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2018-11-03 at 6:21 AM UTC
Originally posted by Tommy Lund Seemed like a cool dude. I remember him fondly. Still effeminate though. ❤️
Maybe to a degree. He's certainly quite liberal and for whatever reason that's generally associated with a more emotional view of things, but in his defense he's an outgoing fellow, does volunteer work, tends to have a positive attitude outlook abojt things and at the end of the day i personally respect someone more like that can't realize the major issues going on in the world and at least try to see the good in things, in peole, even if those peole may seemingly not deserve it. I think it takes integrity to be like that, especially when you can try and come up with solutions to issues that can be more of a compromise if nothing else. When extremism is involved it practically negates any ability to find realistic solutions what with the current division in beliefs and attitudes toward what's going on in our world for the simplest matters to the grandest of matters. -
2018-11-03 at 6:24 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Maybe to a degree. He's certainly quite liberal and for whatever reason that's generally associated with a more emotional view of things, but in his defense he's an outgoing fellow, does volunteer work, tends to have a positive attitude outlook abojt things and at the end of the day i personally respect someone more like that can't realize the major issues going on in the world and at least try to see the good in things, in peole, even if those peole may seemingly not deserve it. I think it takes integrity to be like that, especially when you can try and come up with solutions to issues that can be more of a compromise if nothing else. When extremism is involved it practically negates any ability to find realistic solutions what with the current division in beliefs and attitudes toward what's going on in our world for the simplest matters to the grandest of matters.
You're like fucking brilliant BTW. Everything you have written I'm like "right on, totally " I'm saying it out loud so that's kind of silly but anyway thought I'd say that -
2018-11-03 at 6:36 AM UTC
Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi You're like fucking brilliant BTW. Everything you have written I'm like "right on, totally " I'm saying it out loud so that's kind of silly but anyway thought I'd say that
Hey I appreciate that, and while I don't think I'm brilliant in most ways I guess one thing I at least feel confident in in my ability is to just try and be rational and not overreact to things to the best of my ability. Like telling me I'm a fucking retard and have zero clue what I'm saying, isn't really going to affect me and it's certainly not going to go get me to say "oh yes you're right, I thought I was maybe right but now that you called me an idiot I must be an idiot and I must be wrong."
Can you imagine court cases being like that? Both parties just calling each other idiots over shit they say but offering no substantial reason why. It's like the least effective way to get someone to see your point of view
Sure in the heat of the moment we all do it but there's a very basic concept behind convincing people they might be wrong and it starts with understanding their point of view and being able to counter that with your own point of view--analyzing the differences and discussing or admitting where one or another could be wrong or looking at something skewed without truly trying to see another side of it. It's that blind rage, set in stone unwilling to bend attitude that basrlically does the opposite in terms of invoking actual change.
Like I personally don't mind me being wrong, especially when it's articulately and reasonable explained to me--I am able to absorb those views and reflect on them even if I still don't necessarily agree with them. Sometimes being wrong is just as important as being right. Obviously people change their minds about things and learning effective forms of debate and discussion to actually incite some of those changes of heart can make a big impact, much more so then yelling contest and piss matches. -
2018-11-03 at 6:49 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Hey I appreciate that, and while I don't think I'm brilliant in most ways I guess one thing I at least feel confident in in my ability is to just try and be rational and not overreact to things to the best of my ability. Like telling me I'm a fucking retard and have zero clue what I'm saying, isn't really going to affect me and it's certainly not going to go get me to say "oh yes you're right, I thought I was maybe right but now that you called me an idiot I must be an idiot and I must be wrong."
Can you imagine court cases being like that? Both parties just calling each other idiots over shit they say but offering no substantial reason why. It's like the least effective way to get someone to see your point of view
Sure in the heat of the moment we all do it but there's a very basic concept behind convincing people they might be wrong and it starts with understanding their point of view and being able to counter that with your own point of view–analyzing the differences and discussing or admitting where one or another could be wrong or looking at something skewed without truly trying to see another side of it. It's that blind rage, set in stone unwilling to bend attitude that basrlically does the opposite in terms of invoking actual change.
Like I personally don't mind me being wrong, especially when it's articulately and reasonable explained to me–I am able to absorb those views and reflect on them even if I still don't necessarily agree with them. Sometimes being wrong is just as important as being right. Obviously people change their minds about things and learning effective forms of debate and discussion to actually incite some of those changes of heart can make a big impact, much more so then yelling contest and piss matches.
If you know who you are, no one will ever be able to tell you youre not. I'm the same. On dh they said I was immoral. I asked them who exactly wrote this infamous book on morals. My morals are different than their's. If I was to post a nude or send one, as I used to do, that's on me. I've done that cuz I don't care. Normally they were private and posted public and I got the brunt, which was to be expected it is the internet... Those same people would turn around and post others personal info phone numbers jobs homes etc. I was one of those people it was done to. I mean they called child services on me. What's funny is I as well knew all of their info but I didn't post it. I wouldn't, because my morals tell me that to try to hurt others is wrong bottom line. No matter what they have done to me. The minute I allow any other person to get me angry enough to do so, I've lowered my standards and they won -
2018-11-03 at 7:11 AM UTC
Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi If you know who you are, no one will ever be able to tell you youre not. I'm the same. On dh they said I was immoral. I asked them who exactly wrote this infamous book on morals. My morals are different than their's. If I was to post a nude or send one, as I used to do, that's on me. I've done that cuz I don't care. Normally they were private and posted public and I got the brunt, which was to be expected it is the internet… Those same people would turn around and post others personal info phone numbers jobs homes etc. I was one of those people it was done to. I mean they called child services on me. What's funny is I as well knew all of their info but I didn't post it. I wouldn't, because my morals tell me that to try to hurt others is wrong bottom line. No matter what they have done to me. The minute I allow any other person to get me angry enough to do so, I've lowered my standards and they won
Well that's the difference between people like us. Anonymity can certainly be important especially on the internet especially on sites like this because folks want to exploit it for any number of reasons. Once you give it up I guess you're just more susceptible to repercussions and it's more ammo for people who don't like you to use against you. I've personally never posted nudes or even sent them but at they very least with 7 billion folks floating around the significance of one unbecoming pic or whatever the case means next to nothing to me. I known who I am, I know what I look like. I've shared my faults and issues on here, and most people have a general idea of what they think I am despite probably only knowing the half of it.
In a strange way most people here have ultimately been respectful and there's only a handful of people who've tried to use my "openness" against me but I am not surprised by that and revealing PI that comes with the territory i guess. The worst things that have really been done to me is sploo posting "haha your dead is dead" on Facebook posts of mine that my family reads. I'm more embarrassed for him than it ever does for me. I can simply explain to them who he is, his style of inciting reactions and trying to ruffle feathers. But at the end of the day I hardly think twice about it.
The more you expose yourself the more opportunity there is for those who dislike you to use that against you, but you'll notice the trend that most people willing to do that, have remained very anonymous and secret and of course that makes it that much easier to say hateful shit knowing you don't have much in the way of retaliation, and in my case I just don't really care about retaliating. I have many photos of members that have been entrusted to me because I've never once posted things that people trust me not to. As time goes on I'm more hesitant to be open about things but at the same time it's just kind of in my nature to be real, even here. Love me or hate me I am who I am and I'm confident in that. -
2018-11-03 at 7:24 AM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Well that's the difference between people like us. Anonymity can certainly be important especially on the internet especially on sites like this because folks want to exploit it for any number of reasons. Once you give it up I guess you're just more susceptible to repercussions and it's more ammo for people who don't like you to use against you. I've personally never posted nudes or even sent them but at they very least with 7 billion folks floating around the significance of one unbecoming pic or whatever the case means next to nothing to me. I known who I am, I know what I look like. I've shared my faults and issues on here, and most people have a general idea of what they think I am despite probably only knowing the half of it.
In a strange way most people here have ultimately been respectful and there's only a handful of people who've tried to use my "openness" against me but I am not surprised by that and revealing PI that comes with the territory i guess. The worst things that have really been done to me is sploo posting "haha your dead is dead" on Facebook posts of mine that my family reads. I'm more embarrassed for him than it ever does for me. I can simply explain to them who he is, his style of inciting reactions and trying to ruffle feathers. But at the end of the day I hardly think twice about it.
The more you expose yourself the more opportunity there is for those who dislike you to use that against you, but you'll notice the trend that most people willing to do that, have remained very anonymous and secret and of course that makes it that much easier to say hateful shit knowing you don't have much in the way of retaliation, and in my case I just don't really care about retaliating. I have many photos of members that have been entrusted to me because I've never once posted things that people trust me not to. As time goes on I'm more hesitant to be open about things but at the same time it's just kind of in my nature to be real, even here. Love me or hate me I am who I am and I'm confident in that.
Well my face was never in them I at least was that careful but frankly I didn't care. I'm not dumb I figured that would occur. I know at least 50 actual identities of more. Spoke to almost all on the phone because of the alts playing games. I wouldn't talk much otherwise.
So whatever... I'm out there all over the place between memes of me etc etc. I got my photobucket deleted after 4 years of their crap, I paid them back with the memes of them, but mine weren't like their's. Mine were at least funny not mean... Well one was but I apologized and had good reason. I don't attack others in physical appearance it's so plebeian... I don't attack ever and try to change insults against myself into jokes. I don't like fighting -
2018-11-03 at 7:32 AM UTC
Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi Well my face was never in them I at least was that careful but frankly I didn't care. I'm not dumb I figured that would occur. I know at least 50 actual identities of more. Spoke to almost all on the phone because of the alts playing games. I wouldn't talk much otherwise.
So whatever… I'm out there all over the place between memes of me etc etc. I got my photobucket deleted after 4 years of their crap, I paid them back with the memes of them, but mine weren't like their's. Mine were at least funny not mean… Well one was but I apologized and had good reason. I don't attack others in physical appearance it's so plebeian… I don't attack ever and try to change insults against myself into jokes. I don't like fighting
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2018-11-03 at 7:56 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 7:58 AM UTCLandslide
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2018-11-03 at 8:01 AM UTCTimbo got any requests. I kind of sort of feel like singing
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2018-11-03 at 8:06 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 8:11 AM UTCMy bad bowling for soup I guess
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2018-11-03 at 8:14 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 8:15 AM UTCSilverchair - Tomorrow
Oasis - wonderwall
Bush - glycerine
DJ Sammy - Heaven (slow version)
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2018-11-03 at 8:28 AM UTCNope voice sucks right now. Lol. I sound like shit doing it
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2018-11-03 at 8:29 AM UTC
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2018-11-03 at 8:33 AM UTCI was thinking kryptonite. No idea why lol. I can do wonderwall and heaven but I do the Bryan Adams version usually
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2018-11-03 at 8:37 AM UTC
