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This allure.
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2019-07-15 at 7:10 AM UTCIt's all fun and games until she pulls a .38 on you and threatens to kill you.
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2019-07-15 at 7:33 AM UTC
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2019-07-16 at 1:17 PM UTCwell shit just got fucked up or im freaking out for no reason, gave her a ride to a contact, she had me park 4 blocks away and walked off [she said they were really paranoid], after about an hour an a half i asked her where she was and if we were going anytime soon, she told me she was leaving, another hour passed and when i asked whats up she said they wouldnt let her leave, then she just went dark. this was like an hour ago and im worried about her but don't know what to do.
this is fucked, i really hope her phone died or she found another ride anything, jesus fuck. -
2019-07-16 at 1:25 PM UTCShe robbed you
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2019-07-16 at 1:30 PM UTC
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2019-07-16 at 1:32 PM UTCi'd be happy if she robbed me if she's alright. sorta, you know wat i mean
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2019-07-16 at 2:57 PM UTCKeep texting and calling. It can be uses for triangulation in a worst case scenario. Phones only ping every so often when inactive.
Hopefully she's just lying to you for one reason or another. -
2019-07-17 at 4:43 AM UTCshe was ok, stopped by her place. told me she lost wifi which seemed like a lie to me, glad she was alright.
k, this shit freaked me out tho. maybe it was the mix of feels, meth and the shadyness of it all.
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2019-07-17 at 4:46 AM UTC
Originally posted by Nil she was ok, stopped by her place. told me she lost wifi which seemed like a lie to me, glad she was alright.
k, this shit freaked me out tho. maybe it was the mix of feels, meth and the shadyness of it all.
need some space.
Oh lol. If I knew you were on meth I wouldn't have taken it seriously. Paranoia is a bitch.
What do you think she was doing? -
2019-07-17 at 4:56 AM UTC
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2019-07-17 at 4:58 AM UTCand the meth too, yeah.
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2019-07-17 at 5:05 AM UTC
Originally posted by Nil not sure, i didn't pry when i saw her, just said i was seeing if she was alright and left.
she didn't help the paranoia when she told me i couldn't stroll around before she walked off["you trying to get me in shit??"], after making me park a 5 min walk away. The combination of her saying she was being held there, which i believe and not knowing the whereabouts so i could check up on her made things pretty bad.
Why would they hold her there? I feel like she would've told you about that shit, but I don't know her.
Either way she's bad news and I hope for your sake that you're serious about this space thing. No pussy is worth this, take it from me lol. The sooner you cut her out the better. -
2019-07-17 at 5:39 AM UTC
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2019-07-17 at 6:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by Nil Saw her again, we railed meth together and hung out for a few hours, she was all fucked up on down and dressed like a slut for a party, telling me i'm not her type but asking me for back massages, telling me to stay in the living room while she changes with the door open[y not just close it??]
I feel like there are a lot of potential warning signs that could be unpacked here and delved into in depth, but at the end of the day, a well-drafted list of pros vs cons will ultimately have very little influence on how you end up proceeding.
I've had my share of unhinged broads in my life, and no amount of logic or reason can intervene once the psychological id makes up its decision. All I can really recommend is try to keep your wits about you as best you can.
One recent woman I was involved with, for example, strategically asked me immediately following an hour long sex session to help her kill a dude. Even in such a moment of weakness, I still had certain uncrossable limits. We ultimately compromised, however, and I ended up driving her to the house so she could fire a few warning shots in the area surrounding her target's house.
Her tactical thottery was effective. At the end of the day, I still did something I never would have otherwise done had I not met her.
But the whole thing was one long learning experience. You involve yourself with a few chicks like this and you gradually build up a tolerance. It may actually better equip you for when the REALLY crazy one comes along. -
2019-07-17 at 9:01 AM UTCop, one day we are going to see you on the documentary show, I Almost Got Away With It.
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2019-07-17 at 12:46 PM UTC
Originally posted by gadzooks I feel like there are a lot of potential warning signs that could be unpacked here and delved into in depth, but at the end of the day, a well-drafted list of pros vs cons will ultimately have very little influence on how you end up proceeding.
I've had my share of unhinged broads in my life, and no amount of logic or reason can intervene once the psychological id makes up its decision. All I can really recommend is try to keep your wits about you as best you can.
One recent woman I was involved with, for example, strategically asked me immediately following an hour long sex session to help her kill a dude. Even in such a moment of weakness, I still had certain uncrossable limits. We ultimately compromised, however, and I ended up driving her to the house so she could fire a few warning shots in the area surrounding her target's house.
Her tactical thottery was effective. At the end of the day, I still did something I never would have otherwise done had I not met her.
But the whole thing was one long learning experience. You involve yourself with a few chicks like this and you gradually build up a tolerance. It may actually better equip you for when the REALLY crazy one comes along.
There are no pros to women like this. A kind, sane(ish) woman will give you everything the crazy ones do and more. -
2019-07-17 at 5 PM UTC
Originally posted by GGG There are no pros to women like this. A kind, sane(ish) woman will give you everything the crazy ones do and more.
I mean, yeah, if the options are between:
A) Crazy/unbalanced drug-dealing criminal chick that is into you.
B) Well-adjusted, law-abiding chick that is into you.
Then there's really no reason to even consider chick A.
The problem is that gals from the second column aren't exactly bountifully present (at least, not in my life).
So then it comes down to A, B, or single. If there's an A presenting itself, I may consider taking that over being single. It just comes down to how far they are into A territory vs B territory. -
2019-07-17 at 5:14 PM UTC
Originally posted by gadzooks I mean, yeah, if the options are between:
A) Crazy/unbalanced drug-dealing criminal chick that is into you.
B) Well-adjusted, law-abiding chick that is into you.
Then there's really no reason to even consider chick A.
The problem is that gals from the second column aren't exactly bountifully present (at least, not in my life).
So then it comes down to A, B, or single. If there's an A presenting itself, I may consider taking that over being single. It just comes down to how far they are into A territory vs B territory.
But if you're busy chasing A you'll never find a B.
I'd rather be single, honestly. But I also ghost all the friends I make so maybe I'm not the best one to be giving advice. -
2019-07-20 at 12:57 AM UTC
Originally posted by gadzooks I feel like there are a lot of potential warning signs that could be unpacked here and delved into in depth, but at the end of the day, a well-drafted list of pros vs cons will ultimately have very little influence on how you end up proceeding.
Yeah this is transcending reason, not that justifications appeal to me.
Originally posted by GGG There are no pros to women like this. A kind, sane(ish) woman will give you everything the crazy ones do and more.
"free" drugs?
Originally posted by GGG But if you're busy chasing A you'll never find a B.
I'd rather be single, honestly. But I also ghost all the friends I make so maybe I'm not the best one to be giving advice.
Thats the thing, I wasn't chasing her. it was never about getting laid. The feelz crept up on me. I wasn't lying when i said i have no libido. I was fine just being bros and now it's too weird and I can't put this shit to rest. Would rather not be around her than have my body yearn for her. -
2019-07-20 at 1 AM UTCThanks Nil. Now I know what’s up. But why deny your natural urges? Maybe she wants an FWB. That could be fun!