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beta beta male philosophy is dumb and fake
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2018-02-10 at 2:10 AM UTCWhat people consider being "beta" is really just being confident in yourself. Beta is just insecurity. Trying to rid yourself of betaness or make yourself more beta is fucking retarded because you're just faking it. If you happened to make it, you'd notice very quickly that chasing women isn't really all that great anyways. Those guys that are really good at it are just getting off on the attention they get from other guys, the jealousy. That's why it's a fools folly. Just by yourself ya dig fam
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2018-02-10 at 2:10 AM UTCdumbass
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2018-02-10 at 2:11 AM UTC
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2018-02-10 at 2:12 AM UTCAnyone who concerns themselves with such things needs to get a damn job/hobby.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2018-02-10 at 2:15 AM UTCAren't you East-Asian? And in engineering as well. That's pretty much a life sentence perma-beta status. No wonder you're trying to rationalize it.
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2018-02-10 at 2:17 AM UTC
Originally posted by greenplastic What people consider being "beta" is really just being confident in yourself. Beta is just insecurity. Trying to rid yourself of betaness or make yourself more beta is fucking retarded because you're just faking it.
So acting in a different manner to accomplish a goal is faking? In that case isn't everything people do faking?Just by yourself ya dig fam
When people say that they mean "be confident, do your own thing, act on your instincts, don't hesitate, and don't let anything diminish your belief in yourself, and girls will come to you".
When people hear that they hear "act shy and autistic the same as you usually do and girls will come to you". -
2018-02-10 at 2:17 AM UTC
Originally posted by Malice Aren't you East-Asian? And in engineering as well. That's pretty much a life sentence perma-beta status. No wonder you're trying to rationalize it.
lol no i'm not asian. i do consider engineering kinda beta, i'm interested in hearing your reasoning for it though, since i feel like the general opinion on engineering is that it allows for a lot of money and freedom, and you learn a lot, so it seems to me it would be something considered more along the lines of beta -
2018-02-10 at 2:19 AM UTC
Originally posted by Issue313 So acting in a different manner to accomplish a goal is faking? In that case isn't everything people do faking?
When people say that they mean "be confident, do your own thing, act on your instincts, don't hesitate, and don't let anything diminish your belief in yourself, and girls will come to you".
When people hear that they hear "act shy and autistic the same as you usually do and girls will come to you".
no, but tailoring your actions and thoughts to be the same as some beta pickup dude you saw on youtube is being fake. nothing wrong with being confident, but these niggas be out here replacing their whole personalities you know? -
2018-02-10 at 2:36 AM UTCOn the plane ride back from fiji, I was sitting next to a guy who looked like a male model. Tall, masculine, etc. He actually ended up getting the stewardess's phone number, I shit you not. It was crazy to witness first hand how easy it was for betas. She was all over him, giggling and checking up on him more than the other passengers.
The dude DID have a great personality though, but it was definitely a product of his good looks. When the world treats you kind because you're beautiful, you're going to be kind back. For the rest of us, we have to work on our personalities, rather than having it come natural.
I did realize something though while sitting next to him; my personality IS shit haha. Like if I had his looks but kept my personality, girls would definitely be into me at first, but then after a short while be like, "what the fuck?"
Here's an example of my autism compared to his smootheness:
Stewardess: Would you like anything to eat or drink?
beta: Hey! Yeah I'll have one of those meals.
Stwardess: You know it comes with a free drink? Non-alcoholic though.
beta: Haha there's always a catch!
Stewardess: Teehee.
beta: That's a nice bracelet by the way.
Stewardness: Oh thank you so much!
And now me:
Stewardess: Would you like anything to eat or drink?
Me: Yeah I'll have a water
Stewardess: Pardon?
Me: WATER
Stewardess: Oh okay
Me: Just gotta get my wallet out of my pocket.. (fumbling around in my seat)
Stewardess: What?
Me: GOTTA GET MY WALLET OUT
So yeah I really gotta work on my personality, for realz. I'm not confident at all. It'd help if I had his looks, definitely, but I'm making things worse by being so shy.
There was also a girl sitting to the right of me on the plane ride. She was talking to me at the start of the trip, but I wasn't really replying. Just like "ha yeah" etc. Eventually she started talking to the beta to the left of me, which made me feel awkward as fuck lol. But I noticed he was actually actively listening and engaging. I forced myself joined myself into the convo, and the girl actually started talking to me just as much if not more by the end.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2018-02-10 at 2:38 AM UTCso i shouldn't fake it till i make it?
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2018-02-10 at 3:26 AM UTC
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2018-02-10 at 3:27 AM UTC
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2018-02-10 at 3:29 AM UTC
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2018-02-10 at 4:10 AM UTC
Originally posted by greenplastic What people consider being "beta" is really just being confident in yourself. Beta is just insecurity.
nope, you got that wrong.
betaness is the ability to project ones whims and fancies, opinions, feelings, manipulations .... beliefs systems, etc etc
onto their surrounding beta subservientees. -
2018-02-10 at 4:15 AM UTC
Originally posted by Enter On the plane ride back from fiji, I was sitting next to a guy who looked like a male model. Tall, masculine, etc. He actually ended up getting the stewardess's phone number, I shit you not. It was crazy to witness first hand how easy it was for betas. She was all over him, giggling and checking up on him more than the other passengers.
The dude DID have a great personality though, but it was definitely a product of his good looks. When the world treats you kind because you're beautiful, you're going to be kind back. For the rest of us, we have to work on our personalities, rather than having it come natural.
I did realize something though while sitting next to him; my personality IS shit haha. Like if I had his looks but kept my personality, girls would definitely be into me at first, but then after a short while be like, "what the fuck?"
Here's an example of my autism compared to his smootheness:
Stewardess: Would you like anything to eat or drink?
beta: Hey! Yeah I'll have one of those meals.
Stwardess: You know it comes with a free drink? Non-alcoholic though.
beta: Haha there's always a catch!
Stewardess: Teehee.
beta: That's a nice bracelet by the way.
Stewardness: Oh thank you so much!
And now me:
Stewardess: Would you like anything to eat or drink?
Me: Yeah I'll have a water
Stewardess: Pardon?
Me: WATER
Stewardess: Oh okay
Me: Just gotta get my wallet out of my pocket.. (fumbling around in my seat)
Stewardess: What?
Me: GOTTA GET MY WALLET OUT
So yeah I really gotta work on my personality, for realz. I'm not confident at all. It'd help if I had his looks, definitely, but I'm making things worse by being so shy.
There was also a girl sitting to the right of me on the plane ride. She was talking to me at the start of the trip, but I wasn't really replying. Just like "ha yeah" etc. Eventually she started talking to the beta to the left of me, which made me feel awkward as fuck lol. But I noticed he was actually actively listening and engaging. I forced myself joined myself into the convo, and the girl actually started talking to me just as much if not more by the end.
That bitch wanted the dick. -
2018-02-10 at 4:17 AM UTCur meant to take midazolam on planes
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2018-02-10 at 4:24 AM UTCYeah, I would definitely take a higher dose of a benzo before a plane ride. They're like the fast forward button for life. Everything is so smooth and carefree.
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2018-02-10 at 7:52 AM UTC
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2018-02-10 at 4:13 PM UTC
Originally posted by benny vader nope, you got that wrong.
betaness is the ability to project ones whims and fancies, opinions, feelings, manipulations …. beliefs systems, etc etc
onto their surrounding beta subservientees.
yea maybe so but then these people aren't just beta but also fucking sheep. i dont really hang out with ppl like that so im good i think -
2018-02-10 at 4:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by greenplastic What people consider being "beta" is really just being confident in yourself. Beta is just insecurity. Trying to rid yourself of betaness or make yourself more beta is fucking retarded because you're just faking it. If you happened to make it, you'd notice very quickly that chasing women isn't really all that great anyways. Those guys that are really good at it are just getting off on the attention they get from other guys, the jealousy. That's why it's a fools folly. Just by yourself ya dig fam
I'll take "Things a beta would say" for $2000 Alex.
