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Reaching BDSM Switch Status

  1. #1
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    I really want need to somehow train myself to be a part-time Dom.

    My natural tendencies are submissive (with a subscripted "sub").

    But I tend to almost exclusively attract girls half my age and into DD/LG, spanking, choking, and all around being dominated and controlled.

    How can I become humanity's truest polymath?

    I just want to enjoy choking and barking commands and even hearing a girl call me... Daddy!...



    But without having that immediate visceral reaction.
  2. #2
    gadzooks Dark Matter [keratinize my mild-tasting blossoming]
    Might acting classes help? Maybe if I get myself into a totally different frame of mind temporarily by embracing the snuffed out embers that might once have given birth to a modern day Marquis de Sade (perhaps in some alternate universe in which my early experiences with my female counterparts unfolded completely differently).
  3. #3
    You're either naturally a switch or you're not.

    The only thing I could suggest is to try and pay more attention to how much she enjoys it instead of focusing on your own reactions and that might trigger a different response.
    The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
  4. #4
    Who African Astronaut [that staidly controlling tamarillo]
    https://fetlife.com/home#everything
  5. #5
    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    I'm into freaky stuff and it's from a gradual onset of toxic relationships, aborted children, lies, cocaine, infidelity, violence, stress, anger, frustration, the desire to be loved in a transcendent way that alleviates the pain of existence. It really comes down to pain. Learn to love it and embrace it.

    If your foot or something else hurts, sit there and meditate, focusing on the pain, allowing it to reach its peak then fade. Tease a bitch until shes begging for it then match her energy. I dunno, it's not hard, I literally cannot relate to people who don't have rough sex. Aspire for more, faggot
  6. #6
    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    also what the fuck are with all the acronyms? I need a word key
  7. #7
    Who African Astronaut [that staidly controlling tamarillo]
    Originally posted by Sudo also what the fuck are with all the acronyms? I need a word key

    https://fetlife.com/groups/3243/group_posts/4789824


    https://fetlife.com/groups/3243/group_posts/11866203
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