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People Don't Like Me
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2017-10-06 at 3:32 PM UTCWhat could I be doing that makes people not like me? I've noticed throughout my life that people definitely do not like me. They walk by someone and say "hi" and talk, walk by me and say nothing or say hi in a way that shows they don't like me, and then walk by another person and say "hi, how are you". I never really cared before but now I'm trying to figure out why nobody has ever liked me.
My family has always treated me like shit. My mother use to admit that she didn't want to have me and openly admitted that she had an abortion after she had my older brother. They've always been close with each other but they made it clear that they don't like me. So I stopped associating with them like ten years ago.
At my last long-term job, in cold storage, I started off working really hard and was respectful to everyone. Immediately I could tell that my supervisor was trying to get me to quit. He liked all of the other new guys but made it clear that he didn't like me. So I started fucking shit up after about six months.
I don't want to be a piece of shit. I just want to be normal, but it seems as if everyone dislikes me and treats me unfairly. It's very obvious that people don't like me. I've always just vented by doing bad things but I've stopped and now I can't figure out why people hate me.
I've began making changes in an attempt to get people to like me. I've began to lose weight and started reading different self help books on socializing, but still, nobody likes me. Sometimes people are nice to me, but it always turns out that they are trying to trick me.
What could it be? ): -
2017-10-06 at 3:36 PM UTCimagery required for accurate diagnosis.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-10-06 at 3:48 PM UTC
Originally posted by SBTlauien What could I be doing that makes people not like me? I've noticed throughout my life that people definitely do not like me. They walk by someone and say "hi" and talk, walk by me and say nothing or say hi in a way that shows they don't like me, and then walk by another person and say "hi, how are you". I never really cared before but now I'm trying to figure out why nobody has ever liked me.
My family has always treated me like shit. My mother use to admit that she didn't want to have me and openly admitted that she had an abortion after she had my older brother. They've always been close with each other but they made it clear that they don't like me. So I stopped associating with them like ten years ago.
At my last long-term job, in cold storage, I started off working really hard and was respectful to everyone. Immediately I could tell that my supervisor was trying to get me to quit. He liked all of the other new guys but made it clear that he didn't like me. So I started fucking shit up after about six months.
I don't want to be a piece of shit. I just want to be normal, but it seems as if everyone dislikes me and treats me unfairly. It's very obvious that people don't like me. I've always just vented by doing bad things but I've stopped and now I can't figure out why people hate me.
I've began making changes in an attempt to get people to like me. I've began to lose weight and started reading different self help books on socializing, but still, nobody likes me. Sometimes people are nice to me, but it always turns out that they are trying to trick me.
What could it be? ):
Probably your gut microbacteria. -
2017-10-06 at 3:53 PM UTC
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2017-10-06 at 4:17 PM UTCbling ownedThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2017-10-06 at 4:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by Bill Krozby this. or you just have a messed up personality.
personally for me theres a lot of people that don't like me, but theres also a lot that do so I don't really mind too much.
i think you confused peoples tolerance of your existence for liking you.
have you asked if they really liked you or merely trying to be a good buddhist ??? -
2017-10-06 at 4:33 PM UTC
Originally posted by benny vader i think you confused peoples tolerance of your existence for liking you.
have you asked if they really liked you or merely trying to be a good buddhist ???
I'm sure some people do just tolerate me,
But
I'm not confused. And having to ask someone if they like/love you is kinda cringey/insecure. -
2017-10-06 at 4:36 PM UTCAs long as my kitty kat loves me thats all that really matters
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2017-10-06 at 4:49 PM UTC
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2017-10-06 at 4:49 PM UTCstunt like a actor
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2017-10-06 at 5:47 PM UTCYou're turning into Enter.
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2017-10-06 at 6:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Dargo You're turning into Enter.
I'm not fat though, and I'm highly motivated to fix myself. I'm not just going to sit around and whine.
In fact, it's stripper night. Why not? I got to have some fun.
I just want to get better and be normal. I don't want to have to vent back onto society. As the years go by, I've noticed that I get healthier, but my venting gets worse. I'd rather be normal. -
2017-10-06 at 6:12 PM UTCwhy u say yes wen u mean no
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2017-10-06 at 6:13 PM UTCwhen u said ur gonna do but u dont
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2017-10-06 at 6:56 PM UTCHonestly, since they are that superficial, they are not even worthy of your reflection. 99% of the people in the world these days are worthless bags of garbage, and that's a fact. They may be more nice to other people simply because superficial people attract other superficial people. They get in their comfort zone when they meet up with monsters of their own kind. Don't let it bother you! If you are a good person, it is only natural and expected that you wouldn't click with the majority of the despicable scum which currently infest this planet.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
