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Walked in on my wife cheating on me last week
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2016-09-24 at 2:27 AM UTCSo, I came home from work early at like 7, maybe 8 and unlike porn they were fucking in the bedroom, on my king size bed, the one she helped me pick out, on the bed frame I thought was a little too dark but bought to make her happy. Unlike porn, they were really quiet, and heard me come in - I didn't really know what was going on until I went in there looking for her. I expected to find her on the computer and ask "What'cha lookin up?"
I knew what she was looking up though, she was looking up at some guy I had never met. He had to have known she was with somebody because all my colognes were out and I had my leather jacket hanging on the back of the door. By the time I got in there he was putting on pants. I grabbed the bat by my bed and told him to get the fuck out. I wouldn't have hit him with it for no reason but I thought it would scare him, I'm a big guy. In most other situations, the look of fear on his face would've been great, rewarding even. But it wasn't.
I felt and feel a deep sadness, I'm not even angry. It's kind of a relief almost, it was like a rock in my shoe this whole time wondering what was wrong and now I've finally gotten it out. I told her to pack her shit and get the fuck out, I pay the rent and most everything in our apartment is mine. She didn't want to leave at first, saying how it was a mistake and blah blah blah. She ACTUALLY started rubbing my dick thinking she could coerce me into it. She knows that I won't fall for that kind of thing too. The whole thing was disgusting, I got up and told her to just sit right there, I'LL pack your shit. This is when she started crying and sobbing and realizing "holy fuck this is real."
I just don't know what to do, my life feels like it has been turned upside down. For the last five years she has been my world, we were actually talking about having kids. But anyway, got her out, got her shit out, good. Everything was gonna work out. I got drunk all of that next day and most of the next to try and forget the sight of walking in to see that dude buckling up his pants. It bothers me so much, I still feel like I love her inside and can't help it and don't want to.
Now this is where it gets interesting, later that week the guy comes to my front door. I see him through the peephole and didn't recognize him, my friend was over at the time with his girlfriend and so we had her answer the door, I told her to say that "Yes, [Discount Whore's girlfriend] is home she's in the bathroom come in." Perfect, right? He'd think she was one of his friends. Me and my friend hid in the bedroom when he came in and as soon as we heard them walk past to where we could corner him, we both came out. To be honest, everybody involved except maybe this guy was extremely drunk and I hadn't yet formulated a plan yet. Was I going to beat him up? Was I going to talk to him? Was I going to kill him? No, no, can't kill him.
This guy thought I was though, we had him cornered. He reared up like an animal and I laughed because I was drunk. While I was laughing, he sprang like lightning and punched me in the jaw. Both me and my friend were way bigger than this guy though, I grabbed him by the neck and my friend just kind of hovered over me. I actually think I started choking him at first and then stopped. Didn't really think about it at the time. I just told him to never come back, snatched onto his shirt collar and showed him the front door. I don't even know the dude's name, I wish he had come when I wasn't so drunk. Ended up spending the night at my friend's house because I'm not trying to get arrested or anything. At least if I do I would rather be sober so I don't say or do something stupid.
Didn't get arrested just yet, didn't have the balls to contact a lawyer either about the whole divorce thing. I have to divorce the bitch, no choice. I called my mom and asked for her lawyer's number since he's gotten her out of some deep shit before, great lawyer just really expensive. I told her about the fight and she got all scared and told me I should stay with my aunt and uncle in case the guy came back. I'm not afraid of him though, he should be afraid of me.
So yeah, just wanted to get that all out. Anybody been through anything similar?
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2016-09-24 at 3:13 AM UTCSorry dude, that fucking sucks
I sort of know how it feels. My gf was always hounding me to get a Facebook, so one day I finally did. About a week later she posted pictures of her and some other dipshit doing shit that you shouldn't be posting public pictures of.
I wonder if it was just some convoluted scheme to get me to get rid of her but she sounded sincere when she tried explaining herself out of it, saying shit like "we were just acting" and "he didn't mean anything to me"
Luckily we still lived in separate houses. I changed my locks and my phone number and we never spoke again, and I haven't been on Facebook or any other social media since.
After this I decided I'd take a break from the dating game and as time goes on I find myself leaning more and more toward that break becoming permanent. -
2016-09-24 at 3:27 AM UTCMan, I saw a picture of her with him on her facebook talking about how much fun she was having. I had to deactivate my account. I haven't talked to her since the night she left, she tried calling me for a few days but fuck that shit. God though, I have to stop drinking, it's not doing me any good, I might as well kick it.Can't think straight when I'm drunk.
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2016-09-24 at 3:52 AM UTChaha cucked
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2016-09-24 at 3:54 AM UTC^man that sucks man, sorry about that. theres not to much I want to say because I could go on about the bullshit. But you did the right thing. And make sure you do everything possible to stay out of jail. Sure you may have a drinking problem, but you don't have to let it affect your emotions to where you're going to in a fight over some dumb bitch.
your wife sounds like a huge manipulator and a skank.
Good luck man -
2016-09-24 at 3:57 AM UTC
^man that sucks man, sorry about that. theres not to much I want to say because I could go on about the bullshit. But you did the right thing. And make sure you do everything possible to stay out of jail. Sure you may have a drinking problem, but you don't have to let it affect your emotions to where you're going to in a fight over some dumb bitch.
Good luck man
Nah I won't get into a fight, it's not my style. I was born in philly and as you can imagine have been confronted by a lot of no-gooder's but I always try to avoid it when I can. That's part of why I worked so hard to get as buff as I am now, nobody wants to fuck with you when you're 230lbs of muscle. -
2016-09-24 at 4:11 AM UTC
I told her about the fight and she got all scared and told me I should stay with my aunt and uncle in case the guy came back.
Mother fucker, I thought I was about to get Bel Air'd.I was born in philly and as you can imagine have been confronted by a lot of no-gooder's
Are you setting us up for a Bel Air, is this unintentional, or just a minor inconspicuous joke woven in? -
2016-09-24 at 4:19 AM UTCI was wondering how long it would take anybody to notice, I had a plan too. Damn you malice. None of this is real, I'm still happily married :3
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2016-09-24 at 5:21 AM UTCYou don't have a wife.
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2016-09-24 at 5:23 AM UTCI hope you're lying. I want to see you suffer, it would be much more entertaining.
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2016-09-24 at 5:29 AM UTC[greentext]>getting married[/greentext]
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2016-09-24 at 5:43 AM UTCI do have a wife, I've posted about her here before. Have been married for five years this October. :)
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2016-09-24 at 5:44 AM UTCI don't think anybody has quite yet figured out the scope of all the bel-air shit I've hidden in this thread
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2016-09-24 at 6:05 AM UTC
I was wondering how long it would take anybody to notice, I had a plan too. Damn you malice. None of this is real, I'm still happily married :3
Dude... Epic Bel-Air. -
2016-09-24 at 8:02 AM UTC“A woman talks to one man, looks at a second, and thinks of a third.†– Niti Sataka
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2016-09-24 at 8:24 AM UTC
Dude… Epic Bel-Air.
It would have been if Malice didn't notice. This was going to be a multiple day event, shouldn't have mentioned the aunt and uncle or at least worded it better. -
2016-09-24 at 8:39 AM UTCtbh if you didnt at least flag it at auntie and uncle u r a cuck
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2016-09-24 at 8:07 PM UTChow do you feel about the fact that more than 50% of marriages end up in divorce or murder suicide?.
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2016-09-24 at 8:55 PM UTCWhat kind of dipshit has the nerve to come back to the same place he was caught fucking another mans wife in and actually stays when he sees the guy there?
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2016-09-24 at 9:43 PM UTC
What kind of dipshit has the nerve to come back to the same place he was caught fucking another mans wife in and actually stays when he sees the guy there?
the guy that was fucking his wife and his wife probably are doing this all on purpose. its alll part of teh plan
