I wish I had a wacky group of friends to help me get over this, it's part of the reason I returned to NIS. But it's not the same as having IRL friends.
That's what I need. I need close IRL friends to have wacky adventures with. And a roommate that I sleep in the same bed with and play nightcrawlers or something.
Enter how long ago did you two split? How long were you together? Getting a group of friends IRL would definitely help with the loneliness but you also need to learn how to be your own company. It was tough when I first split with my ex for the first couple months but you soon learn to love your alone time
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you're letting her control what's happening and your emotions, that's wrong. switch it up in your head. beliefs are arbitrary anyways, so stop focusing on the fact that you got dumped or whatever and rephrase it in your head. "she dumped me so i'll show her by becoming super successful and getting someone even hotter." you always let the females have total control over the situation.
Originally posted by greenplastic
you're letting her control what's happening and your emotions, that's wrong. switch it up in your head. beliefs are arbitrary anyways, so stop focusing on the fact that you got dumped or whatever and rephrase it in your head. "she dumped me so i'll show her by becoming super successful and getting someone even hotter." you always let the females have total control over the situation.
Have I just had extremely bad luck with women or are they all going to fuck me over like this?
And yeah, good point, I'm going to become successful. When I'm rich as fuck I'll get hot ass bitches.
