My mom called me yesterday crying and just generally complaining about stuff I don't care about (It made me realize she's an overgrown baby that pulled this stuff when I was a kid) She was complaing that I don't call anymore or come visit (I'm busy and I live six hours away they are the ones that moved away from my brother and I) She starts telling me how I need to go get my eye pressure checked because she was diagnosed with glaucoma and its hereditary (my own daughter apologized to me for having eyeballs), I tell her "mom that just happens when you get older...) and she got really pissed off and started crying more telling me that she's going to leave my dad (when I was ten she just packed her bags and left town for a 4 days, I will never forgive her for that) and move to Colorado so she can smoke pot for her eyes.
She then ask me if she came to austin If Id sell her some, (I'm just down right amazed because she and my dad berated me and were up my ass constantly for my drug use, I even went to jail when i was 17 for fighting my dad because my mom found my pot pipe and snitched me out) I tell her I don't really do that anymore and she sounded confused about it. Basically, she sounded like a 15 year old girl thats going to cut herself and paint her room black.
My dad kinda sucks but he's a lot more normal, and keeps to himself about his problems, all he does is mow the lawn at his church and build playgrounds.
Has anyone ever had a parent act like this before? I felt kind of bad for her because I love her but I rather not deal with that because I already have so many other things I have to take care of.
^yeah unfortunately, its taken me years to realize it (i always kinda had a sense), I actually feel sorry for my dad for putting up with that for so long. The last time I saw my parents at their place before it burned down was over 3 years ago for xmas eve and my mom starting bitching about oil spuilt in the oven and started bitching my dad while i was there (why would you make a big deal about something so trivial when your son is over and you haven't seen him a year) He didn't give a fuck he didnt say anything and just kept watching tv. I ent up getting my mom to give me some vicodin behind my dads back because he's against drugs, which was nice of her but she has something really skewed with her mindset. She never had a job except one that my dads cousin gave her cleaing his computer shop and she couldn't even handle that. Instead she made paper mache' dragons to hang at the elementary school library and take care of parots.
She's an interesting woman but she dropped the ball many times and is crying about it now, when I don't exactly care as much as I used to because I have my own life away from them. I used to think my dad was the meanest man in the world but he's actually a good guy, but mom is acting really strange. Her and my brother would play tricks on me because they know that I'm paranoid. I try to not buy into that stuff anymore (her phone call was of a similar nature) But at the same time i hate when people try to attempt it and it doesn't work, like they thought i was to stupid to tell.
I have a manager at work that luckily I don't have to work with often (she's old enough to where she saw the meat puppets as a teenager live when their album ii came out), but she's always covering for me when I come in late or fuck something up and likes to talk about music with me, and I liked her for covering for me, but I now realize that she's not as professional as she previously displayed, I actually feel uncomfortable around her and don't know what to say to her when she talks to me because she's trying to hit one me. (im sure this happens at most peoples jobs, but since I haven't normally had a job in many years it kinda caught me off guard)
She actually has a nice house and money but she chooses to work at a place like this, I dont understand it.
People like to watch your life unfold, very few people will feel sorry for you , they might even have fun with it. On a daily basis I literally have to people more miserable than me to shut the fuck up because they are cutting into my time. People say I'm greedy, rude, and that I only care about myself but I've given out way too much already so I have to do some things different.
I knoe my mom has the right to drink on account of she is the primary source of money in the house, my dad in his bipolar fits always quits his job when hes manic and comes up with these great ideas, affiliate marketing, and then gets depressed and complains he got fired for age discrimination but in reality hes on and off Etc
but my mom has around 3 or 4 glasses of wine a night and talks to the dog like its a child ( very cringeworthy, probably subconciously because both of her children are pretty much failures)
thats all I can think about in terms of my mom related to cringe
^yeah unfortunately, its taken me years to realize it (i always kinda had a sense), I actually feel sorry for my dad for putting up with that for so long. The last time I saw my parents at their place before it burned down was over 3 years ago for xmas eve and my mom starting bitching about oil spuilt in the oven and started bitching my dad while i was there (why would you make a big deal about something so trivial when your son is over and you haven't seen him a year) He didn't give a fuck he didnt say anything and just kept watching tv. I ent up getting my mom to give me some vicodin behind my dads back because he's against drugs, which was nice of her but she has something really skewed with her mindset. She never had a job except one that my dads cousin gave her cleaing his computer shop and she couldn't even handle that. Instead she made paper mache' dragons to hang at the elementary school library and take care of parots.
She's an interesting woman but she dropped the ball many times and is crying about it now, when I don't exactly care as much as I used to because I have my own life away from them. I used to think my dad was the meanest man in the world but he's actually a good guy, but mom is acting really strange. Her and my brother would play tricks on me because they know that I'm paranoid. I try to not buy into that stuff anymore (her phone call was of a similar nature) But at the same time i hate when people try to attempt it and it doesn't work, like they thought i was to stupid to tell.
I have a manager at work that luckily I don't have to work with often (she's old enough to where she saw the meat puppets as a teenager live when their album ii came out), but she's always covering for me when I come in late or fuck something up and likes to talk about music with me, and I liked her for covering for me, but I now realize that she's not as professional as she previously displayed, I actually feel uncomfortable around her and don't know what to say to her when she talks to me because she's trying to hit one me. (im sure this happens at most peoples jobs, but since I haven't normally had a job in many years it kinda caught me off guard)
She actually has a nice house and money but she chooses to work at a place like this, I dont understand it.
People like to watch your life unfold, very few people will feel sorry for you , they might even have fun with it. On a daily basis I literally have to people more miserable than me to shut the fuck up because they are cutting into my time. People say I'm greedy, rude, and that I only care about myself but I've given out way too much already so I have to do some things different.
Pretty sure she doesn't, dumbass. My father would never allow it. Though if she did it would definitely make things easier for me.
Bill Krozby told me his rent in hip town USA Austin is 800 dollars a month, not including utilities, internet, gas, and the general expenses that go along with being a fuccboi. So I'm just going to assume a conservative figure of 1,000 a month. Bill Krozby makes minimum wage at his pizza job, which amounts to 7.25 an hour. He works ~30 hours a week. That comes to $870 a month before taxes, which nets a loss of over $130/month. Where in that figure is there room to start stashing away 20,000 dollars for a hotdog stand you might ask? I'll tell you where: mommy.
Last month, Weedsmoker told me that Bill Krozby's parents supplement his rent every month, which is truly the only way he can possibly maintain his housing. For months douggie D would cam up in tinychat, jobless. Considering the fact that Bill Krozby is an alcoholic, I have 0 faith he had any amount saved to be paying his bills while he job searched for m
I make more than minimum wage, I work more than 30 hours a week, and most of my money isn't made from my hourly wage. Weed smoker likes to spread dis-info because he asked if he could be my roommate and I told him no and he had to end up moving in with his grandmother in corpus.
And yes I will admit, my parents and my uncle have both talked to me about loaning me money for my hotdog stand and I'm not ashamed of that. My dad is helping me make a revamped business plan.
Tort is just mad because he lies about joining the navy and hasn't slept in a bed in almost 9 months and hasn't had sex in even longer (and got a transvestite off tinychat to tend him 10 dollars). Yet has the gall to spout off shitty one liners and meme's about me being a fuckboi. Trust me I'd be fairly frothy too if I was in his position.
Maybe there's context I'm missing but I would think you could scrape together a little more sympathy for the lady. A bad marriage is a shitty situation and it's not that hard to give someone a shoulder to cry on. I'm not exactly a paragon of familial involvement but a 6 hour drive once in a while isn't the end of the world. Plus there's a big difference between being concerned for the drug use of a child and seeking a drug for medical use (especially when it's a person's sight that's on the line). Regardless of actual efficacy of cannabis in treating glaucoma (I have literally no idea the strength of the evidence for it as an effective intervention is) holding a grudge against your mom from when you were a teenager seems kinda childish
Maybe there's context I'm missing but I would think you could scrape together a little more sympathy for the lady. A bad marriage is a shitty situation and it's not that hard to give someone a shoulder to cry on. I'm not exactly a paragon of familial involvement but a 6 hour drive once in a while isn't the end of the world. Plus there's a big difference between being concerned for the drug use of a child and seeking a drug for medical use (especially when it's a person's sight that's on the line). Regardless of actual efficacy of cannabis in treating glaucoma (I have literally no idea the strength of the evidence for it as an effective intervention is) holding a grudge against your mom from when you were a teenager seems kinda childish
Well, first of all fuck Bill Krozby but from the way he tells it she sounds like a emotionally manipulative bitch.