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  1. #21
    The irony of saying "Fuck you haters"...
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  2. #22
    Technologist victim of incest
    Why, saying fuck you doesn’t imply hate. I can say fuck you Jig, doesn’t mean I hate you!
  3. #23
    Originally posted by Technologist Why, saying fuck you doesn’t imply hate. I can say fuck you Jig, doesn’t mean I hate you!

    Yes it does as demonstrated by your statement, "the only thing I hate is hate".

    Categorizing opposing beliefs as hate...is also hate.
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  4. #24
    -SpectraL coward [the spuriously bluish-lilac bushman]
    It's not the person you should hate, it's what they do you should hate. There's a difference.
  5. #25
    Technologist victim of incest
    Yes the only thing I hate is hate, but not to a point of self consuming hate. Again, in my OP, I’m discussing people who hate enough to want people dead.

    I just say fuck you to the haters. I don’t hate the haters, I just think they’re foolish to hate an entire group because of their affiliation.
  6. #26
    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    what's wrong with hate
  7. #27
    Originally posted by Technologist Again, in my OP, I’m discussing people who hate enough to want people dead.

    Well no your list is quite a bit more extensive than that, "fuck you Obama haters" for example.

    "But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those"
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  8. #28
    Originally posted by aldra what's wrong with hate

    Nothing at all, it's a perfectly normal emotion along with love and fear etc.
  9. #29
    Technologist victim of incest
    Originally posted by aldra what's wrong with hate

    I know Aldra, hate probably has its place somewhere, just not in my life. Like I said I could probably only hate people if they caused harm to my family/friends.
  10. #30
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Yes it does as demonstrated by your statement, "the only thing I hate is hate".

    Categorizing opposing beliefs as hate…is also hate.

    I said that but nicer lol
  11. #31
    Originally posted by Technologist I could probably only hate people if they caused harm to my family/friends.

    Those are the ones who you should offer forgiveness too more than anyone.
  12. #32
    mikeyagain African Astronaut [unalterably regard the persecutor]
  13. #33
    Technologist victim of incest
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Those are the ones who you should offer forgiveness too more than anyone.


    I haven’t been in those shoes....yet, and I hope not to be, but I could imagine being sucked into hate if someone killed my son.

    My husband’s son was shot by his cousin. His son was 5 and the cousin was 13, and knew what he was doing, not accidental. My husband forgave the child for killing his son, it took time, but he did. Not sure if I could do that, it would probably take time to heal 1st.
  14. #34
    Hate should come as freely as love does. Emotions should be balanced...not swayed in favor of one over the other...embrace your humanity and hate freely.
  15. #35
    Originally posted by Technologist I haven’t been in those shoes….yet, and I hope not to be, but I could imagine being sucked into hate if someone killed my son.

    My husband’s son was shot by his cousin. His son was 5 and the cousin was 13, and knew what he was doing, not accidental. My husband forgave the child for killing his son, it took time, but he did. Not sure if I could do that, it would probably take time to heal 1st.

    Hate eats away at us. I tend to agree if something were done to my children that I may as well hate. I would hope that I could be strong enough not to.

    Hate doesn't hurt the victims of hate. Hate destroys and blinds the holder of hate.

    If someone hates me... I don't care I'm not bothered but they hate me so they are.
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  16. #36
    Technologist victim of incest
    I guess my definition of hate, hate enough to want someone dead, might be different than others are thinking.

    That type of hate would be all consuming, it would be in my every thought if I hated enough to want someone dead. I can’t imagine being consumed like that unless my family were killed.
  17. #37
    Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Hate should come as freely as love does. Emotions should be balanced…not swayed in favor of one over the other…embrace your humanity and hate freely.

    That's an interesting viewpoint. I disagree but as I said before bo one is really right or wrong when it's opinion based
  18. #38
    Originally posted by Jackrabbitfyi That's an interesting viewpoint. I disagree but as I said before bo one is really right or wrong when it's opinion based

    Right and wrong are just opinions too.
  19. #39
    mikeyagain African Astronaut [unalterably regard the persecutor]
    Originally posted by Technologist I haven’t been in those shoes….yet, and I hope not to be, but I could imagine being sucked into hate if someone killed my son.

    My husband’s son was shot by his cousin. His son was 5 and the cousin was 13, and knew what he was doing, not accidental. My husband forgave the child for killing his son, it took time, but he did. Not sure if I could do that, it would probably take time to heal 1st.

    How does 13 not just slap the piss out of a 5 year old?? Does this really lead to guns??
  20. #40
    Originally posted by Technologist I guess my definition of hate, hate enough to want someone dead, might be different than others are thinking.

    That type of hate would be all consuming, it would be in my every thought if I hated enough to want someone dead. I can’t imagine being consumed like that unless my family were killed.
    Yes some feel there are levels of hate. Some feel hate is hate no matter the strength. I just feel any strong negativity toward others hurts everyone but mainly the one dishing it out.
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