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2019-02-25 at 3:03 AM UTC
Originally posted by gadzooks I totally get that line of thought.
I currently don't put any real effort into finding someone to get involved with for pretty much the exact same reason. I have career goals, financial goals, and various self-improvement type goals that I really want to get in order before I start seeking a relationship.
One potential issue, though, at least for me, is setting the bar too high, and thus relegating yourself to bachelorhood indefinitely.
I'm 34 now, and, aside from a few brief romantic trysts here and there over the years as a result of spontaneous encounters, I have been single since 2005… That's like 15 years pretty much. It's definitely a tad depressing.
I think I, personally, need to work on lowering the bar a bit (but not foregoing all my goals altogether - just modifying them a bit).
Do you ever feel as if you don't feel your age for a few seconds, then the depressing reality of impermanence hits you that X amount of years have infact gone by "wasted"? I need to live in the "here and now", and spend less time doting on what has already been.
My hedonism this past decade + has fucked a lot of good opportunities. Not to say they won't come around again, it just has to be worked for and stuck at. I had a decent paying job as an equity release advisor early last year but just as I started, I was partying more then all sorts of shit happened. Long story short my car got smashed up and I was unable to commute or get another car at short notice. It was summer so rather than prioritize I just snorted more Charlie and didn't bother looking for another job, getting by through various nefarious means. In hindsight it's a year wasted but I'm starting to make inroads to getting back on track. I drink ocassionally as alcohol is my biggest trigger for Cocaine, and an insatiable lust for filthy likeminded debased women of the lowest order. I've also withdrawn away from anyone who shares the same vices for obvious reasons.
Change, especially if achieved before, is possible and can be done again. Hell I'd love to hear anyone who has a story about bouncing back. It can serve as inspiration for anyone else going through similar shit.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-02-25 at 3:46 AM UTC
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2019-02-25 at 3:53 AM UTCSomething something jedis, something something Mexicans.
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2019-02-25 at 3:55 AM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-02-25 at 4:11 AM UTC
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2019-02-25 at 4:17 AM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-02-25 at 4:19 AM UTCYes you can 👅
But don’t plz , I’m super frikn sensitive 😇 -
2019-02-25 at 4:24 AM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-02-25 at 4:28 AM UTCVielen Danke !
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2019-02-25 at 4:38 AM UTCKein ding, ich hab dich gern.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2019-02-26 at 3:12 AM UTCI hate Indians, those handsome and well tanned individual hindu dindus, with a burning passion.
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2019-02-26 at 3:20 AM UTC
Originally posted by Octavian Do you ever feel as if you don't feel your age for a few seconds, then the depressing reality of impermanence hits you that X amount of years have infact gone by "wasted"? I need to live in the "here and now", and spend less time doting on what has already been.
Originally posted by Octavian My hedonism this past decade + has fucked a lot of good opportunities. Not to say they won't come around again, it just has to be worked for and stuck at. I had a decent paying job as an equity release advisor early last year but just as I started, I was partying more then all sorts of shit happened. Long story short my car got smashed up and I was unable to commute or get another car at short notice. It was summer so rather than prioritize I just snorted more Charlie and didn't bother looking for another job, getting by through various nefarious means. In hindsight it's a year wasted but I'm starting to make inroads to getting back on track. I drink ocassionally as alcohol is my biggest trigger for Cocaine, and an insatiable lust for filthy likeminded debased women of the lowest order. I've also withdrawn away from anyone who shares the same vices for obvious reasons.
Change, especially if achieved before, is possible and can be done again. Hell I'd love to hear anyone who has a story about bouncing back. It can serve as inspiration for anyone else going through similar shit.
I was a full-fledged heroin addict a few years ago... Like, daily (IV) use, literally nothing and nobody else mattered except getting that next fix.
It was the farthest thing from easy, but I managed to escape all that and leave it behind (it's sometimes surreal to me when I even contemplate how deeply fucked I was at that point in my life).
Seriously, pretty much everything that's occurred in my life since that point has been uphill. Even after having fallen back a few steps in other ways (I actually ended up homeless after I got clean... among other things that were definitely examples of fucking up in some way)... BUT, the general trajectory has been upwards ever since.
And just like you say... When you have experience to draw upon for past successes, you gain a serious strategic and motivational advantage.
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2019-02-26 at 12:57 PM UTC
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2019-02-26 at 1:15 PM UTCObviously noone gave af about that faggette law or every black person would still be black af like the niggas that got off the boat , right Finnerella?
You geriatric, Alzheimer’s patient gone A wall on a library computer still in your hospital gown azz clown
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2019-02-26 at 1:31 PM UTCI’m pretty sure white dudes were the first to dip into the African pool.
American blacks look more like obama than shaka Zulu
Aunt jamima was throwing it on Thomas Jefferson pretty hard. He’d never seen no twerkin before.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-02-27 at 11:01 AM UTC
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2019-02-27 at 11:03 AM UTCWhat's the opposite of jungle fever?
Snow blindness? Frost bite?The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2019-02-27 at 11:09 AM UTC
Originally posted by MORALLY SUPERIOR BEING V: A Cat-Girl/Boy Under Every Bed What's the opposite of jungle fever?
Snow blindness? Frost bite?
In her defense, I think she was half white/"Caucasian"/European (I never met her mom... Or her dad... He was the black one... Wasn't around, NO STEREOTYPES OKAY this thread is a safe space. Except it was originally intended as the exact opposite but turned out kinda wholesome).
So if she has a thing for white guys, it's not necessarily a fetish.
I have this one white friend who has full on yellow fever. He's got zero Asian in him but seems to be completely Orient-oriented. -
2019-02-27 at 11:11 AM UTCI always put "Caucasian" in quotes in honor of the peoples that reside in the Caucasus mountains.
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