User Controls
People Don't Like Me
-
2017-10-09 at 10:52 AM UTC
-
2017-10-09 at 12:15 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon Talking to people like a normal person goes a long way. Make small talk. Don't talk about crude shit. Be interested in THEM
This is where I fuck up. I don't think I've met a single person that I could find interesting
I'm most definitely not interesting myself though,maybe that's the problem -
2017-10-09 at 2:10 PM UTCBecome interesting.
-
2017-10-09 at 2:12 PM UTC
-
2017-10-09 at 2:13 PM UTCYeah but for SBT, there are like 8 billion people on the planet dude, everybody can't hate you. Go find people who'll like you, basically, and broaden that pool with self improvement.
-
2017-10-09 at 2:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon The problem is that everyone's interesting to themselves. The trick is to understand what other people will find interesting.
Kind of manipulative. Just talk to people. There will always be people who will like you and find you interesting. But if you don't do anything and don't have any interests, nobody is going to find you interesting. -
2017-10-09 at 2:39 PM UTC
Originally posted by 霍比特人说中文不好 Kind of manipulative. Just talk to people. There will always be people who will like you and find you interesting. But if you don't do anything and don't have any interests, nobody is going to find you interesting.
Not really. You don't even need to change the things you do, you can simply be better at speaking about it. The art of conversation is the art of storytelling. -
2017-10-09 at 3:31 PM UTCJust walk up, pinch their nipple lightly, and say, "I want you to like me." Nobody can resist that.
-
2017-10-09 at 5:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien My personal hygiene is good, except for my bad breath(but I've been chewing sugar-free gum and using mints). I shower at least once a day(usually twice), and wear deodorant. I shave my face and head regularly. I am 5'11" and weight around 155lbs and have a slight build. I currently have some loose skin due to dropping down from 185 pure fat. My teeth are straight.
I had a co-worker say about a week ago that I'm handsome and perfect.
Hobbies include hiking, mountain biking, computers. I plan on getting into winter sports.
I think Sophie may be correct. I may have some serious socializing issues. Ever since a young age, I have never really had a group of friends aside from people that were criminal connections(usually drugs). I was never close to my parents. The only brother I spent time with taught me how to steal and commit crimes without getting caught.
Do you think I should move to another city?
But you're not a woman.
-
2017-10-09 at 7:33 PM UTC
-
2017-10-09 at 7:42 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon Not really. You don't even need to change the things you do, you can simply be better at speaking about it. The art of conversation is the art of storytelling.
I mean I dunno. When I talk to people I put zero effort in trying to get them to like me and I still make friends everywhere I go. I'm not exactly charismatic I don't think. If I don't like you I just won't talk. But I'm good at getting other people to talk and tell me about themselves and their life and the whole 'insert just enough' thing. I don't have to think about it though. At least until NOW. Now I'm going to think of it and I'm going to fuck everything up. Thanks FALCON -
2017-10-09 at 7:46 PM UTC
-
2017-10-09 at 7:46 PM UTCYou're naturally charismatic galumbo
-
2017-10-09 at 7:47 PM UTC
-
2017-10-09 at 7:47 PM UTCDO YOU THINK THIS GIRL WILL LIKE ME MORE IF I TELL HER I WANT TO BURN HER FAMILY?????
-
2017-10-09 at 7:47 PM UTC
-
2017-10-11 at 12:18 AM UTCIt's strange though. It seems like there are a lot of people against me.
My family for instance(aside from my dad), has shown tht they don't like me and don't want me around. They basically attack/bully me. My mother has always either tried to guilt trip me, or make me feel insecure. I've never really been able to pinpoint why they don't like me, what it is that makes them despise me. People in the past have asked why they treat me like that, but I never knew what they were talking about because I ignored the way they treated me.
I get the feeling that a lot of the people I work with are the same way. When I start lifting, I can see the way they look at me, as if they are so angry that I'm trying to improve myself.
I don't know why people seem to be against me. It's as if they think I'm a pedo or something. -
2017-10-11 at 12:22 AM UTCSounds kinda like mental illness. No one is going to be angry with you for trying to improve yourself.
-
2017-10-11 at 12:33 AM UTC
-
2017-10-11 at 12:58 AM UTC