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Im horribly depressed
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2018-03-27 at 5:26 PM UTCI dont know how to make my life better. All I know is what I want to do but I dont know how to do it. Can you guys help?
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2018-03-27 at 5:27 PM UTCwhat do you want to do?
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2018-03-27 at 5:29 PM UTC
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2018-03-27 at 5:38 PM UTC
Originally posted by Fonaplats I want a job. I want to be off probation. I dont want to get this psych evaluation that is Thursday. I want friends. I want money. I want to move out of my moms house.
Be sober until you're off probation. Do whatever bullshit you have to do for them and just accept the fact that at least somewhere along the line, you screwed up and went too far and just make your goal everyday to be sober, fill out some job applications, whatever. When you have cravings, exercise or go do something productive and just accept that it's going to suck for a while but believe that if you keep making good choices, you will get to where you need to be. You don't have to do it all at once. Just keep working, however slowly, at improving your situation.
After you spend some time doing other things except for drugs/laziness and get used to having a routine where you are productive, it will make you more pleasant to be around and you can start filling your time with hobbies/friends. But yea I think the most important part is to just have faith that shit will work out and work at it for a bit, because things take a little while to get better, and most people get impatient. -
2018-03-27 at 5:40 PM UTC
Originally posted by greenplastic Be sober until you're off probation. Do whatever bullshit you have to do for them and just accept the fact that at least somewhere along the line, you screwed up and went too far and just make your goal everyday to be sober, fill out some job applications, whatever. When you have cravings, exercise or go do something productive and just accept that it's going to suck for a while but believe that if you keep making good choices, you will get to where you need to be. You don't have to do it all at once. Just keep working, however slowly, at improving your situation.
After you spend some time doing other things except for drugs/laziness and get used to having a routine where you are productive, it will make you more pleasant to be around and you can start filling your time with hobbies/friends. But yea I think the most important part is to just have faith that shit will work out and work at it for a bit, because things take a little while to get better, and most people get impatient.
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2018-03-27 at 5:48 PM UTCI'm seriously considering prostitution but since Craigslist disabled casual encounters I don't know how to go about doing it again. I'm not paying backpage. I can't figure out how to get on a cam site either. Myfreecams seems to have changed and i don't know how to broadcast myself on there. Does anyone want to send me some free money? I can't get into drug trials because all the local ones are for drug users and i quit using and abusing so i would have to get high again to do those and I don't want to mess up my sobriety. I'm 3 days clean from everything damn it.
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2018-03-27 at 6:37 PM UTCi am going to prescribe setting an avatar
and make sure you get atleast 7 hours a day posting on NIS -
2018-03-27 at 6:53 PM UTC
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2018-03-27 at 7:54 PM UTCnice avatar :)
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2018-03-27 at 8:12 PM UTCHaha. Sorry OP you'll remain depressed until you heed Mr. Plastics's advice. It's the only way.
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2018-03-27 at 8:12 PM UTCIboga therapy
Just do a psychedelic and realize why you suck
Its pretty simple any druggie can do it -
2018-03-27 at 8:18 PM UTC
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2018-03-27 at 8:20 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ Haha. Sorry OP you'll remain depressed until you heed Mr. Plastics's advice. It's the only way.
I've been on paper at least half my adult life. You're either gonna half to learn to enjoy sober activities or learn to cope with the anxiety of using drugs on probation and hoping you don't get caught and go back to jail. It should be an easy decision, but I know all too well that it's not. -
2018-03-27 at 9:34 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ I've been on paper at least half my adult life. You're either gonna half to learn to enjoy sober activities or learn to cope with the anxiety of using drugs on probation and hoping you don't get caught and go back to jail. It should be an easy decision, but I know all too well that it's not.
Haha sorry op but not only is mr. Plastic right on this but so is mr. G-man.
If you're going to do drugs while on probation just make calculated descisions on when you can get high. And keep with all the other court orders -
2018-03-27 at 10:02 PM UTCI think they put drugs in my food when I go out to eat. like time and time again. Does that sound crazy?
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2018-03-27 at 10:04 PM UTC
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2018-03-27 at 10:07 PM UTCGet money and drugs.