2019-01-05 at 4:25 AM UTC
What does it mean when a woman is gay and transgender, but is looking for men?
I don't understand this at all, but she's hot as fuck.
2019-01-05 at 4:26 AM UTC
She probably has a plural identity
https://pluralityresource.org/
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2019-01-05 at 6:32 AM UTC
gadzooks
Dark Matter
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That logically doesn't make sense, unless, like Ghost suggested, there's more to all of this than just TRANSWOMAN + GAY + ATTRACTED TO MEN.
Wait, she's a gay transwoman (i.e. biologically male, identifies as female), but is attracted to men?
Either you, or (s)he, is misusing a term here, or I'm drunker than I thought I was.
Her being gay and a woman negates her possibly being attracted to men.
You can almost represent it mathematically:
Let's say that X can have one of two values (I'm only ignoring bisexual, and asexual, folk for the sake of simplicity here, not out of prejudice).
X ==> attracted to men.
Y ==> attracted to women.
Actually, to make it easier...
M ==> attracted to Women.
W ==> attracted to Men.
You can do some simple binary swapping to figure this out...
Default is (again, not using the term 'default' to imply some kind of moral standard) M ==> W, and W ==> M.
However, if you add any variables to the mix...
T = Transgendered.
O = Sexual Orientation.
(M & T ==> W) === (W ==> W).
i.e. A lesbian woman who happens to have been born male.
(M & O ==> W) === (M ==> M).
i.e. A cis-gendered male who is attracted to other males (AKA: A dear).
(W & T ==> M) === (M ==> M).
i.e. A gay man who happens to have been born female.
(W & O ==> M) === (W ==> M).
i.e. A cis-gendered woman who is attracted to other women (AKA: A "rug muncher").
And then there are of course more possible permutations:
(M & T & O ==> W) === (W ==> W).
i.e. A transwoman who is attracted to other women, but was born male.
(W & T & O ==> M) === (M ==> M).
i.e. A transman is attracted to other men, but was born a woman.
Order of operations is: logical operators (such as "&") before conditional target of attraction.
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2019-01-05 at 6:37 AM UTC
gadzooks
Dark Matter
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Wow, that kinda hurt my brain proofreading it and making sure it's logically sound.
I think it is.
But you have to make sure you read it as follows (for example):
(M & T ==> W) === (W ==> W).
This means "individual was born biologically male AND is transgendered ==> attracted to women".
This translates into "woman attracted to woman."
She's a bonafied lesbian, assuming you accept her status as a woman.
Etc.
2019-01-05 at 6:53 AM UTC
gadzooks
Dark Matter
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I realize now that the ==> M or ==> W notation makes it a bit more confusing than it has to be, since that is irrelevant to the outcome target, but I hope it will serve as a handy cheat sheet the next time you're at your friends' cousins' neighbours coming out party and aren't totally sure what the heck is going on.
2019-01-05 at 8:05 AM UTC
Zanick
motherfucker
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Just get as far as you can and pretend like nothing is wrong. This works on normal women, too.
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2019-01-05 at 2:23 PM UTC
She's DEFINATELY not a man starting out based on her pictures.
What I'm concerned about is that she doesn't have any crotch-shots. Usually genderquuer people LOVE talking about this stuff though, which is a great conversation opener.
