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People Don't Like Me
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2017-10-07 at 2:29 AM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon WHAT DO YOU HATE ABOUT YKURSELF? TELL ME THE THINGS YOU DISLIKE ABOUT SBTLAUIEN.
I don't like it that people don't like me. I don't lik it that people become friends with each other and not me. But most of all, I don't like it that I don't know why people don't like me.
I'm going to start spying on others. Just some audio recordings. Like meet knew people, discretely drop an audio recorder, walk away, then later retrieve the recorder for review of what they say after I leave. -
2017-10-07 at 2:32 AM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien I don't like it that people don't like me. I don't lik it that people become friends with each other and not me. But most of all, I don't like it that I don't know why people don't like me.
I'm going to start spying on others. Just some audio recordings. Like meet knew people, discretely drop an audio recorder, walk away, then later retrieve the recorder for review of what they say after I leave.
Yeah, what a great way to become likable.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2017-10-07 at 2:38 AM UTCNo, but seriously. I've walked the skin of this planet a very long time, and believe me when I tell you, caring what someone thinks about you is the very last thing you want to do. If they do happen to like you, that's fine. If they don't, you should not give even one flying fuck.
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2017-10-07 at 2:38 AM UTCsorry
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2017-10-07 at 2:40 AM UTC
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2017-10-07 at 2:42 AM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien I'm not fat though, and I'm highly motivated to fix myself. I'm not just going to sit around and whine.
In fact, it's stripper night. Why not? I got to have some fun.
I just want to get better and be normal. I don't want to have to vent back onto society. As the years go by, I've noticed that I get healthier, but my venting gets worse. I'd rather be normal.
LOL. Enter's fat?
Anyway, you seem aimless. Self improvement is great, but ultimately you have to figure out to what end? Improvement just for the sake of improvement is meaningless. What do you want out of life? -
2017-10-07 at 2:47 AM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien I don't like it that people don't like me. I don't lik it that people become friends with each other and not me. But most of all, I don't like it that I don't know why people don't like me.
I'm going to start spying on others. Just some audio recordings. Like meet knew people, discretely drop an audio recorder, walk away, then later retrieve the recorder for review of what they say after I leave.
So you think you're perfect or something? -
2017-10-07 at 2:47 AM UTC
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2017-10-07 at 12:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by Dargo What do you want out of life?
To enjoy it.
Originally posted by Captain Falcon So you think you're perfect or something?
No.
I can tell that people treat me differently than others and I want to knoe why. I'm like om the outside. Nobody tells me anything, nobody talks to me, and I've always noticed but never cared until now. Looking back I am starting to realize that I've loss a lot of quality in my life but I can't pinpoint what it is I do to put myself in this situation.
This isn't being said in a whiney tone. I need to find out what exactly it is that makes people not like me.
I think it my be my personlity. I don't know if I really even have one. Most people I meet have ceetain little traits about who they are, but I think I'm just plain.
Maybe I need a book on forming my personality. -
2017-10-07 at 12:28 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien To enjoy it.
No.
I can tell that people treat me differently than others and I want to knoe why. I'm like om the outside. Nobody tells me anything, nobody talks to me, and I've always noticed but never cared until now. Looking back I am starting to realize that I've loss a lot of quality in my life but I can't pinpoint what it is I do to put myself in this situation.
This isn't being said in a whiney tone. I need to find out what exactly it is that makes people not like me.
I think it my be my personlity. I don't know if I really even have one. Most people I meet have ceetain little traits about who they are, but I think I'm just plain.
Maybe I need a book on forming my personality.
You seem to not be reading my uestion, or trying to avoid it.
Aside from the BS answer that you don't like that people don't like you, do you dislike anything about yourself? is there any attributes you would improve about yourself? -
2017-10-07 at 1:29 PM UTC
Originally posted by Captain Falcon You seem to not be reading my uestion, or trying to avoid it.
Aside from the BS answer that you don't like that people don't like you, do you dislike anything about yourself? is there any attributes you would improve about yourself?
I'd like to be more extroverted and social. I'd like to be able to talk normally with other people.
This is an issue though. I haven't done anything or been anywhere, so I think that people think I'm lying to them. They talk about things that I can't relate to what-so-ever. Vacations, friends, clubs, family, all kinds of things that I can't relate to. It leaves me looking awkward and I think most people assume that I'm messing with them.
Being in my mid 30's and not having any kids, never married, not having anything to relate to anyone about, plus being socially awkward, makes it difficult. -
2017-10-07 at 1:37 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien I'd like to be more extroverted and social. I'd like to be able to talk normally with other people.
This is an issue though. I haven't done anything or been anywhere, so I think that people think I'm lying to them. They talk about things that I can't relate to what-so-ever. Vacations, friends, clubs, family, all kinds of things that I can't relate to. It leaves me looking awkward and I think most people assume that I'm messing with them.
Being in my mid 30's and not having any kids, never married, not having anything to relate to anyone about, plus being socially awkward, makes it difficult.
Asking questions and being genuine helps. Being interested in their shit is extremely becoming, people love that shit. -
2017-10-07 at 3:14 PM UTChttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%22Women_are_wonderful%22_effect
Both men and women are biased against men. To a certain extent you just have to put up with it because you probably are too. Most people are vapid cunts that don't appreciate genuine people. If people did like you most people would just waste your time and screw you over. There are only like 1 percent of people that are worth a shit and you should only spend energy on those people. I think if the people here were honest, most of them have this same problem. The not being happy with your family is a double whammy because girls like boys who like their moms and shit. Sometimes you just have to demand respect and not take anything less, eveb if you have to be an asshole about, sometimes people will like you more after you stand up for yourself. -
2017-10-07 at 3:49 PM UTCRespect can't be demanded, it has to be earned.
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2017-10-07 at 3:50 PM UTC
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2017-10-07 at 3:59 PM UTCRespect can be demanded from the weak. Earning respect from them is arbitrary and meaningless. Their life is just series of whims and you can be a positive or negative whim in their life, or you can be a fist and a demand. Subconsciously they love it and they want to call you daddy.
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2017-10-07 at 4:08 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien I'd like to be more extroverted and social. I'd like to be able to talk normally with other people.
This is an issue though. I haven't done anything or been anywhere, so I think that people think I'm lying to them. They talk about things that I can't relate to what-so-ever. Vacations, friends, clubs, family, all kinds of things that I can't relate to. It leaves me looking awkward and I think most people assume that I'm messing with them.
Being in my mid 30's and not having any kids, never married, not having anything to relate to anyone about, plus being socially awkward, makes it difficult.
your situation is exactly same as mine but what your confused with is others feeling about you.
you see .... when people talked about their mundane shits with you, it means they LIKE you and wanted to be friends.
mundane shits like vacations, friends, clubs, family, all kinds of things is like the underbelly of their personality ....
and like Bill Krozby said ..... animals only show their underbelly to you when they trusted you completely and wanted you to touch them ....
tldr : your being liked and you dont know it. -
2017-10-07 at 4:16 PM UTCThat or in demanding respect you simultaneously earn it, its not something you do everyday if you actually want people to like you but if someone is treating you unfairly on a whim and you are forced to be around them in a job or circle of friends you have to put your foot down and use your intellectual prowess to beat them into submission.
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2017-10-08 at 4:05 AM UTCI think I put off a bad vibe. It has tio be the way I look.
I am in Portland, bar hooping, alone. So I go into this place that is like a gambling bar. It has horse races on and people are at a table playing poker. As soon as I walk in, I get bad looks. The bar tender looked like he wanted to fight me.
It has to be the way I look. Maybe its my shaved head. Or a scar on my face.
I can't figure it out. I stopped to get Thai food. Then Ill try again. Then a strip club.
Let me know what to do. -
2017-10-08 at 4:07 AM UTCA hidden camera is a good idea. I'm down for it.
I have to know what it is.
