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xmas presents are kind of stupid
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2017-12-07 at 5:11 AM UTC
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2017-12-07 at 6:21 PM UTCFuck Christmas and the holidaysThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-12-07 at 6:40 PM UTCI definitely loath Christmas and this time of year in general (including Thankgiving, new years, etc- Halloween is the only holiday I really liked to celebrate ever), any holiday, or birthday too. If I want to do something nice for someone, then I'll just do it, why fucking wait for a particular day to do it? I'd rather give and be gotten for from the heart rather than some silly social notion that I 'ought to give or be gotten for just because of some stupid holiday of religious significance I don't even prescribe to.
Halloween has been the only holiday I found to be a good holiday. It's fun. There's candy. You an dress up as anything you want. Mostly, it's a very lighthearted event, with little pressure from society forcing this or that with it. That's why I liked it so much. An added bonus is that is pisses off a lot of religious folks who get their panties in a bunch thinking people are worshiping the devil and shit.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-12-07 at 6:47 PM UTCThanksgiving is a time of celebrating and eating with your family and friends. You probably don't like it because you don't have any.
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2017-12-07 at 6:59 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny is Hitler What did you dress up as this year hydro?.
I didn't. I was sick. Had I not of of been sick, I had plans to go out with a couple friends, and wear this dress I have. It's a dress in the style and design of the TARDIS from Doctor Who. I'd planned to just where that, doing my make up, and wearing fishnet stockings and heels. Nothing too outlandish. Typically though, I've always liked to go as a pirate. I have a blue and gold macaw, and it was pretty badass to go out with the kids with my parrot, riding my clydesdale whom I'd paint up to be various different things over the years. One year he was painted to look like a skeleton, and other time I just used a bunch of Halloween decorations like this big giant spider, and green stripes on his legs, and blood and other things to have him looking cool as shit for Halloween. It was a win-win for everyone. He loved going out getting attention and treats, kids got to ride my boy, and give him treats, along with having him accompany them on their route, and the people at the houses got a big surprise when they had a real life clydesdale at their door with the kids and me. I also made money some years doing that with him for local businesses in the area. -
2017-12-07 at 7:26 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny is Hitler No it isn't
http://www.dvorak.org/blog/2009/11/26/happy-thanksgiving-thank-able-lincoln-too-he-finalized-its-bogus-invention/
Yeah yeah yeah, and its celebrating killing native americans too. Fuck off with that angsty shit. What matters is how people celebrate it now.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-12-07 at 7:30 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-12-07 at 7:39 PM UTC
Originally posted by 哈哈你看不懂中文 Thanksgiving is a time of celebrating and eating with your family and friends. You probably don't like it because you don't have any.
I do have family and friends. I don't like it because most people feel forced to go to a get-together with people they don't even like, sometimes even hate, and often there is some sort of drama attached. I can (and have) planned many meals with friend's and family, or even just times to get together with nothing special in mind. A key difference between what I do and what it seems a good portion of folks, much like yourself do for say, Thanksgiving is, there's no obligation, nobody is feeling forced, nobody is being made to be around people they couldn't give a single fuck to ever see again, and wouldn't if not for the fact that they either share genetic material or share some relation through marriage. I also don't differentiate between family and friends. They are one and the same. I won't associate with someone just because they have some genetic relation to me, and feel obligated to do so.
At least my relationships, and thus times when we do get together, are based on sincere want, love, and care for the individuals. How many people have family that is only in a short distance, but won't see them save for a holiday dinner? If they're that important, and you sincerely love them, wouldn't you both make time to see each other more than once a year? I at least don't fake loving people, fake the importance these people are to me. If you're an important person to me, you'll know it, and if you're not, well, you won't be hearing or having me reach out to you- simple as that.
Family is the people you love, care for, support, and are supported by. Family isn't about genetic relation, well, it shouldn't be anyway. It's pretty common in society for people to dub these genetic relations "family", when again, they, nor the others involved wouldn't give two fucks about the other if they didn't share the genetic link. How is that a good thing? It's stupid. Share your time, love, and energy on those you connect with, have an understanding, and love with rather than wasting time because you feel obligated with spending time with people who might as well be strangers. Certainly, some families can have great connections, with sincere love, and care, but quite often, that's not the case. The only call to loyalty is based on a family name for a lot. Fuck that noise.
I think it's sick what you have considered to be your family. To each their own, but... from your own description, and even complaints at times, it's a rather fucked way in which you associate with these people you'd otherwise have nothing to do with if there wasn't blood, or a marriage. I've at least been happy to see the people I consider special to me at all times, to deal with them when ever, to have open and honest dialog, and genuinely enjoy their company, unlike what you've described to me over the years. But I'm sure you having a "traditional" family makes you feel superior, makes you feel stronger, when it reality, it just makes you weaker, with a life built on lies. Good luck with that, §m£ÂgØL. -
2017-12-07 at 7:43 PM UTC
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2017-12-07 at 7:43 PM UTCNo way I'm reading that.
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2017-12-07 at 7:47 PM UTCSo are you going to see your son for Christmas or is the foster care still not letting you see him?
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2017-12-07 at 8:26 PM UTC>never received presents as a kid
>presents are stupidThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-12-07 at 8:45 PM UTC
Originally posted by D4NG0 >never received presents as a kid
>presents are stupid
Same goes for the family thing I find. The only ones who hate on the holidays are the ones who don't get to have good ones.
Scron, for instance, has an abusive family and has moved to a new city to get away from them and be with his abusive boyfriend.
POC did not see mommy kissing Santa Claus.
Hydro's mom tried to poison her as a child, which I imagine will make Christmas dinner this year pretty awkward.
My family however is perfect, and we have no flaws and perfect holidays every time. -
2017-12-07 at 9:45 PM UTCDelete your post and make up some abusive shit.
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2017-12-07 at 11:28 PM UTCUpdooted for your avatar.
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2017-12-08 at 12:09 AM UTC
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2017-12-08 at 12:09 AM UTC
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2017-12-08 at 12:13 AM UTC
Originally posted by 哈哈你看不懂中文 Same goes for the family thing I find. The only ones who hate on the holidays are the ones who don't get to have good ones.
Scron, for instance, has an abusive family and has moved to a new city to get away from them and be with his abusive boyfriend.
POC did not see mommy kissing Santa Claus.
Hydro's mom tried to poison her as a child, which I imagine will make Christmas dinner this year pretty awkward.
My family however is perfect, and we have no flaws and perfect holidays every time.
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2017-12-08 at 12:18 AM UTCDamn that little boy is ugly.
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2017-12-08 at 12:22 AM UTC
