2019-03-11 at 10:38 AM UTC
Little do you know, I'm ABBOD
2019-03-11 at 10:46 AM UTC
I would've said I was very "vanilla", until I met a girl who wanted me to choke her, burn her with cigarettes, hold knives to her neck, (unloaded) guns to her head. I still can't do any of that without permission and feel good about it, but ever since then, whenever I'm talking with or dating a girl and she does something to make me angry, there's this little voice in my head. I was raised by a woman and always deferred to women, so I'm sure it's some psychological thing to do with "embracing your masculinity" or something. But this girl would very obviously do things to try to get a rise out of me, because I'm so laid back and easygoing. Idk if she had some kind of trauma or it was just a kink, but she seemed to like knowing that I could seriously hurt or kill her at any moment. Was def not something that was natural for me to get into, but it definitely flipped a couple switches.
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2019-03-11 at 10:50 AM UTC
She was also into suspensions and bondage, but not any of the comfortable stuff you'd buy at a sex shop. She liked this really scratchy, awful hemp rope that I found somewhere. She'd want to have her wrists bound and have her arms yanked up while I had sex with her, and sometimes she'd masturbate with the rope....like pussy flossing rofl. She was such a sweet girl but she was 110 kinds of fucked up.
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2019-03-11 at 1:32 PM UTC
i dont like being told what to do.
i suppose if that turns them on being dominated, then that's fine for me. My first mentioned being into that stuff, but we never did.
