
    You couldn't have done it differently than the way you did it, but even if you could've, you don't know where that path would have led... maybe it would have led to you getting hit by a bus or something like that. So try not to regret your past. You're here now, seize the day.
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  7. #7
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    If you live a long life, all those people in your life, the ones you thought were so important, you will outlive, and they will all be gone. You will be left alone. And they will have taken all your mistakes with them.
  8. #8
    AngryIVer African Astronaut [my jade controlled morrigan]
    Originally posted by Obbe You couldn't have done it differently than the way you did it, but even if you could've, you don't know where that path would have led… maybe it would have led to you getting hit by a bus or something like that. So try not to regret your past. You're here now, seize the day.

    Great way of putting it.

    /thread
  9. #9
    Admin African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Obbe You couldn't have done it differently than the way you did it, but even if you could've, you don't know where that path would have led… maybe it would have led to you getting hit by a bus or something like that. So try not to regret your past. You're here now, seize the day.

    I don't regret much. I'm wondering if I'm doing it just right by being morally wrong...
  10. #10
    Obbe Alan What? [annoy my right-angled speediness]
    Originally posted by Admin I don't regret much. I'm wondering if I'm doing it just right by being morally wrong…

    What do you do wrong?
  11. #11
    Admin African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Obbe What do you do wrong?

    Serial.
  12. #12
    Shrooms Houston
    What's serial?

    Oh you meant like doing things that are bad
  13. #13
    Obbe Alan What? [annoy my right-angled speediness]
    Originally posted by Admin Serial.

    Killer?
  14. #14
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    Originally posted by Obbe Killer?

    No. Captain Crunch.
  15. #15
    Admin African Astronaut
    I don't kill.

    I'm not like that.
  16. #16
    tr1p Yung Blood
    All the time, every waking moment of every day. I spent long enough trying to forget, that got me no where.
  17. #17
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    I do this all the damn time.

    Being able to look back and reflect on the cause-and-effect chain that molded you into who are today is one of the most valuable activities you can engage in.

    The little butterflies are what ultimately determine your fate, not the big tsunamis they result in.

    Sometimes we can actually use some of this insight to create a better future for ourselves, or avoid making the same mistakes, but also, sometimes it's just cool to know how our current selves were made.
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