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What's the best way to react if a date cancels on you?

  1. #1
    I'm going to start taking women and dating more seriously this year. If I were to get a text message with a girl saying she can't make it (without proposing a new date), what is the best way to react so she feels bad? If I were to reply with "fuck you cunt" then she'd just pass me off as a jerk and she'll know she made the right decision. But if I were to reply with, "Hey no problem! All good." then she won't feel bad about cancelling and possibly think I'm a faggot cuck.
  2. #2
    Maybe the best option is to not reply at all?
  3. #3
    Obbe Alan What? [annoy my right-angled speediness]
    Say "sure".
  4. #4
    RestStop Space Nigga
    "Bitch stop playin! You know you want a real niqqa in ya life"
  5. #5
    Originally posted by Open Your Mind Say "sure".

    That's awful, Obbe, you fucking stupid piece of shit. It screams disappointment and girlishness.

    Stupid faggot. Stupid hippie faggot.
  6. #6
    Originally posted by RestStop "Bitch stop playin! You know you want a real niqqa in ya life"

    Haha, I like that. It's playful, but heavily implies you don't care.
  7. #7
    Don't respond. It's simple, clean, and elegant. Bitch will probably be looking for your response.

    Or, you know, you could propose a new date and face the situation lik3 a mane. Sometimes you have to cancel things. Life happins
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    Originally posted by 哈哈你看不懂中文 Don't respond. It's simple, clean, and elegant. Bitch will probably be looking for your response.

    Exactly. She could even be embarrassed for cancelling, thinking "Did I just cancel something that he wasn't even thinking about?"

    Wow haha, this LITERALLY gives me confidence to ask girls out now, in the hopes that they cancel so I can hurt them by not replying. XD It's win/win.

    Or, you know, you could propose a new date and face the situation lik3 a mane. Sometimes you have to cancel things. Life happins

    Nah, if someone genuinely has to cancel something, they'll always propose a new date themselves.

    It's not:

    "Hey §m£ÂgØL, I can't make it to the gay strip club with you tonight."

    It's:

    "Hey §m£ÂgØL, I can't make it to the gay strip club with you tonight, but maybe next weekend?"
  9. #9
    Just translated your name, btw. Lol good one.
  10. #10
    oh well
  11. #11
    Obbe Alan What? [annoy my right-angled speediness]
    Originally posted by Enter That's awful, Obbe, you fucking stupid piece of shit. It screams disappointment and girlishness.

    Stupid faggot. Stupid hippie faggot.

    No it actually works really well. If the girl likes you it confuses her because it could mean different things. You stay in a relaxed position of potential while she worries about what you mean and whether or not she made the right choice.

    You over think all of this.
  12. #12
    Originally posted by Open Your Mind No it actually works really well. If the girl likes you it confuses her because it could mean different things. You stay in a relaxed position of potential while she worries about what you mean and whether or not she made the right choice.

    You over think all of this.

    Trust me dude, when she gets a "sure", it comes across as fucking dainty as fuck.

    I think no reply is the way to go here.
  13. #13
    I actually can't wait for a girl to cancel now.
  14. #14
    Obbe Alan What? [annoy my right-angled speediness]
    Originally posted by Enter Trust me dude, when she gets a "sure", it comes across as fucking dainty as fuck.

    I think no reply is the way to go here.

    You're the "expert".
  15. #15
    Originally posted by Open Your Mind You're the "expert".

    sure
  16. #16
    Grimace motherfucker [my enumerable hindi guideword]
    Originally posted by Enter Maybe the best option is to not reply at all?

    This. If she texts you with that, just don't even reply. Don't give her the time at all. If she calls you later, answer it, but tell her you're in the middle of something and you'll "get back to her", except you don't. Ever.
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  17. #17
    Originally posted by Grimace This. If she texts you with that, just don't even reply. Don't give her the time at all. If she calls you later, answer it, but tell her you're in the middle of something and you'll "get back to her", except you don't. Ever.

    Don't want her to think I'm being petty, but by answering the call that definitely displays I'm not ignoring her. She'll think I just genuinely forgot to get back to her because she's unimportant.

    Oh boy. ^_^ Can't wait for this now.
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  18. #18
    AngryOnion Big Wig [the nightly self-effacing broadsheet]
    Murder suicide is the only way out.
  19. #19
    Grimace motherfucker [my enumerable hindi guideword]
    Originally posted by Enter Don't want her to think I'm being petty, but by answering the call that definitely displays I'm not ignoring her. She'll think I just genuinely forgot to get back to her because she's unimportant.

    Oh boy. ^_^ Can't wait for this now.

    Women hate most....being ignored. You can't ignore 100%, that just makes them give up. Ignore like, 90%. Tease them along with answering phone calls, but never texts. If you see them in public, act like you have an urgent thing you need to attend to and leave them hanging. They HATE being ignored.
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  20. #20
    RestStop Space Nigga
    Originally posted by Grimace This. If she texts you with that, just don't even reply. Don't give her the time at all. If she calls you later, answer it, but tell her you're in the middle of something and you'll "get back to her", except you don't. Ever.

    ^This nigga do be goin' hard. SRS.
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